RMP 077 - Tantric Sex Secrets: Taking Back the Taboo with Nic Warner
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07/04/19 • 54 min
What does the word Tantric Sex bring up for you? For me, it elicits wild sexual scenes for those who have mastered certain techniques by training for years. Nic Warner is here to save the day, because Tantra is much simpler than I thought. It can transform intimacy for us all, no matter how much we know about sex. Our sex lives and our personal power are intimately linked, so this episode goes well beyond the bed. Topics that Nic covers include the importance of presence, rewiring our brains after porn abuse, and why ejaculations and orgasms are separate events.
Shows Notes:
- Why is sex associated with being a self initiation into manhood?
- How do we teach our children about sex?
- Porn is an indicator of where we are on our sexual journey
- If you need porn to be aroused, there is some rewiring work to be done
- A woman is turned on by presence, not constant movement
- The importance of self sexual discovery and knowing our bodies
- Making love for the pleasure of it, without needing orgasm
- As men we naturally gravitate towards needing an orgasm, ending, or goal
- Tantra is a Sanskrit words for “to weave”. If tantra was a forest, sex is just a leaf.
- Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things
- The art of semen retention
- Tantra goes well beyond sex, it is about expanding your whole life
- You have about 5000 ejaculations worth of jing over your lifetime.
- Change your relationship with your sexuality, change your life
- Being able to control when we ejaculate is not a skill for enlightened masters, we are ALL capable of doing this with a bit of practice and information.
How To Connect With Nic:
Instagram - Nic Warner
Links on Instagram profile, including info about online Skype coaching and men's workshops in Berlin
Rising Man Links:
What does the word Tantric Sex bring up for you? For me, it elicits wild sexual scenes for those who have mastered certain techniques by training for years. Nic Warner is here to save the day, because Tantra is much simpler than I thought. It can transform intimacy for us all, no matter how much we know about sex. Our sex lives and our personal power are intimately linked, so this episode goes well beyond the bed. Topics that Nic covers include the importance of presence, rewiring our brains after porn abuse, and why ejaculations and orgasms are separate events.
Shows Notes:
- Why is sex associated with being a self initiation into manhood?
- How do we teach our children about sex?
- Porn is an indicator of where we are on our sexual journey
- If you need porn to be aroused, there is some rewiring work to be done
- A woman is turned on by presence, not constant movement
- The importance of self sexual discovery and knowing our bodies
- Making love for the pleasure of it, without needing orgasm
- As men we naturally gravitate towards needing an orgasm, ending, or goal
- Tantra is a Sanskrit words for “to weave”. If tantra was a forest, sex is just a leaf.
- Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things
- The art of semen retention
- Tantra goes well beyond sex, it is about expanding your whole life
- You have about 5000 ejaculations worth of jing over your lifetime.
- Change your relationship with your sexuality, change your life
- Being able to control when we ejaculate is not a skill for enlightened masters, we are ALL capable of doing this with a bit of practice and information.
How To Connect With Nic:
Instagram - Nic Warner
Links on Instagram profile, including info about online Skype coaching and men's workshops in Berlin
Rising Man Links:
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MMM 053 - The Men Who've Gone Before
We didn’t invent ourselves from scratch, we are the product of the men who have gone before us. It’s a blessing to be able to draw on such wisdom, and formulate our unique avatar of manhood. There are countless archetypes, and we have the power to integrate those that work for us. This episode is about deepening that respect, and remembering that we are not alone in this. You are a vital thread of the masculine fabric, just by your being.
Show Notes:
- Remember the men who have helped us along the way
- We have the honor of witnessing a wide array of masculine role models
- We formulate our own avatar of manhood from this sampling
- Witnessing, modeling, adapting - ways that the masculine archetype lives on
- You are a vital thread of the masculine fabric
- Stand on the shoulders of giants and LEARN
- Bless and give thanks to the men who have gone before us.
- Wisdom is passed on in strange and mysterious ways
Reflection Questions:
- Who are the men who have helped you along the journey of manhood?
- How can you honor these men?
- Can you identify some of the characteristics that you embody from these men?
Rising Man Links:
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MMM 054 - The Call Of The Couch
When faced with stress and adversity, one of the first instincts is to run straight for a time consuming, safe, easy, comfortable activity. It could be video games, Netflix, social media, weed, etc. We all hear that call, telling us to just “check out” for a bit, to de-stress, then we can face our lives tomorrow. Well, the truth is that “tomorrow” will never come. We must make the empowered decision to pursue our mission, in spite of the call of the couch, frequently. Tune in and learn great tools that make saying NO to the couch, easy.
Show Notes:
- We all know the voices - “one more episode, one more bowl pack, one more beer”
- A man left to his own devices will sell out to his vices, and hide out on his mission.
- Don’t let your couch get TOO comfortable with you
- The solution is turning up the volume on the things in our lives that are healthy and aligned to our mission.
- There is no off switch to the call of the couch, this challenge will always be there.
- Energy follows attention. Apply that rule intentionally!
- Meditation and mental discipline practices help train our attention span, making us better equipped to stick to the healthy path.
Reflection Questions:
- The call will always be there, what will you do with that voice?
- What are healthy practices or actions you could take to break from the call of the couch?
Rising Man Links:
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