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Experiencing The Joy of Living with John David Mann

The Dream Beyond with Nik Tarascio

02/15/23 • 47 min

The world has wisdom. You just have to be open and willing to receive it. The world is also abundant. Allowing the abundance of exuberance that the universe is made out of will let you leave a legacy. It’s not about what you do but how you do it. And it’s also about giving your energy and time to others without a scarcity mentality. These are just some things that I discussed with John David Mann in this episode.

John David Mann is an author who's sold more than three million books. He is a multiple New York Times bestseller, music composer, and cellist. John started his own high school as a teenager, and I’m still trying to process how he did that. We spoke about the importance of following your passions, being open to unexpected opportunities, cultivating an abundant mentality, and how to be a go-giver. Get ready to be inspired.

“All of the best things that have happened to me in my life have come about not as a result of my plan.” -John David Mann

In This Episode:

Having the confidence to start over and over again

Blessings and cursings when following your passion

Being open to unexpected opportunities

Reconciling different interests unapologetically

Creating from light and not darkness

Scarcity mentality around time

Being a listener when connecting with other human beings

Giving more allows you to have more

Resources:

Book “The Go-Giver, Expanded Edition: A Little Story About a Powerful Business Idea” by Bob Burg and John David Mann

Book “The Red Circle: My Life in the Navy SEAL Sniper Corps and How I Trained America's Deadliest Marksmen” by Brandon Webb and John David Mann

Audiobook “The Latte Factor: Why You Don't Have to be Rich to Live Rich” by David Bach and John David Mann

Book “The Go-Giver Marriage: A Little Story About the Five Secrets to Lasting Love” by John David Mann and Ana Gabriel Mann

Connect with John David Mann:

Website

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Instagram

Website - https://www.michellewelsch.com/about/

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Welcoming your Authentic Self with Michelle Welsch

The Dream Beyond with Nik Tarascio

01/24/24 • 44 min

For most of my life, I was moving fast enough that I could never be bored. Only to find out what was happening was more of an indicator that I couldn't be with myself.

If I had to hear what was happening in my head, it was the worst soundtrack I could imagine. But what if slowing down and allowing spaciousness are the keys to fulfillment?

Today's guest is Michelle Welsch, a writer and business coach who left her life and career in New York City to move to Nepal over a decade ago. What started as a volunteer trip became much more as she founded Learning House, a community learning center.

Michelle shares her journey of self-discovery through living abroad. She dives into the challenges of adjusting to life in a foreign country and culture and how it helped shape her values of patience, curiosity, and giving people permission to be their true selves.

We discuss the importance of dropping expectations and being open to life's changes when moving somewhere new. Michelle also offers advice on building a tribe through intentional values.

I hope you enjoy listening as much as I enjoyed our conversation. Thanks for tuning in.

“Fulfillment can be your truest expression of you, however that looks. And it’s not necessarily about what you create or what you build or what you make or give, but it’s just about can you be your truest self? Can you be you completely?” - Michelle Welsch

In The Episode:

-How to strategize for the future

-Allowing space for playing and making mistakes

-Balancing strategy and playfulness

-Is a slow life associated with true fulfillment?

-Advice for building your own tribe

Connect with Michelle Welsch:

Learning House Nepal - https://www.learninghousenepal.com/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellewelsch

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/redheadlefthand/

Connect with Nik Tarascio:

Book “The Portfolio Life: How to Future-Proof Your Career, Avoid Burnout, and Build a Life Bigger than Your Business Card” by Christina Wallace - https://www.amazon.com/Portfolio-Life-Future-Proof-Burnout-Business/dp/1538710471/

The Future of Work: Exploring the Portfolio Career with Christina Wallace

The Dream Beyond with Nik Tarascio

07/26/23 • 52 min

I have often found myself torn between multiple interests, wondering whether I should give myself permission to pursue them all.

The fear of judgment and the weight of societal expectations cast a shadow on my ambitions, leaving me ashamed and hesitant to explore new horizons.

I was worried that others may perceive me as lacking focus or being restless rather than appreciating my desire for a more fulfilling life.

But in this episode, I have a guest who understands the power of embracing our diverse passions and encourages us to become multi-hyphenated individuals, unafraid to make changes and start fresh whenever we desire.

