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The Real Kathy Lee

The Real Kathy Lee

Kathy Lee

The REAL Kathy Lee is an honest podcast for REAL moms. It’s where we talk about real life... real motherhood. Topics will include helicopter parenting, how to really connect with your children, how to find your joy in motherhood, why every mom needs an “all by herself” vacation, how to refrain from jumping in the car and just driving away, and why saying YES is the most powerful response to a young child’s requests.
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The Real Kathy Lee - The Damage of Disengaging

The Damage of Disengaging

The Real Kathy Lee

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07/02/24 • -1 min

Can we talk about parenting?

July 4th is always a favorite holiday for our family. For the past few years, one of my dearest friends on the planet shows up for coffee, long talks, and sitting by the pool. I always try and record a podcast episode during Ash-a- lee’s visit and was so excited that we were able to chat early this morning about a subject that has been on my heart for a few weeks now.

During some recent outings, I have observed lots of little children that appear “starved” for attention. As I began watching closer, I realized that parents are disengaging with the children and it is happening on a regular basis.

The episode sponsored by CTC Math.

Do any of you feel you disengage too often with your kids?

If so, have you noticed a difference in your child’s behavior when you “check-out”? How can we be intentional about engagement so that we help our children become emotionally healthy adults? I get that we need to escape from the burdens of this parenting gig from time to time, but I worry that unless we make a commitment to intentionally engage, we are going to cause damage to our children’s hearts and soul.

Ashley and I suggested the following to help you on this engagement journey:
  1. Keep a basket of books close to the sofa and say YES to reading to your children.
  2. Set a time every day to check social media so that you are not looking on your phone all day long.
  3. Be present.
  4. Participate in family activities (the bowling story).
  5. Ask each child three, open-ended questions every day!

You won’t regret investing in your children’s emotional well -being. Investing when they are young, will pay off during those teen and early adult years.

The post The Damage of Disengaging appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

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The Real Kathy Lee - Are you a good guest? (Replay)
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11/19/24 • -1 min

Many of you will be traveling with young kids during the holidays. My friend, Ashley will be traveling too. She and I had a great chat today about traveling with young kids and tips for being remembered as a good guest.

Thanks to NowProgams for sponsoring this episode.

  1. Make a phone call to the host family. Ask if you need to bring high chairs/portable cribs/ sleeping bags, etc. Also, ask if any special clothes will be needed for events happening during your visit.
  2. Pack some activities in Ziploc bags for the car ride and trip. Blocks, cars, animals, puzzles, books, crayons, stickers and paper work great!
  3. Discuss with your spouse who will put kids to bed each night so that each of you get some “adult” time on your trip.
  4. Ask for the tentative meal schedule and inform hostess of any scheduling conflicts your family has, so everyone can plan.
  5. Ask before doing. Ask about the house rules (no shoes on carpet, no eating in family room, etc...) and let your kids know these up front. Just because you have certain rules at your house doesn’t mean your host family will have the same rules.
  6. Keep your space picked up. Even if you don’t make your bed at home, it is good manners to make your bed, daily when visiting others.
  7. If children are disruptive, remove them from the situation. Very few children suddenly start behaving again after a big meltdown. Often this is due to lack of sleep and extra sugar during the holidays.
  8. Take your host a small token of appreciation (wine, candle, loaf of bread, etc...) and a handwritten note.
  9. Ask what needs to be done with dirty linens. It is standard etiquette to take sheets off bed, fold them and put them on the end of the bed and remake the bed. However, not every host wants that done. Asking is always best.

10.Leave things better than you found them.

Visiting others does not have to be stressful. Preparation should make things easier on you and your host family.

“A Year of Playing Skillfully is the most beautiful, inspiring curriculum I could have imagined and three weeks into our pre-K year, I have fallen completely in love.“ – Meghann

The post Are you a good guest? (Replay) appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

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The Real Kathy Lee - Surviving Summer with Ashley Smoot
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07/09/24 • -1 min

Surviving Summer

Thank you to our episode sponsor, CTC Math.

Well, it was the week of July 4th and summer is in full swing. Boat rides at the lake, sun in the fun at the pool, cookouts, and fireworks. What makes those events even more fun is one of your besties coming in town to celebrate with you.

Ashley and I had a blast hanging out and we decided that we had some thoughts on surviving summer that we wanted to share!

