FRIENDSHIPS CH 9: The One Who Serves

04/08/25 • 16 min

This one’s for the servant-hearted leader in you. 💥

In this episode, Esme dives into Chapter 9 of her book Friendships and focuses on one of the most powerful (yet misunderstood) qualities of growth and Christlikeness: serving others.

Whether leading a team, raising a family, or simply trying to live with intention—you can't miss this episode!

What you'll learn:

The powerful truth from Hebrews 6:10 that changed how I view serving
The mindset shift between serving from love vs. obligation
A raw story about a time I served resentfully—and what it revealed about my heart
The surprising way my friend showed up when I needed her most

Plus, hear what I learned at the International Maxwell Conference (spoiler: it involves Avengers-level women and major perspective shifts!).

This episode is real, vulnerable, and packed with encouragement for anyone who wants to become a person others can count on. Because the people we surround ourselves with? They shape who we become.

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This one’s for the servant-hearted leader in you. 💥

In this episode, Esme dives into Chapter 9 of her book Friendships and focuses on one of the most powerful (yet misunderstood) qualities of growth and Christlikeness: serving others.

Whether leading a team, raising a family, or simply trying to live with intention—you can't miss this episode!

What you'll learn:

The powerful truth from Hebrews 6:10 that changed how I view serving
The mindset shift between serving from love vs. obligation
A raw story about a time I served resentfully—and what it revealed about my heart
The surprising way my friend showed up when I needed her most

Plus, hear what I learned at the International Maxwell Conference (spoiler: it involves Avengers-level women and major perspective shifts!).

This episode is real, vulnerable, and packed with encouragement for anyone who wants to become a person others can count on. Because the people we surround ourselves with? They shape who we become.

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The History We Leave Behind

What kind of history are you leaving behind? This week on The Esme Graff Podcast, I'm diving into the power of our personal history—not just the stories we tell but the impact we have on the people around us.

I share a personal story of a life-changing moment, the kindness of a nurse, and the biblical example of Tabitha—a woman whose legacy of love and service left an unforgettable mark on her community.

In my book Friendships , I explore how the way we serve others—whether through small acts of kindness or deep, sacrificial love—shapes the legacy we leave behind. Tabitha’s story in Acts Chapter 9 reminds us that our impact isn’t measured by status or success but by the lives we touch.

In this episode, we’ll explore:
How small actions shape lasting legacies
The importance of making people feel seen and valued
How past hurts don’t have to define future relationships

So, how will you be remembered? You were created for a purpose, and if you live it out, you will leave a memorable history behind.

🎧 Tune in now and be inspired to live your life with intentionality!

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FRIENDSHIPS CH 10: The Faithful One

Welcome to the show, my friend!

In today’s episode, I’m opening up about what it really means to be a woman of faith—not by the world’s standards, but by God’s.

We’re diving into Chapter 10 of my book Friendships and asking some powerful questions:
• What makes someone a woman of faith?
• Can you still be a woman of faith if you watch KUWTK or the Bachelor?

I’m also breaking down the three core characteristics of a woman of faith and why faithfulness isn’t just about religion but about relationships. This is for anyone craving a deeper connection with God, longing for more meaningful friendships, or trying to figure out how to keep going when things get hard.

This episode is filled with truth, encouragement, and practical wisdom to help you live your best life!

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The Esme Graff Podcast - FRIENDSHIPS CH 9: The One Who Serves

Transcript

Friendships Ch 9: The One Who Serves

Well, hello my friends! I am so excited you are hanging out with me today! I know you don’t want me to say this, but you guys, its April! For real mind as well be Christmas already.

I have been go-go-go the last 3 weeks, and I’ve had very little sleep, but it has also been super rewarding and just overall amazing!

Let me share that, professionally speaking, things have been going very well. I launched my leadership coaching business,