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Giving Upward Feedback
The Look & Sound of Leadership
08/06/20 • 20 min
This month’s coaching conversation explores whether feedback should be given upwards in the first place. If so, are there ways to deliver upward feedback effectively?
In the commentary, Tom tells a story about the famous Marshmallow Test being debunked. Here's the column he mentions:
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/06/marshmallow-test/561779/?utm_source=atl&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=share
Related episodes are:
Dealing With Emotional Responses
The Disruptive Executive – Part One
In the archive, this Tip is tagged in three categories
Communication Skills
Feedback
Managing Up
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Blind Spots
The Look & Sound of Leadership
02/04/21 • 27 min
This month’s coaching conversation features a leader too talented to lose but too troublesome to keep. Tom talks with him about blind spots and how he might reduce his.
PDFs for you:
The Johari Window
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Related Archive Categories:
Perception – How You Perceive Yourself
Personal Growth & Self-Development
Related Episodes:
Thinking Errors
Self-Awareness & Self-Management
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Unblocking Feedback
The Look & Sound of Leadership
03/04/21 • 22 min
This month’s coaching conversation follows a client as he works to shrink his blind spot through feedback. He and Tom discuss lowering the barriers that stop us all from taking in feedback.
In the episode Tom mentions “Thanks for the Feedback” by Douglas Stone and Sheila Heen.
Tom also mentioned the PDF showing The Johari Window.
Related episodes are:
Perception – How You Perceive Yourself
Five related episodes you might listen to are:
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Learnings From Video
The Look & Sound of Leadership
07/09/20 • 21 min
This month’s coaching conversation follows a client exploring a surprising use for video, plus a game of imagination.
The Marshmallow Test is explained in “Self-Awareness & Self-Management”
Core Concepts in this episode:
Video provides distance that can help break old patterns.
Some people are highly agitated these days.
Their agitation is not about you. Don’t take it personally.
You might find yourself more annoyed than normal. Don’t act on it.
RELATED ARCHIVE CATEGORIES
RELATED TIPS & EPISODES
“Don’t Take Anything Personally”
Leadership Behavior in Meetings
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Responsibility Charting
The Look & Sound of Leadership
09/08/22 • 23 min
A team leader is tired of kerfuffles. In conversation with her coach, she learns to use a simple chart that generates almost miraculous results.
The chart is available to you here. Please, help yourself.
Other tools for leading your team that Tom mentioned in this episode include The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni.
You can download a sample of the team development tool based on the book that Tom mentioned. The Five Behaviors of a Cohesive Team assessment is available to you here.
If you’re looking to pick Tom’s brain a little more, all his interviews are available to you in Conversations.
His conversation on Keys to the Shop is available here. His conversation on Next Gen Leadership is available here.
This month’s episode is tagged in the Podcast Library under
Related episodes you might listen to are:
As ever, we cannot give enough thanks to those of you who post reviews. Thank you for your support and kind words.
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Until next month, stay healthy and be well.
Tom and The Look & Sound of Leadership team.

How to Turn on Your Executive Thinking
The Look & Sound of Leadership
11/03/22 • 19 min
A senior executive worries that his lieutenants are not being taken seriously by the senior leadership team. He discusses with a coach how to help his rising leaders accelerate their growth. This is that conversation.
We created a new free Essential Tool for you called “Executive Thinking.” It illustrates the “altitude” analogy Tom told during the episode. It also supports one of the four exercises you can do with your team.
Additional Essential Tools that support other exercises are “Before You Write Your Presentation” and “Sorting & Labeling.”
Liberating Structures is the free resource Tom was raving about. The specific exercise he mentioned was TRIZ.
Tom has talked about Liberating Structures in the episodes “How to Re-engage a Team” and “Leading Offsites.”
If you’re approaching year-end performance reviews, there are tools to support you – no matter which side of the review you’re on! – in Performance Reviews.
Tom referenced two shows that can help you learn Sorting & Labeling.
Coaching For Leaders with Dave Stachowiak: The Way to Make Sense to Others.
The Everyday Innovator with Chad McCallister: How Product Managers Look & Sound like Leaders.
This current episode is tagged in the library in three categories:
Perception – How You’re Perceived
In addition to the various episodes listed above, five that relate specifically to executive thinking are:
178 Executive Presence – Three Pillars
As we hurtle in our year-end traditions, stay mindful!
Tom and The Look & Sound of Leadership team.

How To Show Up
The Look & Sound of Leadership
09/02/21 • 24 min
Frustrated at not showing up the way she wants to, a leader, in conversation with her coach, explores ways to integrate her values into her behavior.
To show up as more of whatever you want to be, ask yourself:
- What would be different if I were a little braver right now?
- What would a brave person do right now?
- What would I think, or what would I feel, if I were my bravest self right now?
- How is my self-talk helping how I show up?
- How is my self-talk holding me back in how I show up?
(Substitute your own spine word for “brave.”)
Three books to build muscle around how you show up.
The PDF “Six Books for Growth” is available here. Or email Tom and he’ll send it to you.
This episode connects to two previous episodes featuring Chin-Sun: How to Build Your Self-Awareness and How to Grow Your Self-Management.
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This episode is in the library under four filters:
For Women
Managing Yourself
Self-Talk
Five specific episodes you might listen to are:
71. Act As If
162. Acting on the Corporate Stage
174. Animating Your Persona
154. Self-Limiting Beliefs
176. The Executive Impostor
Gratitude, as always, to those who reach out to us and those who post reviews. Thanks!
From all of us here at The Look & Sound of Leadership, be healthy and safe.
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Status
The Look & Sound of Leadership
03/04/15 • 12 min
We all assign ourselves a certain status. Of course, that means we assign status to others, too. The question is: do people experience your status as appropriate? Or do you need to dial it up? Or down!
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How many episodes does The Look & Sound of Leadership have?
The Look & Sound of Leadership currently has 258 episodes available.
What topics does The Look & Sound of Leadership cover?
The podcast is about Management, Podcasts, Executive Coaching, Business and Careers.
What is the most popular episode on The Look & Sound of Leadership?
The episode title 'Giving Upward Feedback' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on The Look & Sound of Leadership?
The average episode length on The Look & Sound of Leadership is 14 minutes.
How often are episodes of The Look & Sound of Leadership released?
Episodes of The Look & Sound of Leadership are typically released every 28 days.
When was the first episode of The Look & Sound of Leadership?
The first episode of The Look & Sound of Leadership was released on Jan 26, 2006.
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