Seeking Pleasure Can Get Out of Hand
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09/19/24 • 48 min
Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two from the series 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.' This episode, recorded 11 months post-Taylor's arrest, features Taylor's baby shower as a focal point.
The hosts examine themes including the empowerment of women as breadwinners, the impact of swinging on their brands, and the pervasive shame surrounding sex in conservative cultures, particularly within Mormonism. They also explore the dynamics of non-monogamous relationships, the importance of sex education, and the challenges of maintaining friendships amidst scandals.
Lauren and Ben highlight the contrasts in parental support, the necessity of open conversations about sex, and how the lifestyle community embraces both sex and pleasure in a unique way.
Learn more at https://www.swinginglifestylecoach.com
For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-Monogamist
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Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two from the series 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.' This episode, recorded 11 months post-Taylor's arrest, features Taylor's baby shower as a focal point.
The hosts examine themes including the empowerment of women as breadwinners, the impact of swinging on their brands, and the pervasive shame surrounding sex in conservative cultures, particularly within Mormonism. They also explore the dynamics of non-monogamous relationships, the importance of sex education, and the challenges of maintaining friendships amidst scandals.
Lauren and Ben highlight the contrasts in parental support, the necessity of open conversations about sex, and how the lifestyle community embraces both sex and pleasure in a unique way.
Learn more at https://www.swinginglifestylecoach.com
For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-Monogamist
SwingingLifestyleCoach.com
Retreats:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swinginglifestylecoach
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingingLifestyleCoach
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVZR-9HggJ51NaJnXCnq0Ew
Previous Episode
The First Look at The First Book of Taylor
In the inaugural episode of The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives , hosts Lauren and Ben dive into their review of the reality show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives through the lens of ethical non-monogamy.
Lauren, a swinger, and Ben, who is polyamorous, set the stage by introducing themselves and sharing their frustrations with how the media often misrepresents their communities.
This episode explores key themes like Mormonism, ethical non-monogamy, and how religious upbringing can collide with alternative lifestyles. Lauren and Ben break down the crucial difference between ethical non-monogamy and cheating, emphasizing the importance of honesty, boundaries, and community support. They also dig into their personal experiences with addiction and discuss the concept of 'new relationship energy.'
Throughout the conversation, Lauren and Ben remain thoughtful and respectful, aiming to offer insightful, nuanced commentary while honoring the people featured in the show.
What You'll Learn:
- The difference between ethical non-monogamy and cheating
- How religious backgrounds influence alternative relationship choices
- The role of community and support in non-monogamous relationships
- Personal experiences with addiction and its intersection with lifestyle choices
- What 'new relationship energy' means and how it plays out in ethical non-monogamy
If you enjoyed this episode and want to hear more, don’t forget to hit that subscribe button! We’ve got a lot more to unpack, and you won’t want to miss the upcoming episodes where we dig into the juicy details, tackle misconceptions, and share even more insights on non-monogamy, relationships, and reality TV. Make sure you're subscribed so you’re always in the loop!
Find Lauren at swinginglifestylecoach.com.
For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-Monogamist
SwingingLifestyleCoach.com
Retreats:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swinginglifestylecoach
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingingLifestyleCoach
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVZR-9HggJ51NaJnXCnq0Ew
Next Episode
Saints & Sinners - The Big Divide
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 3 of 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives', sharing their personal updates before diving into key events such as a potluck confrontation, a controversial graduation party, and the impact of breaking community norms. They provide insights into Mormon culture, including health codes and gender roles, and compare these to norms within the swinger community. The episode concludes with an analysis of the growing divide between the 'saints' and 'sinners' within the group, highlighted by a controversial Galentine's Day party.
The Conscious Couples Retreat: https://www.swinginglifestylecoach.com
For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-Monogamist
SwingingLifestyleCoach.com
Retreats:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swinginglifestylecoach
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingingLifestyleCoach
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVZR-9HggJ51NaJnXCnq0Ew
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