The Play by Play Guide to Dating "Out of Your League" with Ashwin | Ep. 20

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06/29/20 • 18 min

In today’s episode we interview Ashwin. Ashwin is a Los Angeles based producer, strategist, and host. His practice focuses on the intersection of branded content, digital and traditional entertainment. He has been working as the principal at New Hollywood a consulting firm in Los Angeles, California. In addition to his work in entertainment Ashwin is involved various investment and advisory roles with technology and entertainment based companies. He is well known as connector and works with various celebrities and brands to produce events and connect people across industries. Ashwin is the host of the popular New Hollywood Podcast which has charted in the top 100 podcasts charts on iTunes.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

Guest: Ashwin Jacob

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

[00.28] – Introduction to the show and guests
[01:39] - The time when he was least likelihood of getting a right swipe on any dating app
[02.02] – Why he as way less cool in real life than on Instagram.
[03.15] – The art to gamify someone into wanting to have a conversation on it, and rather not have that conversation
[04.46] – The reaction you get when people are out at protests and people are out hiking trails
[05:29] - How Boston was one of the last places to desegregate schools
[06.37] – Remembering when the most couture fashion brands in the world that would let Ashwin gift girls that I was dating like red bottom heels
[07:29] - Dating and relationships with hi best female platonic friends who were models
[08:39] - Culture that is so over-sexualized and people don't view people as person. [09:24] - “What is your dirtiest story?”
[10.21] – The experience of being accused sex in the bathroom
[11:39] - “The wildest fetish that you've encountered?”
[12.53] – The most amazing sex toys, sex products, or even just relationship, books or products that you've purchased that's changed your life?
[17:30] - How the most mind changing is like soul gazing because your body releases a dose of oxytocin, which is like an amazing natural high.

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Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

Guest: Ashwin Jacob

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

[00.28] – Introduction to the show and guests
[01:39] - The time when he was least likelihood of getting a right swipe on any dating app
[02.02] – Why he as way less cool in real life than on Instagram.
[03.15] – The art to gamify someone into wanting to have a conversation on it, and rather not have that conversation
[04.46] – The reaction you get when people are out at protests and people are out hiking trails
[05:29] - How Boston was one of the last places to desegregate schools
[06.37] – Remembering when the most couture fashion brands in the world that would let Ashwin gift girls that I was dating like red bottom heels
[07:29] - Dating and relationships with hi best female platonic friends who were models
[08:39] - Culture that is so over-sexualized and people don't view people as person. [09:24] - “What is your dirtiest story?”
[10.21] – The experience of being accused sex in the bathroom
[11:39] - “The wildest fetish that you've encountered?”
[12.53] – The most amazing sex toys, sex products, or even just relationship, books or products that you've purchased that's changed your life?
[17:30] - How the most mind changing is like soul gazing because your body releases a dose of oxytocin, which is like an amazing natural high.

Have a great story that you want to share on the show? Introduce yourself on our website at www.dirtondating.com/single

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feedback will help us grow.

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Previous Episode

How Loving (and Pleasuring) Yourself Can Wildly Enhance Your Relationships with Alexa | Ep. 19

This 24 year old model has learned a thing or two about how to attract a good partner. In this episode of the podcast, we share the mic with Alexa, who shares some very intimate moments with us about how to connect with a partner and unlock a whole new level of satisfaction in a relationship. She shares her adventures of falling in love during a pandemic, and how she was able to get very close to her new partner even while living at home with her family.
Episode Highlights:

[00:00:30] Introduction to Alexa who is a 24 year old Cuban American model living in Miami and 2020 has got her lost in the sauce.
[00:01:30] Alexa shares her wild story of how she unexpectedly met a partner and started a new relationship.[00:03:21] She talks about her trip to New York and back to Miami where she met her new boyfriend at a bar.
[00:04:18] when you're like falling for someone, everything is like Rose colored, but the world outside, like that situation is just like going up in flames.
[00:04:47] Thoughts about how being in love during chaotic times is such a blessing
[00:06:31] How to trust that fate is preparing you for a better situation.
[00:07:52] How Alexa has always found love and connection when she least expects it.
[00:08:54] Alexa talks candidly about what it’s like to live with a traditional Cuban family and date.
[00:10:15] Stories about how Alexa and her partner found creative ways to get frisky when family is home.
[00:11:00] Alexa confides that she is a serial monogamist, and that that style of dating suits her best.
[00:12:00] She shares her thoughts on how to have an intimate connection with your own body
[00:12:45] Why she feels sex is like very much a dance, and how to get comfortable with your own rhythm
[00:13:13] “And then when you bring that version of you into the bedroom with someone else, what happens in there is next level.”
[00:14:45] Alexa’s heartfelt advice for others to not force a relationship, but go with the flow.
[00:17:00] How she believes you shouldn’t change who you are to please a partner, they fell for the you that walked into that room.
[00:18:30] Closing thoughts

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Love Without Labels: What Makes a Modern Relationship? With Maddox | Ep. 21

In today’s episode we interview Maddox. Maddox is a DJ and event producer based in Los Angeles. She is very openminded and all areas empathetic and generally intuitive.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

Guest: Maddox

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

[00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
[01:39] - How to think emotionally especially when you're an empath and why it can be a little exhausting,
[02.02] – The kind of filters to have for when someone comes into your life? How do you know if there's going to be an attraction?
[03.15] – How have things changed with coronavirus and just staying in doors and with the protests now
[04.46] – Matters faced and any difficulties living together. Cause when you spend a lot of time together, sometimes you have some bumps and how do you overcome those?
[05:29] - Stories that they've maybe had two arguments and over a year and very small and just that good communication
[06.37] – The conventional sort of structure of a relationship, with that comes like new definitions of what it means to like have other lovers or like cheat
[07:29] - What is a weird psychological thing that has definitely evolved since then, but wanted to see other people more attracted
[08:39] - How we gotta be together forever and we're going to get married and we're done
[10.21] – Why being present is super important. Tell us a fun story about this current, this current relationship. What's one of the most memorable dates or just sexual adventures?
[11:39] - What are your biggest turn-ons?
[12.53] – Over time, if you really love the person and they make you feel really relaxed, you can't be like really tense. See now you have to just let go.
[16:20] - Maddox shares a story about her favorite intimate product

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