The BizDad Podcast

“I experienced a profound loss of meaning. Nobody needed me anymore. And that was the hardest thing I experienced during that time—just not being needed.” —John Laney

Explore the inspiring journey of John Laney, a retired Navy veteran who transitioned from military service to financial independence and community involvement through real estate. Discover how John overcame emotional challenges post-military to find purpose in building relationships and engaging his children in entrepreneurship.

This episode offers insights on balancing life after service, nurturing creativity, and adopting the infinite game strategy in business, making it a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration and valuable life lessons.

Connect with John Laney:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnlaney/

http://dodreads.com

https://www.linkedin.com/company/dodreads/

Episode Highlights:

🔍 Searching for meaning is essential.

👨‍👩‍👧 Community involvement shapes family values.

🧠 Reducing screen time increases creativity and problem-solving skills.

👶 Parenting is a continuous learning experience.

♾️ The infinite game in business emphasizes ongoing relationships over competition.

🔄 Transitioning to a new business model requires adaptability and community focus.

🙌 Children can handle more responsibility than often credited.

And much more!

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Overview

03:06 The Reality of Financial Independence

09:04 Lessons from Family and Community

12:06 Growing Up with Hard Work Values

14:57 The Impact of Parenting on Personal Growth

17:49 The Role of a Homemaker

21:00 Military Life and Parenthood

23:52 Transitioning from Military to Civilian Life

26:56 Deployment Experiences and Reflections

29:59 Building a Strong Marriage

32:57 The Move to Mexico and Its Purpose

46:27 Homeschooling and Cultural Immersion

51:40 The Search for Meaning After Military Life

57:15 Building Community Through Real Estate

01:02:13 Transitioning to a New Business Model

01:09:41 Involving Kids in Business and Life Lessons

01:19:26 Encouraging Creativity and Reducing Screen Time

01:26:23 The Infinite Game of Life and Business

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Daniel Ramsey shares his journey as a father and entrepreneur, emphasizing positive role models and intentional parenting. Growing up with a financially struggling father, Daniel sought mentors to guide him in becoming a better father. He stresses finding mentors aligned with one's values. Daniel and his wife have carefully chosen mentors for their children, focusing on qualities they wish to instill. They've built a strong family culture with core values, traditions, and purposeful time together. He talks about parenting mistakes and creating family traditions. Daniel underlines the importance of core values and responsibility within the family, highlighting the significance of learning from mistakes and guiding decisions with core values.

Some highlights from our call:

“You can have heart pain or wallet pain as an entrepreneur. You can do something that hurts your heart and burns into your emotions and soul, or you can do something that hurts your dollars. What most people don't do is spend time reflecting on that pain... and understanding where it came from, why it happened—that's the opportunity.” - Daniel Ramsey

Additional key insights:

Seek mentors aligning with your values.

Choose educators for your children carefully.

Build a strong family culture with core values and traditions.

Reflect on parenting for continuous improvement.

Emphasize the journey and impact of business growth over financial success.

View mistakes as growth opportunities.

Establish family traditions to reinforce values and bonds.

Communicate and use core values for decisions and behavior.

And much more!

Timestamps:

00:00 Intro

02:05 Dad's Influence

04:29 Becoming Dad

07:03 Need for Change

11:48 Wireframes

14:12 Finding Mentors

20:02 Mentoring Kids

23:30 School Choice

27:29 Value Alignment

30:50 Work-Family Balance

32:50 Entrepreneurship & Teaching

37:37 MyOutdesk Origins

43:31 Kids in Business

51:42 Family Traditions

57:50 Trips with Kids

01:02:25 Time Management

01:04:30 Success

01:05:19 Journey Impact

01:05:48 Business Challenges

01:06:18 Seeking Leverage

01:06:48 Learning from Mistakes

01:07:19 Real Estate Lessons

01:07:53 Parenting Mistakes

01:08:19 Tradition Building

01:09:17 Story Lessons

01:10:32 Vision Boards

01:11:02 Traditions

01:11:59 Core Values

01:13:01 Family Roles

01:14:03 Date Nights

01:15:31 Core Reflection

01:18:04 Learning from Errors

01:19:01 Pain Types

01:20:04 Core Value Importance

01:21:02 Joint Mission

01:22:21 Family Culture Power

01:24:06 Core Review

01:25:26 Core-Guided Decisions

01:27:13 Core Value Focus

Follow Daniel Ramsey:

FB Page: https://www.facebook.com/MyOutDesk.LLC/

Website: https://www.myoutdesk.com/

Email: [email protected]

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myoutdesk

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thedanielramsey

YouTube: @MyOutDeskOfficial

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In this episode, Taylor Doolittle emphasizes the need to prioritize family and avoid selfishness in business decisions. The conversation explores the importance of communication in their marriage, the significance of intentional parenting, the role of faith in life, building a successful real estate team, and exposing children to business and faith.

