
Sophie Fletcher author Mindful Menopause
07/14/21 • 46 min
In this episode, I am joined by Sophie Fletcher clinical hypnotherapist and author of Mindful Menopause.
Sophie specialises in women’s wellbeing at transitional stages of their lives and her focus is the body and mind connection, exploring thoughts and feelings that may arise at times of vulnerability giving practical, everyday tools that make a difference.
We are controlled by the challenging cultural narrative that surrounds Menopause and Perimenopause, join Sophie and me as we discuss how changing our perception and our mindset can have such a huge impact on our wellbeing.
In this episode you will learn:-
- How to change your perception of Menopause
- How to take back control
- How learned behaviours are based on environment
- How to re-write your story and plan your Menopause
- How to re-frame thoughts and experiences so you can approach your symptoms in a more positive way
- How to manage anxiety
- Why Menopause is an opportunity to learn about yourself in a deeper way
- The How... tackling those unconscious blocks that stop you doing what you know you should be doing
- How to be in control of your choices
- Why broadening your knowledge and understanding of Menopause is the key to a Merry Menopause
- Why mindset work is much simpler than you may think
- Why our history and culture has re-written the reverence that comes with being an older woman
- Menopause can be a lonely time, why it’s so important to find and connect with women who are having a similar experience
- The importance of seeking out those that are approaching their Menopause transition in a positive way
- Why you should plan your Menopause like you plan work and personal goals
- How do you want to be when you are in your 60s and 70s? Why we need to lay the foundations now
- Hair Loss - Sophie talks about her own experience and shares her advice.
Sophie’s Book Choice
Sum: Forty Tales from the Afterlives by David Eagleman
You can download 10 of Sophie’s meditations for FREE here https://www.penguin.co.uk/articles/2021/may/mindfulmenopause.html
https://sophiefletcher.co.uk
Find out how you can work with me, my coaching and education, and get your free Menopause Symptom tracker at www.themerrymenopause.com
Learn more about me and my work at www.themerrymenopause.com
Follow me on Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIN
Join my private Facebook group
In this episode, I am joined by Sophie Fletcher clinical hypnotherapist and author of Mindful Menopause.
Sophie specialises in women’s wellbeing at transitional stages of their lives and her focus is the body and mind connection, exploring thoughts and feelings that may arise at times of vulnerability giving practical, everyday tools that make a difference.
We are controlled by the challenging cultural narrative that surrounds Menopause and Perimenopause, join Sophie and me as we discuss how changing our perception and our mindset can have such a huge impact on our wellbeing.
In this episode you will learn:-
- How to change your perception of Menopause
- How to take back control
- How learned behaviours are based on environment
- How to re-write your story and plan your Menopause
- How to re-frame thoughts and experiences so you can approach your symptoms in a more positive way
- How to manage anxiety
- Why Menopause is an opportunity to learn about yourself in a deeper way
- The How... tackling those unconscious blocks that stop you doing what you know you should be doing
- How to be in control of your choices
- Why broadening your knowledge and understanding of Menopause is the key to a Merry Menopause
- Why mindset work is much simpler than you may think
- Why our history and culture has re-written the reverence that comes with being an older woman
- Menopause can be a lonely time, why it’s so important to find and connect with women who are having a similar experience
- The importance of seeking out those that are approaching their Menopause transition in a positive way
- Why you should plan your Menopause like you plan work and personal goals
- How do you want to be when you are in your 60s and 70s? Why we need to lay the foundations now
- Hair Loss - Sophie talks about her own experience and shares her advice.
Sophie’s Book Choice
Sum: Forty Tales from the Afterlives by David Eagleman
You can download 10 of Sophie’s meditations for FREE here https://www.penguin.co.uk/articles/2021/may/mindfulmenopause.html
https://sophiefletcher.co.uk
Find out how you can work with me, my coaching and education, and get your free Menopause Symptom tracker at www.themerrymenopause.com
Learn more about me and my work at www.themerrymenopause.com
Follow me on Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIN
Join my private Facebook group
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Kim McCabe author of From Daughter to Woman
In this episode, I have the pleasure of talking to Kim McCabe, author of ‘From Daughter to Woman’ a guide to parenting girls safely through their teens.
