# 6 - Why is it so Hard to ask for Help? Embracing Support Without Shame! - The WHY Matters Podcast
01/31/24 • 41 min
It’s Fine to ask for help!
Welcome to 'The Why Matters Podcast,' where we explore life lessons, things we often take for granted, and everything in between, gathered from our decade-long full-time travel lifestyle. Each week, we'll delve deep into the 'why' behind the choices we humans make in life and the positive results that stem from a strong sense of purpose.
In this episode, we discuss the importance of seeking help. Living in Full-Time Travel presents various issues and struggles along the way. Due to the mindset instilled by our parents, we have maintained the mentality of surviving without assistance. However, it's time for a change in 2024! We kicked off the year by seeking our first bit of help—borrowing our parents' car for six months. They have an old one lying around, and we want to avoid unnecessary paperwork; it's undoubtedly a win-win situation. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness but rather a demonstration of the mindset of a strong person who utilizes their resources wisely.
Let “Help” be our word of the year!
@2:35 Where are we?
@6:52 Our Journey of asking Help late
@13:32 Culture of no failure, surviving solo
@20:36 "Go-it-alone" attitude.
@26:36 Harming by praising self-reliance
@28:39 Finally asking for help
@31:53 How can we improve asking for help?
@34:35 This week’s challenge.
Things We Mentioned
Harvard Business Review: https://hbr.org/2023/07/why-its-so-hard-to-ask-for-help
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It’s Fine to ask for help!
Welcome to 'The Why Matters Podcast,' where we explore life lessons, things we often take for granted, and everything in between, gathered from our decade-long full-time travel lifestyle. Each week, we'll delve deep into the 'why' behind the choices we humans make in life and the positive results that stem from a strong sense of purpose.
In this episode, we discuss the importance of seeking help. Living in Full-Time Travel presents various issues and struggles along the way. Due to the mindset instilled by our parents, we have maintained the mentality of surviving without assistance. However, it's time for a change in 2024! We kicked off the year by seeking our first bit of help—borrowing our parents' car for six months. They have an old one lying around, and we want to avoid unnecessary paperwork; it's undoubtedly a win-win situation. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness but rather a demonstration of the mindset of a strong person who utilizes their resources wisely.
Let “Help” be our word of the year!
@2:35 Where are we?
@6:52 Our Journey of asking Help late
@13:32 Culture of no failure, surviving solo
@20:36 "Go-it-alone" attitude.
@26:36 Harming by praising self-reliance
@28:39 Finally asking for help
@31:53 How can we improve asking for help?
@34:35 This week’s challenge.
Things We Mentioned
Harvard Business Review: https://hbr.org/2023/07/why-its-so-hard-to-ask-for-help
PATREON
https://www.patreon.com/worldtowning
If you would like to support us in a greater capacity where you can snag some cool swag, plus join us for monthly LIVE chats, and get huge discounts on future group trips. Thank you!
GROUP TRIPS
https://worldtowningvoyages.com/
Come travel with us! Our company is owned (and 100% guided) by a family of four full-time travelers. Our passion is building bridges between cultures, fueling personal development, and expanding hearts and minds alongside a community of like-hearted individuals.
COACHING
https://worldtowning.com/learn-2/
Are you looking for guidance to accomplish that big goal supporting your why? We are the couple for you. Let’s set up a chat to get you started on your dream life, whether it is full-time travel or something else.
NEWSLETTER
https://worldtowning.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=32de323857a58dc5ab35b897f&id=b0760c6efa
10 years full-time travel with 2 world schooled kids, currently on a sailboat, writing about a travel lifestyle, education, equality & what it’s like to live an unconventional life.
MERCHANDISE
Yes - We have Merch!- https://worldtowningvoyages.com/elements/merch/
OUR SOCIALS
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Previous Episode
#5 - Why you should do those physical adventures before it’s too late. Our most dramatic decision yet. - The WHY Matters Podcast
Just go for it!
Welcome to 'The Why Matters Podcast,' where we explore life lessons, things we often take for granted, and everything in between, gathered from our decade-long full-time travel lifestyle. Each week, we'll delve deep into the 'why' behind the choices we humans make in life and the positive results that stem from a strong sense of purpose.