Some highlights from our call:

“Don't put a limit on the amount of time that God needs to make an impact on your life—whether it's a month or a year, you're really limiting what God can do. You're putting your God in a box.” - Taylor Doolittle On Allowing God To Work

Additional key insights:

Family background can influence parenting style and approach to business.

Challenges in childhood can shape individuals to become better parents.

Entrepreneurship can result from personal interests, family influence, and opportunities.

Open communication is crucial in maintaining a strong, healthy marriage.

Prioritizing family in business decisions is essential for success and happiness.

Be present and cherish moments with loved ones, as time flies.

Faith is important and provides a foundation in life.

Building a real estate team requires like-minded individuals and culture.

Expose children to business and faith, allowing them to explore interests.

And much more!

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Listener Notice:

Please be aware that today's episode of our podcast includes content that may not be suitable for children under the age of 13. We advise listener discretion due to mature themes or language that some may find inappropriate for younger audiences.

Thank you for tuning in responsibly!

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Anthony Vigilante shares how growing up with a distant father influenced his approach to fatherhood, emphasizing intentionality and self-improvement. He shifted from corporate life to real estate to be closer to his family, finding closure and understanding after reconnecting with his father two decades later. He stresses the importance of understanding, forgiveness, continuous learning through books and groups, and engaging with his children in meaningful ways.

Balancing work and family, he aims to instill a work ethic and perseverance in his kids, encouraging them to explore both corporate and entrepreneurial paths. Anthony highlights the crucial role of fathers, advocating for active participation and shared hobbies to foster strong parent-child bonds.

Some highlights from our call:

“Reconnecting with my dad was a realization of the importance of family." - Anthony Vigilante

Additional key insights:

Focus on intentional parenting

Family history shapes parenting

Reconnect with family for healing

Value forgiveness and understanding

Choose careers that enhance family time

Seek parenting insights from books and groups

Balance work-life; teach work ethic

Use daily activities for learning

Encourage kids' interests in all career paths

Enjoy shared activities

And much more!

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction and Background

13:20 Understanding and Forgiving His Dad

30:46 Anthony's Approach to Fatherhood

38:53 The Joy of Spending Time with Children

48:54 Teaching Work Ethic and Determination

56:37 Leading by Example and Finding Teaching Moments

01:05:36 Supporting Children's Happiness and Aspirations

01:13:31 The Influence of Society and Media

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthonyvigilante/

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"We must teach our children to share their stoic stories with autonomy, mastery, purpose, and extraordinary discipline—I think that is what I'm trying to accomplish every day with my kids." —Josh Notes

Serial entrepreneur Josh Notes discusses balancing entrepreneurship with parenting, reflecting on his upbringing and pivotal career moments. He emphasizes teaching his children critical thinking and curiosity through structured goal setting and mental strategies. This episode offers insights on nurturing resilience and curiosity in children alongside maintaining entrepreneurial success.

Takeaways:

Entrepreneurial families shape mindsets.

Early ventures teach valuable lessons.

Entrepreneurship demands risk-taking.

Teach kids autonomy and discipline.

Nurture children's curiosity.

Explore alternative educational approaches.

Parents foster learning opportunities.

Choose schooling that fits a child's needs.

Limit kids' screen time effectively.

Discipline and decision-making are key.

Encourage self-governance in children.

Fractional CFOs guide financial planning.

Build efficient business systems.

Sports coaching teaches life values.

Set goals in sports and business.

Understand roles in golf coaching.

Manage emotions through coaching.

Connect with Josh Notes:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshnotes/

https://www.instagram.com/joshnotes55/

https://twitter.com/joshnotes55

sustaincfo.com (Company)

theenergyartisans.com (Company)

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction

01:55 Family Influence

06:37 Entrepreneurial Start

10:29 Early Lessons

13:12 College Exploration

20:30 Career Choice

25:23 Teaching Entrepreneurship

30:10 Critical Thinking

31:21 Curiosity Encouragement

34:13 Alternative Education

38:06 Parental Role

43:14 Schooling Impact

55:47 Environment Choice

58:07 World Preparation

01:01:15 Discipline Importance

01:03:10 Avoiding Conflict

01:04:17 CFO Transition

01:09:58 Business Systems

01:12:20 Systems Implementation

01:16:18 Financial Forecasting

01:18:43 Conflict Avoidance

01:19:25 Conflict Teaching

01:20:38 Coaching & Parenting

01:21:36 Sports Mentoring

01:23:00 Dad & CEO Coaching

01:23:26 Life Lessons Coaching

01:25:20 Business Coaching

01:26:09 Youth Sports Coaching

01:27:07 Golf Mentoring

01:29:04 Golf Goals

01:30:24 Parenting & Business Strategies

01:32:03 Golf Parenting Roles

01:33:16 Caddying Importance

01:34:28 Golf Psychology

01:36:15 Life & Golf Coaching

01:37:49 Caddying Preparation

01:39:26 Golf Confidence

01:41:01 Positive Golf Mindset

01:43:25 Golf Teamwork

01:45:02 Managing Golf Stress

01:46:00 Golf Coaching Evolution

01:47:27 Golf Challenges

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