Kim is a child development expert and founder-director of the non-profit organisation Rites for Girls.
She studied psychology at Cambridge University, before training as a counsellor for distressed teens and has spent thirty years working preventatively to make girls’ journey through adolescence safer, kinder and better supported.
A mother of three, Kim believes we can each make a difference; by creating community and circles of support, with adults taking responsibility for guiding tomorrow’s women, a grounded revolution changing the world for everyone.
Join Kim and me as we discuss:-
- The importance of the puberty rite of passage if we went to have happy, healthy young adults join our adult communities and the impact of not recognising this importance of this critical stage of life.
- Why we should be asking our young girls what they think about becoming women and listening to their answers.
- Why so many young girls don’t name their mothers as future role models and what we can do about that.
- Children don’t do what we say, they do what we do.
- Menarche, Pregnancy, Menopause - the three stages in a woman’s life where she is called into action.
- Introducing the gift of the menstrual cycle to our girls to educate them and so alleviate any nervousness they may have around starting their periods.
- Our culture doesn’t honour the cycle, but if we can menstruate well and have healthy and happy cycles we will enter into Menopause in a healthier way
- Menopause and raising children.
- Consent. Why we need to teach our children to trust their feelings and their instinct rather than their thoughts and how this can help to keep them safe.
- The increase in anxiety amongst young girls and how that shows up in their behaviour.
- Why as adults we should not be ignoring feelings of unhappiness and what happens when we do.
- Our cycle Post Menopause.
- As a mother how you can co-create a Rite of Passage with your daughter
- Creating a ‘village’ - the importance of adults in a young person’s life
Kim's book choice - The Happy Manifesto - by Henry Stewart
Find out how you can work with me, my coaching and education, and get your free Menopause Symptom tracker at www.themerrymenopause.com
Learn more about me and my work at www.themerrymenopause.com
Follow me on Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIN
Join my private Facebook group
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Emma Bardwell author The Perimenopause Solution
My guest on the penultimate episode of S2 is Emma Bardwell registered nutritionist and member of the British Menopause Society. Her evidence-based approach, coupled with an ongoing interest in Perimenopause and Menopause has made her one of the go-to names in women’s health.
Emma is deeply anti-fad and doesn’t care for restriction, believing in positive rather than perfect nutrition and together with Dr Shahzadi Harper she has written today’s book choice, The Perimenopause Solution.
Join us as we discuss:
- Pro ageing and “Tweakments” - being unapologetic and acknowledging that our appearance does change as our collagen starts to deplete.
- Why saying ‘no’ should be on prescription for Perimenopausal women.
- Stress - one of the main drivers behind our symptoms and how it can override the positive effects of HRT.
- The rise of eating disorders in midlife - the importance of knowing what to eat and how to exercise.
- Auditing our life - removing toxic habits and toxic people.
- Alcohol - the pros and the cons.
- Why our metabolism changes - the impact that has on what we eat and drink.
- The benefits of therapy and coaching - dealing with feelings that may surface and the changes that are happening.
- The next generation - we are setting the example for them, let’s show today’s young women how utterly brilliant we are.
- Understanding the gut/brain connection - how crucial this is in Perimenopause
- Listening to our bodies - being intuitive and picking up on the signals and clues we are being sent.
- Make change if it is calling but don’t act on impulse! - the importance of talking things through with friends or seeking out a supportive community online.
Emma’s book choices
Dr Lisa Mosconi - The XX Brain
Kimberly Wilson - How To Build A Healthy BrainFind out how you can work with me, my coaching and education, and get your free Menopause Symptom tracker at www.themerrymenopause.com
Learn more about me and my work at www.themerrymenopause.com
Follow me on Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIN
Join my private Facebook group
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