1. Have a flexible routine. If you are like me, the strict schedule goes out the window the minute school is out. Well, let’s be honest, I am not a strict schedule kind of mom. However, we do have tighter routines in the school year, especially bedtime. With four teenagers and a tween at home, sleep is often overlooked in our home. I have to encourage my kids to keep on a decent routine or everyone will be walking around like zombies.

2. Don’t focus on the serious academics during the summer. Take this time to learn a new hobby together, Help your child learn about a topic they have been asking about, read fun books, draw/ paint. Enjoy the FUN in the summer!

3. Find time for YOU. Summer months are make alone time challenging. However, alone time is very needed for moms taking care of children all day. Hire a sitter, swap off with a friend, ask your hubby to help you... do whatever it takes to get a few minutes to yourself on a regular basis.

Have fun! Give your children (and yourself) permission to discover, explore and have a sense of wonder!!!

Find a way to #sayyes today.

Don’t forget to subscribe to my podcast and leave a review on iTunes!!!

Also, to thank you for listening, you can receive a 10% discount on any purchase atThe Homegrown Preschooler by using the code, THEREALKATHYLEE.

The post Surviving Summer with Ashley Smoot appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

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The Real Kathy Lee - Looking in the Mirror

Looking in the Mirror

The Real Kathy Lee

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03/06/24 • -1 min

Looking In the Mirror

This week I spent hours and hours talking with some friends that were going through some pretty serious issues. Ladies, we need each other. This week isn’t about your toddler biting or your four year-old who wets the bed. This week, let’s talk honestly about YOU... and me... and all of us.

self-a·ware·ness

ˈˌself əˈwernəs/

noun

  1. conscious knowledge of one’s own character, feelings, motives, and desires.

“the process can be painful but it leads to greater self-awareness”

Would you say that you are self-aware? How does one become self-aware? Does it even matter? On this week’s episode I share my thoughts on this subject and my journey of self-awareness. I fully believe that our past influences our present. Believe me, I don’t have it all figured out and the number one thing I tell everyone is GIVE YOURSELF GRACE. We all need it!

I suggest the following as you look in the mirror:

  1. Be still
  2. Be honest
  3. Be vulnerable
  4. Share your journey with a few people you can trust.
  5. Be willing to learn.

Check out Andy Stanley’s sermon, What Happy Couples Know.

Hugs for you as you take a look in the mirror this week. May you find the strength to be honest with yourself and address anything that might have been hiding or tucked away.

Say YES and have a great week!!!

Thanks for listening. If you have topics you would like for me to discuss or people you would like to hear from, let me know. Just email me at [email protected] or shoot me a message on social media.

Don’t forget to subscribe to my podcast and leave a review on iTunes!!!

Thank you to The Homegrown Preschooler for sponsoring this Podcast! Check out the blog post Kathy mentioned, Farmhouse Schoolhouse, to read more about A Year of Playing Skillfully.


Thanks to our sponsor, Harper Collins Christian, and the Kingdom Girl’s Bible

Girls will discover the power of faith in this beautiful Bible that features women of the Bible. This is the ideal Bible for girls on their journey of faith! This special Bible is specifically crafted to highlight the stories and lessons of the inspiring, famous, and sometimes infamous women of the Bible. With over 400 engaging features, colorful illustrations, and helpful notes, this Bible is perfect for girls ages 8 to 12 as they learn about the strong and faithful women who came before them. Visit the website for more information.


Also, to thank you for listening, you can receive a 10% discount on any purchase atThe Homegrown Preschooler by using the code, THEREALKATHYLEE.

The post Looking in the Mirror appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

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OOOOOHHHH, I love the show this week. Over the past year, I have had the pleasure of getting to know Graeme Pitman, creative director of The Circe Institute. As I have watched his social media accounts, I have giggled and sat in amazement at the connecting moments he has had with his three young children. I thought it would be fun to have Graeme on the show and talk about his family and the way they make the everyday moments matter.

Thanks to our sponsor, Harper Collins Christian, and the Kingdom Girl’s Bible

Girls will discover the power of faith in this beautiful Bible that features women of the Bible. This is the ideal Bible for girls on their journey of faith! This special Bible is specifically crafted to highlight the stories and lessons of the inspiring, famous, and sometimes infamous women of the Bible. With over 400 engaging features, colorful illustrations, and helpful notes, this Bible is perfect for girls ages 8 to 12 as they learn about the strong and faithful women who came before them. Visit the website for more information.

