I’ll Just Be Over Here Doing What You Said I Couldn’t Do

04/08/25 • 16 min

🎧 Episode Summary:

In this episode of The Solo Grind, I’m sharing a little truth talk about all the times I’ve been told, “You can’t.” From standing up to bullies on a concrete bench as a kid to launching a business people thought I wasn’t “qualified” to run, I’ve heard it all—and guess what? I did it anyway.

These limitations weren’t always meant to hurt. Most of the time, they came from people who loved me, but were stuck in their own fear. Still, I’ve spent a lifetime proving them wrong—not out of spite, but because I know what I’m capable of (and spoiler alert: success looks real cute on a “can’t”).

So if you’ve ever been underestimated, doubted, or encouraged to play it small—this one’s for you. Let’s talk about quiet confidence, bold moves, and living a life that doesn’t wait for anyone’s permission.

What I hope you get from this episode:

☕ A reminder that someone else’s doubt has nothing to do with your potential.
☕ Encouragement to stop waiting for permission and start moving toward what you want.
☕ Proof that success can be quiet, steady—and incredibly satisfying.
☕ A little boost to trust yourself, even when others don’t get it.
☕ Permission to be bold, do the thing, and let your results speak louder than any “can’t.”

This week's inspirational tune - Can't Have by Pitbull
https://open.spotify.com/track/5vNulf3Z6xUrBzGy5hcFgM?si=614962b6c2454bd6

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🎧 Episode Summary:

What I hope you get from this episode:

This week's inspirational tune - Can't Have by Pitbull
https://open.spotify.com/track/5vNulf3Z6xUrBzGy5hcFgM?si=614962b6c2454bd6

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Be a Good Girl and Don't Make Waves!

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🎧 Episode Summary:
In this episode of The Solo Grind, I’m getting real about what it means to be a woman in business—especially for those of us who grew up being told to follow the rules, stay in line, and not make waves. Spoiler alert: The hell I won’t.
I’m reflecting on my journey as a solo entrepreneur, the unique challenges we face, and the ridiculous limitations society tries to place on us. We’re talking about the power of showing up as your full, unapologetic self, celebrating how far you’ve come, and proving the naysayers wrong—without waiting for permission.
So grab your coffee and let’s talk about why playing small was never an optio
What I hope you get from this episode...
☕ Permission to take up space. You don’t have to be quieter, smaller, or less ambitious to make others comfortable. Own your success.
☕ A reminder that you’re not alone. If you’ve ever felt like you didn’t quite fit the mold, welcome to the club—you’re in good company.
☕ The courage to break the “good girl” rules. You don’t have to follow the path others laid out for you. Create your own.
☕ The push to celebrate your wins. You’ve worked hard to get where you are—don’t downplay your success or wait for someone else to acknowledge it.
☕ The confidence to do business your way. You don’t have to run things the way others expect. Build a business (and life) that makes you excited to wake up in the morning.
Links to some really cool stuff:

Check out the She Built This Podcast by Emily Aborn - an oldie but still a goodie!
Brent Cobb, "Keep em' on they toes" https://open.spotify.com/track/0f388trqcZyqGbPJUqGWpx?si=97bb6407c50a4fca
Links to Connect with me
☕ Book a Consult HERE! (https://caffeinecreative.io/consult/)
☕ Website — CaffeineCreative.io (http://caffeinecreative.io/)
☕ Facebook — Teresa Schlup, The Caffeine Creative (@thecaffeinecreative) https://www.facebook.com/thecaffeinecreative
☕ Instagram — The Caffeine Creative (@thecaffeinecreative)
☕ LinkedIn — Teresa Schlup (https://www.linkedin.com/in/teresaschlup/)

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What Would You Do When All Doors Feel Closed?

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🎧 Episode Summary:

This week on The Solo Grind, I’m digging into a tough question: What would you do if it felt like every door was closed and success was nowhere in sight? This conversation was inspired by a real-life moment where someone asked for my opinion—and what they really wanted was permission to compromise their growth and take the easy way out.

Instead, I was honest. I shared exactly what I would do when it feels like the odds are stacked and the setbacks keep piling up.

In this episode, I’m talking about the power of honest conversations, why fake positivity doesn’t help anyone, and how to find your way forward—no matter how many “no’s” you hear. Because my friends whining won’t move you forward. But resilience will.

Pour yourself a cup, hit play, and let’s have a real conversation.

What I hope you take away from this episode:

☕ Mindset shifts that keep you going when things get tough
☕ The 60-second gratitude exercise I swear by
☕ Why rejection might just be redirection
☕ And how to hold your head high, even when life sucks

Links to connect with me...