The Stronger Marriage Podcast with Trey & Lea

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Sex can be one of the greatest things in your marriage when it’s going well ... at the same time, it can be one of the most frustrating things when things aren’t clicking.
Topics covered on this episode ...
* Reasons for a sexless marriage.
* In many marriages wives have a higher sex drive than their husband.
* How to meet in the middle on frequency.
* How to better communicate your sexual needs.
* Benefits in your marriage of a healthy sex life.
Link to Sexless Marriage Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/842692/7831312

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Feel like you are drifting apart? Need to reconnect? Here are 5 Things we discuss in detail that you can do to RECONNECT with your spouse.
1. Fall Back into Friendship.
2. Reconnect Intellectually by talking.
3. Give your spouse daily affirmations and compliments.
4. Reconnect Sexually.
5. Connect Spiritually.
Date Night Questions from Point 2:

1. What is your favorite memory of dating me?
2. What is one of your favorite features of me?
3. What is one of your favorite sexual memories of ours?
4. What is something I do for you that you really like?
5. What did you want to be when you grew up?
6. What all do you remember about our first date?
7. Which of your parents are you most like?
8. Which of our kids are most like you?
9. What’s my best physical feature?
10. What do you like most that I do in bed?
11. What’s your favorite time of day to be intimate?
12. Do you like kissing or hugging more?
13. When did you know you really liked me?
14. What do you think we need to work on in our marriage?
15. If you got sick, do you think I would be there to care for you?
16. When did you know you wanted to kiss me?
17. What’s your favorite non-sex activity that we do together?
18. As a child, did you trust both of your parents?
19. What is your favorite thing I ever did for a special occasion for you?
20. Where have you always wanted to travel?
21. What was your favorite class in HS?
22. Who was your first crush?

Here's the link to Recreational Enjoyment Inventory lists: https://www.marriagebuilders.com/recreational-enjoyment-inventory.htm

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How to pursue your husband
1. Brag on him.

2. Do something with him that he likes to do. It makes him feel important.

3. Initiate sex. Wear something sexy bed.

4. Pray for him.

5. Flirt with him.
6. Dress up for him.
7. Make him a priority over job, kids, hobbies, friends, family ... everything but God.
8. Put a filter over your mouth. You don’t have to say everything you think. Focus on what he does right ... overlook some things you could be critical about.
9. Learn his love language.

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We answer your questions this week on the Stronger Marriage Podcast
1. How can we get the romance back into our marriage?

2. How do you get your spouse to see his family connection is too close?

3. I cheated and hate what I did. How can I help my marriage to heal?

4. Advice for a spouse wanting to stay and work on a marriage when the other one doesn’t?

5. What’s the first question you’d ask a couple who came to you and said they were thinking about getting a divorce?

6. Best and worst marriage advice you’ve heard?

7. How can I learn to accept that my wife has much less intimate desire than me?

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