In this episode, Graeme Pitman shares that time does matter in parenting and that quality time requires quantity time. When I watched the video of Graeme and his son Rowan talking about Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak, I was thrilled to witness a beautiful conversation where a child was invited to share his honest thoughts and interpretation of the story. I asked Graeme to tell us why he made this inspiring video.

One of my favorite posts on Graeme’s Instagram account was that of his daughter belly laughing. I enjoyed imagining the conversation that occurred in their home to cause such a grand laugh. Even though his life looks picturesque on social media, Graeme assures me that they are not a fairy tale family. He insists they are just a mom and dad trying to relax and enjoy the journey.

Visit Graeme’s site to learn more about his gifts as a photographer and creative director.

I hope you make time to connect with your kids today!!

You’ve got this!

**Above Photography provided by Graeme Pitman – Pitman Photography.


Find a way to #sayyes today.

Don’t forget to subscribe to my podcast and leave a review on iTunes!!!

Thank you to The Homegrown Preschooler for sponsoring this Podcast! Check out the blog post Kathy mentioned, Farmhouse Schoolhouse, to read more about A Year of Playing Skillfully.


Also, to thank you for listening, you can receive a 10% discount on any purchase atThe Homegrown Preschooler by using the code, THEREALKATHYLEE.

The post How to Intentionally Connect with Your Children with Graeme Pitman appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

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The Real Kathy Lee - Showing LOVE after Valentine’s Day is OVER!
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02/09/24 • -1 min

Showing Love After Valentine’s Day is Over

Valentine’s Day is a fun holiday for me as a mom. I so enjoy getting up early to write my kids love notes, set the table with candles and red, sparkly runners and cook a special breakfast. I want my children to know on this day that they are loved!

Once Valentine’s Day was over, I started questioning my attitude towards the other 364 days of the year. Did I work hard to make sure my kids know they were loved everyday? If so, how do I accomplish that and how do I encourage you to love your kids every February 15th – February 13

I came up with a few things...

  1. Write love notes throughout the year.

    Be creative. Write on their bathroom mirror with lipstick, leave notes on the pillows, tape notes to the back of the seat where they sit in the car, put notes in their books, in their backpacks, in their lunchboxes. Share specific things you love about them or positive things you have noticed them doing.
  2. Spend TIME with them.I recently saw a news clip about young children and tablet time. The reporter stated that it is fine for young children to be on devices as long as adults were engaged with the children. They showed a video of one child and two adults sitting on a sofa. All three people were on their own device. This is NOT what I am talking about. Real time with your kids means devices are put away. Conversations are happening. Dinner Time, time in the car, while tucking in at night, etc... In order to have a real relationship with anyone, you MUST spend time with him or her.
  3. Honor their work.If your child paints a picture for you, hang it up. If they want to sing you a song, stop what you are doing and listen to it (it usually takes less than two minutes). If they want to read you their story, listen! Honoring their work will teach them that their work matters!
  4. Be careful with your conversations.We have all been guilty of getting on the phone with a girlfriend and firing off. Maybe you were upset with a friend, your partner, or even your child? If you think your child is busy playing and not paying attention, WRONG. They are listening to every word. Decide to share positive things instead... about your friend, your partner, and your child. Words are powerful so choose them carefully.
  5. Create a home that is welcoming for your children and their friends.I am honored when kids say they feel comfortable in my home. I love it when my kids want us to host the party, the bible study, and the special event. I want every one who walks into my home to feel welcomed and relaxed. Hopefully, your children will want to follow your lead and have that kind of home when they grow up and leave the nest.

I am far from perfect as a mom. However, I am confident that my kids will know that I love them and I want them to grow up and love well.

How will you show love today???

Thanks for listening. If you have topics you would like for me to discuss or people you would like to hear from, let me know.

Find a way to #sayyes today.

Don’t forget to subscribe to my podcast and leave a review on iTunes!!!

Thank you to The Homegrown Preschooler for sponsoring this Podcast! Check out the blog post Kathy mentioned, Farmhouse Schoolhouse, to read more about A Year of Playing Skillfully.

Also, to thank you for listening, you can receive a 10% discount on any purchase atThe Homegrown Preschooler by using the code, THEREALKATHYLEE.

Thanks to our sponsor, A Fanthom Presents Film – The Ark and The Darkness – Movie Trailer here: NoahsFlood

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The Real Kathy Lee - Best of The Real Kathy Lee:  Let’s Get Organized!
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09/19/23 • 23 min

This week, the second top podcast episode of all time! Let’s Get Organized!

