
Interview #39: Stop Being Nice (Dating & Relationships with Dr. Robert Glover)
07/22/22 • 90 min
Dr. Robert Glover is an author, psychotherapist and speaker. He is the author of bestselling men's self help book: No More Mr. Nice Guy. Dr. Glover has devoted his career as a psychotherapist to freeing men from what he was dubbed the "Nice Guy Syndrome": trying too hard to please others while neglecting their own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness.
In this episode we discuss:
- The problems with the "Nice Guy" archetype
- The meaning of real kindness
- The path to integrating aggression into your life
- How to date in 2022
- The problem with dating apps
- The value of facing one's fears
Interviewed by Dr Alex Curmi
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Dr. Robert Glover is an author, psychotherapist and speaker. He is the author of bestselling men's self help book: No More Mr. Nice Guy. Dr. Glover has devoted his career as a psychotherapist to freeing men from what he was dubbed the "Nice Guy Syndrome": trying too hard to please others while neglecting their own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness.
In this episode we discuss:
- The problems with the "Nice Guy" archetype
- The meaning of real kindness
- The path to integrating aggression into your life
- How to date in 2022
- The problem with dating apps
- The value of facing one's fears
Interviewed by Dr Alex Curmi
Give feedback here - [email protected]
Follow us here: Twitter @thinkingmindpod Instagram @thinkingmindpodcast
SUPPORT THE PODCAST: buymeacoffee.com/thinkingmind
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