It Isn't About You: A Kandid Chat on De-escalation and Crisis Management w/Sean DeMarco Garcia

03/12/24 • 53 min

When the stakes are high and tensions run higher, it's the voice of calm that can make all the difference. I sat down with Sean DeMarco Garcia, Founder of Astrochemistry Consulting LLC & Author of an upcoming e-book, "It's Not About You: Lessons, Memories and Techniques in Crisis Communication," and we get real about the art of de-escalation and crisis intervention. Sean's winding path from police officer to pioneer in conflict resolution mirrors the complexity of the high-stress encounters he defuses. His stories are a potent mix of the personal and the professional, offering strategies for front-line workers of all kinds and anyone looking to navigate crises with grace and efficiency.
Sean and I peel back the layers of law enforcement life to reveal the essential role of cultural understanding and the non-negotiable necessity of self-care. We talked about the life-changing power therapy can wield, even for those who stand as pillars of strength in our communities. Sean's insights into personal well-being underscore the importance of not just training the mind for crisis scenarios but nurturing the heart to withstand the aftershocks.
Leadership isn't an easy mantle to wear, especially when managing the fine line between guidance and authority. In our heartfelt conversation, Sean illuminates the leadership philosophy that inspires growth and the transformative impact of acknowledgment in the workplace. His upcoming book teases a treasure trove of narratives and coping mechanisms for when words aren't enough. We wrap up with a volley of rapid-fire questions, each one offering a window into the life lessons that shape this advocate for peace and protector of the peacekeepers.
Join us for a conversation that's not just about the message—it's about making a positive mark on the world, one de-escalated crisis at a time and be sure to check back for the date of the e-book release!!
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The Kandid Shop - It Isn't About You: A Kandid Chat on De-escalation and Crisis Management w/Sean DeMarco Garcia

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Kandidly Kristin: Hey, hey, hey, podcast family. It is your girl, Kandidly Kristin, and this is The Kandid Shop, your number one destination for Kandid conversations. If you're new here, welcome. If you're a returning listener, welcome back, and thanks so much for your support. So I am super-duper excited to have de-escalation and crisis intervention expert, founder of Astrochemistry Consulting, and soon-to-be author of a e-book,