Things don’t always work out as planned, but I have learned that it is usually for a good reason. I hope that is the case with this week’s episode. I was scheduled to talk to my good friend, Mary Ann Kohl (author and process art expert). However, Mary Ann had to cancel so I called up my buddy ASH-A-LEE in Nashville. We decided to chat about one of the topics I get asked about THE MOST, organization.

People often think that because I am the queen of “say yes” and “get messy” I have a very messy house. Not true. Well, it CAN get messy. However, I am best when my house is organized and everything has a place. Just this week, I tweaked the organization of my pantry. See below.

I shared some basic thoughts about organization on today’s episode.

  1. Find a place for everything and make that place known.
  2. Minimize your stuff. If you haven’t used it in a year, chances are you are not going to use it. This goes for clothes, shoes, toys, and kitchen utensils.
  3. Less is BEST. As parents we are guilty of thinking our kids need lots of different toys. False. Choose quality over quantity and rotate toys in and out.
  4. It is easier to say yes when everything has a place (ie – paint supplies, legos, etc...)
  5. Organizing children is easier in an organized space.
  6. Have children work together in order to free of individual time with each child. I love that Ashley sent me the following pics a few hours after our podcast. She immediately implemented some of my suggestions. Way to go Ashley!

I hope you make time to connect with your kids today!!

Want to get organized, be sure and check out the monthly freebie from Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network: Printable Checklists


Special Thanks to Our Network Sponsor – Route 60

Thank you to this podcast episode sponsor: Route 60 – The Biblical Highway. In theaters September 18th & 19th only. Please check the website to learn more about this wonderful movie.


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The Real Kathy Lee - Keeping Your Calm This School Year
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08/04/23 • -1 min

Keeping Your Calm This School Year

Special Replay sponsored by CTCMath.com

As this school year approaches, I thought I would share some of my plans to have a calm year! This year I have one 7th grader, one 9th grader, two high school seniors, one in Estethecian School and one junior in college. Whew, that is a lot. I will be honest, the first couple of weeks I find myself struggling to get us all on the same page. Between school, jobs, sports, etc... keeping this house running smoothly is a challenge.

Here are some of my tips for surviving back to school:

  1. Create Dream Posters.
  2. Create a Healthy Meal Plan.
  3. Follow Through on Healthy Meal Plan.
  4. Plan a family night to make dream posters. You will need poster board, markers, magazine, and glue. Invite your children to create a dream poster and display them in your home.
  5. Have a Dream Poster Date Night with your partner/spouse.
  6. SLEEP... get sleep. Make sure everyone in the home is getting enough sleep.
  7. Organize your space and remember less is better. Don’t forget to create a cozy corner for reading books/getting away.
  8. Take time to watch and listen. What are your kids talking about, playing with, dreaming of? What pushes their buttons, brings them joy, challenges them?
  9. Create a realistic routine that you can live with. Encourage children to stick with routine.
  10. Be Flexible – If something isn’t working, don’t be afraid to change it.

    **Show Notes: “Keeping Your Calm This School Year” – The Real Kathy Lee**

    **Introduction:**
    – Welcome to “The Real Kathy Lee” podcast on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
    – In this episode, Kathy Lee shares her valuable tips for surviving the back-to-school season with grace and composure.
    – As a homeschooling expert, she knows the challenges parents face during this time and offers practical advice to navigate it successfully. **Segment 1: Creating Dream Posters**
    – Kathy Lee’s first tip is to create dream posters with your children.
    – Gather poster board, markers, magazines, and glue for a family night dedicated to this activity.
    – Invite your children to unleash their creativity and make dream posters that represent their aspirations and goals.
    – Display these dream posters proudly in your home, creating a positive and inspiring environment. **Segment 2: Dream Poster Date Night**
    – Take the concept of dream posters a step further with a special date night with your partner or spouse.
    – Spend quality time together creating dream posters that encompass your shared dreams and vision for the future.
    – This activity can be a fun and bonding experience, strengthening your connection as a couple. **Segment 3: Ensuring Healthy Meals**
    – Kathy Lee emphasizes the importance of a healthy meal plan for the family’s well-being.
    – Develop a meal plan that includes nutritious foods and is realistic for your family’s schedule.
    – Follow through on the meal plan to ensure everyone is well-nourished and energized. **Segment 4: The Power of Sleep**
    – Kathy Lee stresses the significance of getting enough sleep for all family members.
    – Establish consistent sleep routines to promote better sleep and overall health.
    – A well-rested family will be better equipped to handle the challenges of the school year. **Segment 5: Organizing Your Space**
    – Create a clutter-free and organized living space for a more peaceful home environment.
    – Encourage a “less is better” mindset when it comes to possessions, and declutter regularly.
    – Designate a cozy corner for reading and relaxation, providing a space for family members to unwind. **Segment 6: Active Listening**
    – Kathy Lee advises parents to actively listen to their children’s thoughts, interests, and concerns.
    – Pay attention to what excites and motivates your kids, as well as what challenges them.
    – This insight will help you better understand and support your children throughout the school year. **Segment 7: Designing Realistic Routines**
    – Develop a practical and feasible daily routine that accommodates the family’s needs and schedules.
    – Encourage children to adhere to the routine, as it provides structure and stability. **Segment 8: Embracing Flexibility**
    – Stay open to change and be flexible when certain aspects of the routine or plans aren’t working.
    – Don’t be afraid to make adjustments to improve the family’s well-being and overall happiness. **Conclusion:**
    – As the school year begins, it’s crucial to maintain your calm and composure.
    – Kathy Lee’s tips, such as creating dream posters, focusing on healthy meals and sleep, organizing your space, active listening, and embracing flexibility, will help you na...
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The Real Kathy Lee - Special Replay:  Schooling Out of the Box with Holly Giles
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08/24/22 • 25 min

