Focus on where you are, not where you were (w/ Adam Weber)

04/07/22 • 21 min

Adam Weber shares words of wisdom with us in this episode of The Courageous Pastors Podcast.

“Control what you can control,” he says, “and trust God with the rest.”

We often do the exact opposite. We fret about the things outside our reach, but don’t handle the things we can truly manage.

Adam has been using words, like these, to encourage pastors as he speaks with them. More than any other time, he reminds them to take care of themselves, and to acknowledge their limits.

One leader recently told him, “In 18 years of ministry, I’ve never wanted to quit... until now.”

“Focus on where you ARE, not where you were,” he says.

Again, you can control things in the past. You can only live in the present.

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Read more + find the links to the show notes at www.CourageousPastors.com/blog/014

Adam Weber shares words of wisdom with us in this episode of The Courageous Pastors Podcast.

“Control what you can control,” he says, “and trust God with the rest.”

We often do the exact opposite. We fret about the things outside our reach, but don’t handle the things we can truly manage.

Adam has been using words, like these, to encourage pastors as he speaks with them. More than any other time, he reminds them to take care of themselves, and to acknowledge their limits.

One leader recently told him, “In 18 years of ministry, I’ve never wanted to quit... until now.”

“Focus on where you ARE, not where you were,” he says.

Again, you can control things in the past. You can only live in the present.

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Read more + find the links to the show notes at www.CourageousPastors.com/blog/014

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Don’t take it personal, but make it personal (w/ Pastor Quovadis Marshall)

Pastor Q always knew— since he was first called— he would plant a church in his hometown. The church has just completed its sixth year.

In his own words, “It’s been both better than I thought AND harder than I thought...”

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Crisis creates space where we see what really matters (w/ Brandon Bilbo)

When you meet Brandon Bilbo two things strike you:

He’s a bit country, and
He’s a brilliant leader

Back in 2014 Brandon was a financial advisor, managing a $30MM portfolio. Then he felt called to plant Cross Church in Houma— 20 miles south of New Orleans.

For the first 18 months, he pulled double-duty, pastoring during the nights and weekends while working full-time during the normal 9-5 workweek.

In its first 6 years, the church grew to 1,200 in attendance.

Recently, Brandon’s area was hit by Hurricane Ida— a high-level hurricane that produced flooding as far away as New York City. The wind was so strong in “blew out” the wind gauges.

As Brandon says, “It was catastrophic. Everyone was touched by the trauma.”

The day after the storm, Brandon saw his church in action. Turns out, they could move faster than the government because they weren’t hamstrung by bureaucracies and processes.

And, very quickly, churches began working TOGETHER to help people in need.

Brandon makes an observation, “Pastors in the US pull together when there’s a disaster. In other nations where I’ve been on mission trips, they pull together all the time. That’s just how they do it.”

He encourages us to make those connections NOW— knowing that, at some point, troubles are coming.

Develop the relationships, nurture them... and enjoy them.

Eventually, we will need them in other ways.

The recent storms provided a platform for the church to reach everyone, everywhere. Literally.

“Everyone had some degree of damage,” he says, “and so everyone was reachable in some way.”

One day, in a distribution line, 79 people gave their lives to Jesus. Even though there was no sermon. Even though there was no altar call.

On another day, they asked people who came for help if they wanted prayer. Not a single person turned them down.

An elderly woman had multiple trees down in her yard. She’d just survived Covid and was now devastated by the disaster. Whereas tree companies price-gouged, volunteers from the church arrived at her home and helped her free of charge. She began weeping. It was the tangible love of Christ in action.

“Problems become our opportunity, our chance, to love people,” Brandon reminds us. “That is, if we can keep our poise when those things happen.

We still preach the same message we were preaching 2 years ago. But, in some way, it’s a bit different. It’s less about “come and see” and more about “we’re coming to you.”

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