Christina Wallace is a self-described “human Venn diagram.” She has crafted a career in the intersection of business, technology, and the arts.

Senior lecturer at Harvard Business School (what a flex!), author, serial entrepreneur, angel investor, podcaster, singer, and occasional Broadway producer are some of her many paths.

In this conversation, Christina shares her invaluable insights on topics such as creativity, fulfillment, and career.

With her storytelling ability and relatable stories, Christina will help you break free from societal expectations, pursue your curiosity, and design a life that is uniquely your own.

Prepare to be inspired, motivated, and ready to embrace your own multi-dimensional journey as you learn about the transformative power of crafting a portfolio life.

“Forget work-life balance. Work is in the context of your life. Think about a portfolio instead.” - Christina Wallace

In This Episode:

-Christina’s dream when she was a child

-The concept of the portfolio life

-Finding the options still available for you

-Why you need to write down 100 wishes

-Lessons Christina learned during her childhood

-Practices that can help you deal with discomfort

-Discover the four pillars of your life

-How AI is changing the work world

-Exercises to understand yourself better

-Christina’s dream beyond

Resources mentioned:

Connect with Christina Wallace:

Website - https://christinawallace.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/cmwalla/

Twitter - https://www.twitter.com/cmwalla/

LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/christinawallace

Connect with Nik Tarascio:

Book “The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness” by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga - https://www.amazon.com/Courage-Be-Disliked-Phenomenon-Happiness/dp/1501197274/

Adlerian Psychology: Embracing Inferiority and the Drive for Greatness with Hallie Williams

The Dream Beyond with Nik Tarascio

10/25/23 • 58 min

You may have heard the term "inferiority complex." You may even have used it multiple times to describe yourself or someone you know. But do you know its origins?

The term was coined by the often-overlooked yet profoundly influential Alfred Adler. While names like Jung and Freud might be more familiar, Adler was right there with them, shaping the psychology landscape.

In this episode, you'll learn about the fascinating world of Adlerian psychology with our guest, Hallie Williams, a clinical psychologist and Adler Graduate School alum. Hallie introduces us to Adler's transformative theories and shows us how to apply them in our day-to-day lives.

Hallie's expertise in trauma and mental health and his work with at-risk youth and US veterans adds a unique perspective to this conversation. Join us as we delve into the practical application of Adlerian principles, unearthing timeless wisdom that can change your life.

This episode isn't just about psychology; it's about weaving spiritual insights into the fabric of your daily existence.

Get ready to explore Adlerian psychology and embark on a journey toward a more mindful, purposeful life.

“Different than Jung or different than Freud, which focused primarily on just a pathological approach, [Alfred Adler’s] individual psychology helps you figure out a way of living. It gives your life a purpose, or it helps you identify your purpose. And, personally, I think it leads us on the road to happiness.” - Hallie Williams

In This Episode:

-Why is Alfred Adler less well-known than Freud or Jung?

-Adler’s core concepts

-The three tasks that you have to accomplish in your life

-Why we only survive (and thrive) in connection with others

-The true meaning of courage and encouragement

-What is anxiety?

Resources:

North American Society for Adlerian Psychology - https://www.alfredadler.org/

The International Committee for Adlerian Summer Schools and Institutes - https://www.icassi.net/

Connect with Hallie Williams:

[email protected]

LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/hallie-m-williams-sr-46310721

Connect with Nik Tarascio:

Website - https://curtcronin.com/

Held and Accountable: The Dualities of Leadership with Curt Cronin

The Dream Beyond with Nik Tarascio

04/17/24 • 46 min

Is your people-pleasing syndrome affecting your effectiveness as a leader? Is your team’s performance and growth slowing because you protect them from hard truths?

My guest today is Curt Cronin, a former Navy SEAL who is the co-founder and managing partner of Broadway Strategic Return Fund. He is also the co-founder and chief operating officer of TBD Studios and the founder of Aiki Partners.

Curt has mastered the art of leadership in the most high-stakes environments and found profound wisdom in the performing arts industry. From his childhood dreams of becoming a doctor to his unexpected path into the SEALs, Curt's story is one of resilience, growth, and unwavering dedication to service.

Today, we explore the parallels between SEAL leadership and everyday life leadership. Curt shares invaluable lessons on trust, unconditional love, servant leadership, and continuous learning.

