
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
Jenna von Oy and Ashley Robyn
In a world where we’re often encouraged to hold back, it’s time to feel it all. The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast is your ultimate destination for heart-to-heart conversations, hosted by real-life besties Jenna von Oy and Ashley Robyn. These two know how to turn life’s twists and turns into reasons to laugh, reflect, and, of course, celebrate...especially when snacks and cocktails are involved!
Join Jenna and Ashley as they dive into candid discussions about personal growth, relationships, and pop culture. With a lineup of inspiring celebrity and thought leader interviews, each episode offers insights and stories that will leave you feeling understood, empowered, and ready to embrace your own big feelings.
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The Boohoo Breakfast | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 1
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
02/10/25 • 12 min
What happens when two emotionally over-caffeinated besties meet at a kindergarten orientation called The Boohoo Breakfast? Chaos, bonding, and a lifelong friendship sparked in a sea of Kleenex and questionable parenting decisions.
In this debut episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast, Jenna von Oy (*yes, Six from Blossom) and Ashley Robyn (yeah, that girl you've never heard of) cannonball into the deep end of big feelings, overthinking, and the fine art of pretending you have your life together while a toddler scales you like Mount Everest.
We break down:
🥂 Why "everything happens for a reason" is a terrible lie
🌮 The sacred ritual of Taco Therapy (snacks = life)
🤝 Making mom friends when you're just trying to keep your kid from eating crayons
🎙 The raw, unfiltered reason we started this podcast...spoiler: it involves cold coffee and a desire for community.
So grab your drink of choice (cocktails highly encouraged) and settle in for a ride through the messy, hilarious, and painfully relatable reality of being human.
👉 Hit play now!
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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs...preferably with a margarita in hand.
Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

Do You Know The Key to Healthy Dating? | Season 1 | Episode 2
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
03/25/24 • 34 min
In this episode, we dive deeper into the journey towards finding healthy love and true partnership, building on our discussion from Episode 1 about casual hookups versus intentional intimacy.
We explore the nuanced difference between guilt and shame, particularly how guilt can serve as a productive tool for those who tend to people-please. Many of us find ourselves making “pit stops” in our dating journey, not always honoring our deepest truths, leading to feelings of guilt. This episode encourages you to ask, "Why do I feel guilty?" Often, it's because our actions haven't aligned with our highest and best good. By acknowledging this truth without judgment, you'll start to feel better and more in control of your dating life.
Our culture frequently advises against dwelling on negative emotions, but when we investigate them, they can offer invaluable insights into our future choices. Feelings of sadness, despair, and anxiety can often be mitigated when we truly honor ourselves. Yet, sometimes, it's the mistakes that teach us the most about what we want and where we're headed.
Furthermore, we discuss making “pit stops” in a mindful, helpful, and intentional way to propel us closer to our desired outcomes. With the overwhelming world of dating apps causing frustration, we underscore why having tools and strategies is paramount in dating. Whether you're navigating casual encounters or seeking deep, meaningful connections, we provide the roadmap to help you find what you're looking for in relationships.
Tune in to gather insights and strategies that empower you to navigate your dating journey with more intention, self-respect, and clarity. Remember, every experience shapes your choices and can lead to better decisions in the future. Join us in Episode 2 as we guide you through making intentional pit stops on your journey to love.
Your roadmap to healthy love and true partnership starts here.
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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Lindsay Taylor
Lindsay is the co-founder of lovelab and a distinctive life coach and therapist with more than 14 years of experience, focused on helping clients overcome blocks to achieve authenticity and fulfillment. Her coaching spans topics like relationship conflicts, self-confidence, career dissatisfaction, and work-life balance, aiming for quick, impactful transformation for motivated clients. She’s passionate about helping women find alignment with their true selves so that they can build healthier relationships.
Ashley Robyn
Ashley is the co-founder of lovelab, founder of the encouraging online community Love Everywhere, and author of Maybe We’re All Diamonds. She’s passionate about helping people set healthy boundaries, leave toxic relationships behind, find their vo...

