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The Openlove101 Show

The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

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The Openlove101 Show - Our Favorite Sex Tips

Our Favorite Sex Tips

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11/09/19 • 28 min

#2 - Make sure you're following these important tips to avoid a dull (or nonexistent) sex life with your spouse, partner, or partners in the bedroom, at the lifestyle club, lifestyle party, or wherever you wanna do it! :)

To learn more about open relationships, the lifestyle, and consensual non-monogamy, go to: https://openlove101.com/

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The Openlove101 Show - Emotional Attachments

Emotional Attachments

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11/14/23 • 7 min

#98 Is it true that men don't get emotionally attached after sex? Which means they're better at open relationships than women? Interesting questions/claims posed by one of our Podcast listeners that we will be discussing!

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In this episode, John and Jackie explore the concept of transforming negative experiences in the lifestyle into valuable learning opportunities.

The conversation revolves around handling discomfort, setting boundaries, and fostering positive communication within the swinging community.

Reflecting on past experiences, Jackie shares personal insights on the significance of being an advocate for oneself. The discussion touches on the challenges of vocalizing boundaries and preferences, highlighting the evolution of communication skills over time.

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The Openlove101 Show - Swinging Made Our Marriage Stronger
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12/08/21 • 40 min

#28 - John & Jackie talk with Mike and Jill from https://xperience4u.com/ this amazing couple has been married for 26 years and in a (CNM) consensually non monogamous marriage for the last 11 years. Join us as we delve into how going from monogamy to CNM has strengthened their marriage, how they grew their communication and how they got started in the lifestyle. We’ll discuss expectations, boundaries, communication, single males, lifestyle clubs (https://coletteclubs.com/) and all the tips and tidbits this couple has learned along their journey through CNM.

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#71 - Join Alexandra Stockwell, a physician and intimacy marriage expert, and Jackie Melfi, an author, coach, and operator of clubs related to the swingers lifestyle, for a thought-provoking conversation about the role of communication in both monogamous and open relationships. They delve into the importance of a strong emotional connection between partners before exploring an open lifestyle, and emphasize that it should not be an alternative to working on the relationship.

Throughout the conversation, the speakers address the misconceptions and stigmas surrounding open relationships, often due to media focus on the sexual aspects. They advocate for seeing open relationships as a spectrum rather than a binary choice, highlighting the importance of conversation, vulnerability, and transparency between partners. Stockwell and Melfi share their perspective on how a healthy open relationship can be rooted in a strong monogamous partnership, with the openness adding an extra dimension.

To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

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The Openlove101 Show - Does Fantasizing About Someone Else Mean Cheating?
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03/12/24 • 10 min

#112 A couple asked us the other day if it's bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner. Is that wrong? Is it cheating? Is it bad? Let's dive into this rabbit hole of fantasy talk and where it could go!

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The Openlove101 Show - Handling Rejection and Canceled Dates
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06/11/24 • 13 min

In today's episode, John and Jackie discuss the common experience of handling rejection and dealing with canceled dates.

They explore the emotional impact of these situations, sharing personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate the complexities of dating in both single and married life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of not jumping to conclusions, maintaining open communication, and learning from rejection experiences.

John and Jackie offer practical advice for those new to the lifestyle, encouraging a positive outlook and resilience in the face of canceled plans.

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The Openlove101 Show - Why Non-Monogamy Fails!

Why Non-Monogamy Fails!

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02/20/24 • 23 min

In today’s episode, John and Jackie explore the reasons why non-monogamous relationships may fail.

Listen in as they discus the crucial aspects of communication, consideration of partner’s feelings, managing expectations, and the significance of respecting boundaries.

They also share personal insights and experiences, emphasizing the importance of open and honest discussions in navigating the challenges of consensually non-monogamous relationships.

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The Openlove101 Show - Is sex all about penetration?

Is sex all about penetration?

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01/23/24 • 9 min

#108 We talk about what to do if someone in a couple is having trouble staying hard during a swinger encounter and address common misconceptions about swingers always having perfect sex.

Since staying hard can be challenging for some men, we discuss ways we can take pressure off our male partners and how sex isn't just all about penetration.

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#99 In this episode John and Jackie explore the exciting world of hotel takeovers within the swinger lifestyle.

They discuss the preparation, expectations, and experiences that come with attending these unique events.

From themed parties to meeting new people, they share their insights to ensure listeners make the most of their hotel takeover experiences.

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FAQ

How many episodes does The Openlove101 Show have?

The Openlove101 Show currently has 145 episodes available.

What topics does The Openlove101 Show cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Swinger, Society & Culture, Lifestyle, Podcasts, Relationships and Sexuality.

What is the most popular episode on The Openlove101 Show?

The episode title 'Our Favorite Sex Tips' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on The Openlove101 Show?

The average episode length on The Openlove101 Show is 19 minutes.

How often are episodes of The Openlove101 Show released?

Episodes of The Openlove101 Show are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of The Openlove101 Show?

The first episode of The Openlove101 Show was released on Jul 30, 2019.

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