In this episode, we emphasize the importance of time. We went trekking this year, and it has been an eye-opener. People may not have the money or the capability to travel now, but know that we have the time and the agility to do it. As we get older, things may become different and harder to cope with. Will loves running, but when his knee developed problems, it took longer to heal than anticipated. What we are trying to advocate is 'Do it now!' because you are more capable now than in your future.
@3:56 Where are we?
@7:00 Seize the thrill of physical journeys!
@11:24 Our 2024 highlight: The Big Hike!
@14:36 When is the best time to Travel?
@18:46 Embark on adventures now, before age sets in.
@22:52 Preparing for our New Adventure
@24:38 The Jim Fixx Story.
@27:57 Book Recommendation: Die with Zero by Bill Perkins
@32:53 This week’s challenge
Things We Mentioned
The Complete Book of Running, by Jim Fixx. https://amzn.to/3u4GmuS
Is Die with zero by Bill Perkins, https://amzn.to/42fWTZx
Resources:
PATREON
https://www.patreon.com/worldtowning
If you would like to support us in a greater capacity where you can snag some cool swag, plus join us for monthly LIVE chats, and get huge discounts on future group trips. Thank you!
GROUP TRIPS
https://worldtowningvoyages.com/
Come travel with us! Our company is owned (and 100% guided) by a family of four full-time travelers. Our passion is building bridges between cultures, fueling personal development, and expanding hearts and minds alongside a community of like-hearted individuals.
COACHING
https://worldtowning.com/learn-2/
Are you looking for guidance to accomplish that big goal supporting your why? We are the couple for you. Let’s set up a chat to get you started on your dream life, whether it is full-time travel or something else.
NEWSLETTER
https://worldtowning.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=32de323857a58dc5ab35b897f&id=b0760c6efa
10 years full-time travel with 2 world schooled kids, currently on a sailboat, writing about a travel lifestyle, education, equality & what it’s like to live an unconventional life.
MERCHANDISE
Yes - We have Merch! - https://worldtowningvoyages.com/elements/merch/
OUR SOCIALS
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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/worldtowning
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/worldtowning
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#7 The power of saying NO. How one choice changed our entire life. - The WHY Matters Podcast
Saying ‘No’ is fine
Welcome to 'The Why Matters Podcast,' where we explore life lessons, things we often take for granted, and everything in between, gathered from our decade-long full-time travel lifestyle. Each week, we'll delve deep into the 'why' behind the choices we humans make in life and the positive results that stem from a strong sense of purpose.
In this episode, we address making crucial decisions and how saying no can actually change our life. Our life was at a crossroads, contemplating a move to Madrid and altering my plans because I was expecting a child. We'll talk about the importance of setting boundaries and concentrating on your priorities. Learn how rejecting the norm can change things and lead to a feeling of liberation and transformation.
@4:48 Where are we?
@10:13 The Power of Saying “No”
@20:16 The Idea Takes Root
@24:01 Finding Magic in the Chaos
@30:40 Reflecting on Career Decisions
@34:19 Trusting Your Gut
@36:08 Testing Comfort Zones
@40:29 This Week’s Challenge
Resources:
Book: Bronnie Ware The Top Five Regrets of the Dying
PATREON
https://www.patreon.com/worldtowning
If you would like to support us in a greater capacity where you can snag some cool swag, plus join us for monthly LIVE chats, and get huge discounts on future group trips. Thank you!
GROUP TRIPS
https://worldtowningvoyages.com/
Come travel with us! Our company is owned (and 100% guided) by a family of four full-time travelers. Our passion is building bridges between cultures, fueling personal development, and expanding hearts and minds alongside a community of like-hearted individuals.
COACHING
https://worldtowning.com/learn-2/
Are you looking for guidance to accomplish that big goal supporting your why? We are the couple for you. Let’s set up a chat to get you started on your dream life, whether it is full-time travel or something else.
NEWSLETTER
https://worldtowning.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=32de323857a58dc5ab35b897f&id=b0760c6efa
10 years full-time travel with 2 world schooled kids, currently on a sailboat, writing about a travel lifestyle, education, equality & what it’s like to live an unconventional life.
MERCHANDISE
Yes - We have Merch! - https://worldtowningvoyages.com/elements/merch/
OUR SOCIALS
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