What happens when life throws you a curve ball and you suspect that you need to throw out your entire school plan? Holly Giles knows what happens, you throw the plan out the window. If you have ever considered schooling out of the box, you will not want to miss this episode. Holly shares openly about their medical scare, how this rocked her homeschooling world and how their family is thriving today.

Holly was so moved by her children’s success with out of the box style learning that she decided to create The Giles Frontier. The Giles Frontier is perfect for families who need an alternative to big box curriculum. This nature-based program meets children where they are during the elementary years and encourages whole family learning.

You can learn more about Holly and the Giles Frontier at http://www.thegilesfrontier.com and you can also connect with Holly on social media at The Giles Frontier.

I know this episode is going to inspire and encourage you!

You’ve got this!

Find a way to #sayyes today.


Thank You to our Network Sponsor – CTC Math!

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The Real Kathy Lee - Loving Children Who Have Experienced Trauma
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08/20/24 • -1 min

What is trauma?

trau·ma
ˈtroumə,ˈtrômə/
noun

1.
a deeply distressing or disturbing experience.

What causes trauma in young children?

  • Past or Present Abuse
  • Stress in the home
  • Divorce
  • Death of Pet
  • Death of Family Member/Friend
  • Unhealthy environment
  • Adding a new family member.
  • Move
  • Witnessing something horrible, scary, or stressful. This can be a real life event or witnessed via media.

You don’t need to know what caused the trauma in order to help.
Behavior is Communication
GET CURIOUS...What is their behavior saying to you?

  • Withdrawn
  • Anxious
  • Misbehavior
  • Angry
  • Fearful
  • Powerless
  • Exhausted

THIS ISN’T ABOUT YOU
If it is a big deal to them, it is a big deal. Try to stay unemotional during the most emotional times.

Children from hard places need to know they are safe, loved and Accepted, no matter what.
Essentials of TIC (Trauma Informed Classroom)
Connect – Focus on Relationships
Protect – Promote Safety and Trustworthiness
Respect – Engage in Choice and Collaboration
Redirect (Teach and Reinforce) – Encourage SkillBuilding and Competence
Hummer, V., Crosland, K., Dollard, N., 2009

10 ways to help...

1. Have a Routine.
2. Choose Your Words Carefully.
3. Provide a space for one.
4. Give permission to feel.
5. Honor their feelings.
6. Be available.
7. Be flexible.
8. Educate others.
9. Don’t expect to have all the answers (Ask them).
10. Create opportunities in the classroom for the child to experience success.

Make a plan...
What do you need to be prepared?

Who do you need to talk to?

Any unresolved trauma in your own background?

What needs to change in you OR your environment?


Thank you to our sponsor, CTC Math.

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The Real Kathy Lee currently has 128 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Christianity, Parenting, Kids & Family, Religion & Spirituality and Podcasts.

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The episode title 'How to Intentionally Connect with Your Children with Graeme Pitman' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on The Real Kathy Lee is 24 minutes.

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Episodes of The Real Kathy Lee are typically released every 7 days.

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The first episode of The Real Kathy Lee was released on Feb 24, 2017.

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