Tacos and Toxic Positivity | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 3
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
02/24/25 • 56 min
Ashley’s taco plans got hijacked. Jenna insists tacos might be sandwiches. LeBron James tried to trademark Taco Tuesday (and failed). And somehow, we still had time to unpack why toxic positivity is emotional gaslighting wrapped in a Pinterest aesthetic.
LISTEN NOW: Because not talking about your feelings is so 2005.
WATCH on YouTube, because tacos are a personality test.
Thanks for listening to the Big F*cking Feelings podcast!
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend!
For more, visit thebffpodcast.com
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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs...preferably with a margarita in hand.
Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

Staying True to You, Even When He’s Not Feeling It | Season 1 | Episode 4
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
04/22/24 • 49 min
In today's episode, we’re deep diving into the significance of staying connected to our inner selves and how our emotional states can impact our reactions to everyday situations–especially when you’ve reached the point on your dating journey where there’s a guy who isn’t vibing as much as you wish he was. Whether you're feeling grounded or a bit off-kilter, understanding your emotional responses can be a game changer in your personal and relationship growth.
🤔 Have you ever noticed how something trivial can become overwhelming when you're not feeling your best? Or perhaps, you've mastered staying calm in situations that once unsettled you. Either way, this episode is all about harnessing that awareness to enhance your relationship with yourself and others.
🙌 Join us as we explore practical ways to get back to our true selves, ensuring that we live life more fully and authentically. It's all about making peace with the person you spend the most time with - yourself!
Thanks for listening to the lovelab podcast!
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend!
For more, visit thelovelab.co
Sign up for our Swipe To Life Dating Course HERE
Let be friends! Follow us on Instagram @thisislovelab
ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Lindsay Taylor
Lindsay is the co-founder of lovelab and a distinctive life coach and therapist with more than 14 years of experience, focused on helping clients overcome blocks to achieve authenticity and fulfillment. Her coaching spans topics like relationship conflicts, self-confidence, career dissatisfaction, and work-life balance, aiming for quick, impactful transformation for motivated clients. She’s passionate about helping women find alignment with their true selves so that they can build healthier relationships.
Ashley Robyn
Ashley is the co-founder of lovelab, founder of the encouraging online community Love Everywhere, and author of Maybe We’re All Diamonds. She’s passionate about helping people set healthy boundaries, leave toxic relationships behind, find their vo...

Pickles and the Pink Pandemic | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 2
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
02/17/25 • 43 min
Welcome to another silly goose episode of The BFF Podcast!
This time, we dive deep into the pink pandemic; from regrettable wardrobe choices to an infamous bathroom that should have its own reality show.
We discuss pickle juice as the ultimate hangover cure (or just pure punishment?), whiskey with an unfortunate name, and why Taylor Swift was the true star of last night’s dance party. Plus, we uncover the shocking history of the color pink, a massive bathroom accessory that no one saw coming, and why some childhood snacks should never be revisited. Grab a drink (maybe not pickle juice) and get ready for some big f*cking feelings! Cheers!
Thanks for listening to the Big F*cking Feelings podcast!
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend!
For more, visit thebffpodcast.com
Let be friends! Follow us on Instagram @thisisthebffpodcast and SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel
ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs...preferably with a margarita in hand.
Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

Being Single Forever vs Dating After Divorce | Season 1 | Episode 3
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
04/08/24 • 70 min
Ready to dive into the wild and sometimes wild world of dating? Whether you've been riding solo forever or you're stepping back into the dating scene after a big life change like a divorce, this episode is your new best friend!
Join our hosts Lindsay Taylor and Ashley Robyn while we unpack what it's like to be perpetually single—embracing the solo journey and all the freedom (and sometimes, the frustration) that comes with it. Not just stopping there, we're also exploring the terrain of jumping back into dating post-divorce—yes, it's a whole different ball game, but who says you can't score a home run?
From hilarious dating fails to heartwarming success stories, we'll cover:
- The real talk on enjoying the single life and how to rock it without feeling like you're missing out.
- Tips on re-entering the dating world with confidence after a divorce—because it's not just about finding love, but enjoying the ride!
- Strategies to navigate the emotional ups and downs, keeping your spirits high and your heart open.
Whether you're loving the single life or looking for love again, let's laugh, learn, and maybe even shed a happy tear or two as we tackle the dating world together. Trust us, it's going to be a journey you won't want to miss! Grab your popcorn, and let’s get into it—because your love story is just waiting to be written! 🍿❤️
Thanks for listening to the lovelab podcast!
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend!
For more, visit thelovelab.co
Sign up for our Swipe To Life Dating Course HERE
Let be friends! Follow us on Instagram @thisislovelab
ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Lindsay Taylor
Lindsay is the co-founder of lovelab and a distinctive life coach and therapist with more than 14 years of experience, focused on helping clients overcome blocks to achieve authenticity and fulfillment. Her coaching spans topics like relationship conflicts, self-confidence, career dissatisfaction, and work-life balance, aiming for quick, impactful transformation for motivated clients. She’s passionate about helping women find alignment with their true selves so that they can build healthier relationships.
Ashley Robyn
Ashley is the co-founder of lovelab, founder of the encouraging online community Love Everywhere, and author of Maybe We’re All Diamonds. She’s passionate about helping people set healthy boundaries, leave toxic relationships behind, find their vo...