How do you unlock your unique superpower and embrace its evolution? Join the conversation for this and more.

“One of the greatest untruths of our time is that life is supposed to be happiness. I think true warriors seek joy and pain" - Curt Cronin.

In this episode:

-Applying SEAL principles to fatherhood and life

-Balancing love, performance, and accountability as a leader

-Overcoming the people pleaser syndrome

-Embracing pain and discomfort for growth

-The power of storytelling in teaching, inspiring, and conveying values

-How to unlock your superpower

Connect with Curt Cronin:

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtcronin/

www.aikipartners.com

www.broadwaystrategicreturnfund.com

Connect with Nik Tarascio:

The Hunger Habit - https://drjud.com/the-hunger-habit/

The Addiction Inventory: Understanding Our True Needs with Dr. Jud Brewer

The Dream Beyond with Nik Tarascio

05/08/24 • 39 min

Are you struggling with an addiction or nagging habit you just can't seem to break? Whether it's mindless snacking, social media scrolling, or something more serious, today’s guest will guide you toward lasting change and fulfillment.

Dr. Jud Brewer is an accomplished author and renowned expert in the fields of addiction, habit formation, and anxiety. He discusses the pervasive nature of habit-forming behaviors and addictions, emphasizing the importance of distinguishing between needs and wants to break unhealthy cycles.

Drawing insights from his extensive research, clinical experience, and personal anecdotes, Dr. Jud explores the physiology of addiction, the role of awareness in changing behaviors, and the potential of meditation and mindfulness as tools for promoting curiosity, kindness, and, ultimately, personal growth.

So, if you're struggling with addiction or anxiety, or just want to optimize your health and happiness, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and discover the power of self-awareness and intentional living in overcoming habitual patterns and achieving true fulfillment.

“Just asking the question, am I meeting a need, or am I feeding a want? Just asking that question can help us step back and ... figure out what's driving the behavior, and then we can check in with our kind of mindset and our body. " - Dr. Jud Brewer

In This Episode:

-How to identify and overcome personal addictions

-The misconception of anxiety as a performance enhancer

-The difference between stress and anxiety, and how to break the cycle

-The power of posture and somatic memory in mindset change

-The science of addiction and the role of dopamine

-Habit formation and breaking the cycle of addiction

-The importance of distinguishing needs from wants

Resources:

Unwinding Anxiety - https://drjud.com/book/

The Craving Mind - https://drjud.com/read-the-craving-mind-book/

Connect with Dr Jud Brewer:

Website - https://drjud.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.jud/

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Trusting Your Gut Instinct with Chip Conley

The Dream Beyond with Nik Tarascio

01/25/23 • 33 min

The more you can get clear on your own personal form of fulfillment, the less likely you will compare yourself to others. And one of the ways to get really clear about what you want is by being vulnerable. These are some of the golden nuggets I got from Chip Conley during our conversation.

Chip Conley is a New York Times bestselling author and two times disruptor of the hospitality industry. When he was only 26 years old, he founded Joie de Vivre, which turned out to be the second-largest boutique hotel brand in America. In 2013, he became Head of Global Hospitality and Strategy for Airbnb. Chip believes that one of the most valuable things we can do is accelerate our wisdom by cultivating and harvesting it practically and actively. This is what he teaches today, among other skills, at Modern Elder Academy, the world’s first midlife wisdom school. Fame, self-worth, gut instincts, confidence, and the concept of alchemy are other topics discussed in this episode. Enjoy it.

“When you are in a vulnerable state, you get clear on what’s important to you. And when you are getting clear on what’s important to you, you are moving on a path, on a trajectory toward fulfillment.” -Chip Conley

In This Episode:

The first moment when Chip felt like he'd “made it”

Trusting your gut instinct

Navigating fame and cultivating self-worth

Relationship between vulnerability, fulfillment, and confidence

Alchemy as a tool for understanding specific situations

Elderly mentors

Chip’s dream beyond

Resources:

Book “Wisdom at Work: The Making of a Modern Elder” by Chip Conley

Book “Emotional Equations: Simple Steps for Creating Happiness + Success in Business + Life” by Chip Conley

Book “Peak: How Great Companies Get Their Mojo from Maslow” by Chip Conley

Modern Elder Academy

Connect with Chip Conley:

Website

Twitter

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