
165. From Sex Ed to Sensual Mastery: Unleashing Your Artistry in the Bedroom
02/14/24 • 25 min
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, delves into the shortcomings of traditional sex education and proposes a new paradigm for learning about sexual intimacy. She discusses the importance of emotional intimacy, experimentation, and releasing preconceived notions about sexuality to craft an artful, gratifying sexual experience. The episode also highlights the crucial role parents have in ensuring their children receive an education that encompasses pleasure, consent, and respect within sexual encounters.
Also in this episode:
- Knowing one's anatomy is fundamental, but exploring the feelings and experiences surrounding the act of sex is what truly enriches intimacy.
- Parents should be proactive in educating their children about the deeper aspects of sex, tailoring the conversation to their family culture and values.
- While traditional sex ed is important for scientific accuracy and health awareness, it falls short in areas of pleasure, connection, and passion.
Sign up for the FREE Valentine’s Day course: https://hubs.ly/Q02kpFxK0
Referenced in the episode:
Women’s Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston: https://amzn.to/3jpUvZe
Listen to Episode 128: Embodied Sexuality, with Sheri Winston https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/128-embodied-sexuality-how-to-connect-with-your-partner-through-enjoying-more-satisfying-sexual-experiences-w-sheri-winston/
Listen to Episode 129: Understanding the Complexity of the Sexual Differences between Men and Women
Listen to Episode 137: How to Elevate Married Sex from Good to Great
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
About Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, delves into the shortcomings of traditional sex education and proposes a new paradigm for learning about sexual intimacy. She discusses the importance of emotional intimacy, experimentation, and releasing preconceived notions about sexuality to craft an artful, gratifying sexual experience. The episode also highlights the crucial role parents have in ensuring their children receive an education that encompasses pleasure, consent, and respect within sexual encounters.
Also in this episode:
- Knowing one's anatomy is fundamental, but exploring the feelings and experiences surrounding the act of sex is what truly enriches intimacy.
- Parents should be proactive in educating their children about the deeper aspects of sex, tailoring the conversation to their family culture and values.
- While traditional sex ed is important for scientific accuracy and health awareness, it falls short in areas of pleasure, connection, and passion.
Sign up for the FREE Valentine’s Day course: https://hubs.ly/Q02kpFxK0
Referenced in the episode:
Women’s Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston: https://amzn.to/3jpUvZe
Listen to Episode 128: Embodied Sexuality, with Sheri Winston https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/128-embodied-sexuality-how-to-connect-with-your-partner-through-enjoying-more-satisfying-sexual-experiences-w-sheri-winston/
Listen to Episode 129: Understanding the Complexity of the Sexual Differences between Men and Women
Listen to Episode 137: How to Elevate Married Sex from Good to Great
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
About Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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164. The Power of Affection and Showing Love to Your Spouse (and how it Benefits your Children)
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the profound effect that a loving and intimate parental relationship has on children. Alexandra highlights the naturalness of affection within the family setting, and describes the astonishment of those who have never witnessed such intimacy between their own parents.
This episode stresses the importance of nurturing the spousal relationship for its own sake and also as a gift to one's children. She also challenges the traditional notion that children should always come first at the expense of the couple's connection.
Also in this episode:
- A strong marital bond is essential for providing children with a positive model for their future relationships.
- Prioritizing the relationship with your spouse does not detract from your children; rather, it benefits them by demonstrating a healthy, loving partnership.
- Intimacy and affection in front of children, when natural and appropriate, contributes to a nurturing family environment.
- It’s important to find a balance between focusing on your children and nurturing your marital relationship. Doing so supports the healthy development of a child's identity.
Sign up for the FREE Valentine’s Day course: https://hubs.ly/Q02kpFxK0
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
About Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.
For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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166. Revitalize Your Marriage: Learn to Invest in Emotional and Erotic Intimacy
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, invites educated, successful couples to revitalize their marriage as she guides them to experience new heights of emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy.
Emphasizing the unique nature of investing when it comes to your relationship, Dr. Alexandra describes how such investments yield both immediate and long-term returns. Through personal anecdotes and testimonials, she encourages listeners to nurture their marriages, detailing the transformational journey involved in going from a good relationship to a great one. If you’re looking for the key to unlock passion in your marriage, this episode is for you.
Also in this episode:
- Investing in relationships offers immediate and long-term returns, a unique benefit compared to other kinds of investments ie. stocks and bonds.
- Relationship satisfaction, growth, and intimacy can be substantially improved through intentionally investing time and attention to improve communication and increase affection.
- Achieving a deeply satisfying marriage is a learnable skill, accessible through focused effort, and sometimes couples coaching
- Intimacy within marriage greatly contributes to personal fulfillment and establishing the legacy of your soul, in the process enhancing both your individual and shared satisfaction in life.
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Contact Dr. Alexandra: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
About Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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