How Loving (and Pleasuring) Yourself Can Wildly Enhance Your Relationships with Alexa | Ep. 19

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06/28/20 • 17 min

This 24 year old model has learned a thing or two about how to attract a good partner. In this episode of the podcast, we share the mic with Alexa, who shares some very intimate moments with us about how to connect with a partner and unlock a whole new level of satisfaction in a relationship. She shares her adventures of falling in love during a pandemic, and how she was able to get very close to her new partner even while living at home with her family.
Episode Highlights:

[00:00:30] Introduction to Alexa who is a 24 year old Cuban American model living in Miami and 2020 has got her lost in the sauce.
[00:01:30] Alexa shares her wild story of how she unexpectedly met a partner and started a new relationship.[00:03:21] She talks about her trip to New York and back to Miami where she met her new boyfriend at a bar.
[00:04:18] when you're like falling for someone, everything is like Rose colored, but the world outside, like that situation is just like going up in flames.
[00:04:47] Thoughts about how being in love during chaotic times is such a blessing
[00:06:31] How to trust that fate is preparing you for a better situation.
[00:07:52] How Alexa has always found love and connection when she least expects it.
[00:08:54] Alexa talks candidly about what it’s like to live with a traditional Cuban family and date.
[00:10:15] Stories about how Alexa and her partner found creative ways to get frisky when family is home.
[00:11:00] Alexa confides that she is a serial monogamist, and that that style of dating suits her best.
[00:12:00] She shares her thoughts on how to have an intimate connection with your own body
[00:12:45] Why she feels sex is like very much a dance, and how to get comfortable with your own rhythm
[00:13:13] “And then when you bring that version of you into the bedroom with someone else, what happens in there is next level.”
[00:14:45] Alexa’s heartfelt advice for others to not force a relationship, but go with the flow.
[00:17:00] How she believes you shouldn’t change who you are to please a partner, they fell for the you that walked into that room.
[00:18:30] Closing thoughts

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[00:00:30] Introduction to Alexa who is a 24 year old Cuban American model living in Miami and 2020 has got her lost in the sauce.
[00:01:30] Alexa shares her wild story of how she unexpectedly met a partner and started a new relationship.[00:03:21] She talks about her trip to New York and back to Miami where she met her new boyfriend at a bar.
[00:04:18] when you're like falling for someone, everything is like Rose colored, but the world outside, like that situation is just like going up in flames.
[00:04:47] Thoughts about how being in love during chaotic times is such a blessing
[00:06:31] How to trust that fate is preparing you for a better situation.
[00:07:52] How Alexa has always found love and connection when she least expects it.
[00:08:54] Alexa talks candidly about what it’s like to live with a traditional Cuban family and date.
[00:10:15] Stories about how Alexa and her partner found creative ways to get frisky when family is home.
[00:11:00] Alexa confides that she is a serial monogamist, and that that style of dating suits her best.
[00:12:00] She shares her thoughts on how to have an intimate connection with your own body
[00:12:45] Why she feels sex is like very much a dance, and how to get comfortable with your own rhythm
[00:13:13] “And then when you bring that version of you into the bedroom with someone else, what happens in there is next level.”
[00:14:45] Alexa’s heartfelt advice for others to not force a relationship, but go with the flow.
[00:17:00] How she believes you shouldn’t change who you are to please a partner, they fell for the you that walked into that room.
[00:18:30] Closing thoughts

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Previous Episode

A Single Man's Approach to Exploring Relationship Models with Jerry | Ep. 18

Dating is a mystery we're all trying to figure out. In today's episode, Jerry shares how he is on the path of discovering how this all works. From experimenting with a swinger couple to traditional relationships, he's explored a lot of options in the Texas dating scene and shares his heartfelt reflections on what feels best for him.

[00:00:30] Introduction to Jerry, a hat maker who lives in Houston, Texas. He is a Leo and he's 33 years old.
[00:01:30] Jerry shares how his hats are great conversation starters
[00:02:18] Jerry speaks about his relationship status and how it’s not seriously defined right now.
[00:04:29] He talks about how dating life is in Texas compared to other places.
[00:05:43] A candid conversation around jerry’s unique dating style as a loosely structured thing.
[00:07:15] A story about what an ideal relationship would look like, as well as his thoughts on swinger scenarios
[00:09:48] Jerry’s thoughts on jealousy and open relationships
[00:12:00] How vulnerability plays into communication
[00:13:11] What Jerry thinks an ideal dating life would look like
[00:15:37] A wild story of how Jerry found himself locked in a closet in Barcelona
[00:19:37] Jerry shares stories of how he prefers women who can take control sometimes
[00:22:00] A steamy story of how Jerry and a date splurged on toys at a sex shop
[00:24:07] Conclusion

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The Play by Play Guide to Dating "Out of Your League" with Ashwin | Ep. 20

In today’s episode we interview Ashwin. Ashwin is a Los Angeles based producer, strategist, and host. His practice focuses on the intersection of branded content, digital and traditional entertainment. He has been working as the principal at New Hollywood a consulting firm in Los Angeles, California. In addition to his work in entertainment Ashwin is involved various investment and advisory roles with technology and entertainment based companies. He is well known as connector and works with various celebrities and brands to produce events and connect people across industries. Ashwin is the host of the popular New Hollywood Podcast which has charted in the top 100 podcasts charts on iTunes.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle

Guest: Ashwin Jacob

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

[00.28] – Introduction to the show and guests
[01:39] - The time when he was least likelihood of getting a right swipe on any dating app
[02.02] – Why he as way less cool in real life than on Instagram.
[03.15] – The art to gamify someone into wanting to have a conversation on it, and rather not have that conversation
[04.46] – The reaction you get when people are out at protests and people are out hiking trails
[05:29] - How Boston was one of the last places to desegregate schools
[06.37] – Remembering when the most couture fashion brands in the world that would let Ashwin gift girls that I was dating like red bottom heels
[07:29] - Dating and relationships with hi best female platonic friends who were models
[08:39] - Culture that is so over-sexualized and people don't view people as person. [09:24] - “What is your dirtiest story?”
[10.21] – The experience of being accused sex in the bathroom
[11:39] - “The wildest fetish that you've encountered?”
[12.53] – The most amazing sex toys, sex products, or even just relationship, books or products that you've purchased that's changed your life?
[17:30] - How the most mind changing is like soul gazing because your body releases a dose of oxytocin, which is like an amazing natural high.

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