Ep. 216 - How to Be a Godly Gentleman

11/28/23 • 48 min

In today’s podcast, Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar delve into a lively and spirited exploration of what it means to be a modern gentleman in today's society.
Ray Comfort's misadventures in a hotel due to a snoring travel companion and comparison of sleeping difficulties serve as an amusing introduction to today’s exploration of the concept of a godly gentleman. They then take a serious turn to examine the role of biblical manhood in shaping our perceptions of masculinity and its impact on societal gender roles. The conversation weaves through the changing cultural narratives, the weakening of traditional masculine roles, and the resulting shifts in gender dynamics.
The guys take a deep dive into the scriptures for a better understanding of the biblical qualifications of a godly gentleman. The Bible is rich with insights on the traits that a gentleman should possess. Proverbs 19:22, for instance, highlights kindness as a desired quality in a man, reminding us of the significant role kindness plays in shaping a true gentleman.
The dialogue also emphasizes the importance of humility in crafting the character of a gentleman, underlining the role of humility through wisdom-filled anecdotes and biblical references. Discussing these qualities, the guys also encourage listeners to challenge societal norms, strive for kindness and humility, and redefine their roles in society.
However, it must also be acknowledged that the concept of being a godly gentleman is not just about kindness and humility. It also involves maintaining purity and upholding biblical manhood. 1 Timothy 3 and 1 Peter 3:15 provide an excellent foundation for what a godly man should look like, emphasizing the need for fathers to impart these teachings to their sons.
The episode concludes with recognizing the glimmers of hope in today's society and reiterating the significance of humility in the making of a godly gentleman. The importance of this virtue is reinforced through the inspiring example of Charles Spurgeon, who demonstrated humility by prioritizing the women in his life over his own desires.
In a world that often misinterprets kindness as weakness and equates masculinity with aggression, this discussion serves as a reminder of the need to resurrect the virtues of the gentleman in a contemporary context. It encourages listeners to redefine their understanding of masculinity, promoting a balanced perspective that aligns with biblical principles and societal progress.

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The Living Waters Podcast - Ep. 216 - How to Be a Godly Gentleman

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And I think that being a gentleman is a virtue , right , it's like a trait , a disposition from men to women and if you think about what is the cultural narrative right now , it's an overemphasis that men and women there should be less and less of a distinguishing difference between the two . And when you say that there is no longer a distinguishing difference , then you remove t