What It's Like To Have Intentional Intimacy vs Casual Hook Ups In Dating | Season 1 | Episode 1
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
03/18/24 • 35 min
If dating were like baking your favorite, most elaborate dessert, you'd gather all the special ingredients with care, mix them with intention, and wait patiently as it bakes, filling the room with the most delightful aroma. That's intentional intimacy. It's about taking the time to truly know and connect with someone, creating a bond that's as rich and satisfying as that perfect bite of dessert.
Then there's the grab-and-go snack version of dating. Sure, it's quick and can satisfy a craving, but it lacks the depth, the flavors, and the warmth of something made with intention. Casual encounters might seem easier at times, but they miss out on the layers of connection and the warmth that comes from truly understanding someone.
Intentional intimacy is like that dessert that takes all afternoon to make—it's about the journey, the anticipation, and the joy of finally sharing it. It's about finding someone who's worth the wait, whose layers you want to explore slowly, savoring every new discovery along the way.
So, what are you baking into your love life? Quick snacks or something deeply satisfying? Here's to choosing recipes that fill us with warmth, joy, and maybe a sprinkle of love.
Thanks for listening to the lovelab podcast!
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend!
For more, visit thelovelab.co
Sign up for our Swipe To Life Dating Course HERE
Let be friends! Follow us on Instagram @thisislovelab
ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Lindsay Taylor
Lindsay is the co-founder of lovelab and a distinctive life coach and therapist with more than 14 years of experience, focused on helping clients overcome blocks to achieve authenticity and fulfillment. Her coaching spans topics like relationship conflicts, self-confidence, career dissatisfaction, and work-life balance, aiming for quick, impactful transformation for motivated clients. She’s passionate about helping women find alignment with their true selves so that they can build healthier relationships.
Ashley Robyn
Ashley is the co-founder of lovelab, founder of the encouraging online community Love Everywhere, and author of Maybe We’re All Diamonds. She’s passionate about helping people set healthy boundaries, leave toxic relationships behind, find their vo...

Bagels and Braving Roadtrips with Courtney Chase | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 8
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
03/31/25 • 46 min
We braved the bagel discourse. We swapped road trip survival tips. We summoned a super hero and Baby Daddy. And we did it all with our very first guest: Courtney Chase—former child actor, real-life Gerber Baby, and current badass mom-of-two.
In this extra-toasty episode of The BFF Podcast, Jenna and Ashley welcome Courtney to talk about the chaos, comedy, and questionable snack choices that come with traveling with kids, the magic of New York bagels, and why patience is basically a superpower with a car seat.
🎒 Expect:
🥯 A passionate defense of egg everything bagels
🧳 Pandemic road trip horror stories
💥 The deeply weird lore of “Baby Daddy” the doll
😳 The art of NOT handing out bribe bags to strangers on flights
🧘♀️ How to stay Zen when your child becomes feral at 30,000 feet
Plus, a toast to delirious road snacks, dirty cupholders, and why we don’t leash our children... but we get it.
This might be our wildest yet. Hit play, grab a snack (preferably not from a car floor), and let the chaos comfort you.
Thanks for listening to the Big F*cking Feelings podcast!
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend!
For more, visit thebffpodcast.com
Let be friends! Follow us on Instagram @thisisthebffpodcast and SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel
ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs...preferably with a margarita in hand.
Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

SPAM Squared | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 4
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
03/03/25 • 41 min
Warning: This episode may cause excessive laughter, existential grocery store regret, and a sudden urge to check your junk folder.
Ever wondered what connects canned meat and the digital junkmail that haunts your inbox? Neither did we. And yet, here we are.
In this highly questionable episode of The BFF Podcast, Ashley and Jenna embark on a courageous (some might say misguided) journey into the world of Spam (the food) and spam (the inbox menace). One was force-fed to WWII soldiers; the other was force-fed to you when you simply went to open a bank account. Both are hard to digest.
🍖 We taste-test Spam fries (spoiler: bad idea)
📩 Solve the mystery of why your email looks like your kitchen junk drawer
🐍 Discuss the one Russian guy who personally sent 30% of the world’s spam (and probably still sleeps great at night)
🏛 Debate whether the Spam Museum is a place of history, horror, or both
We also sip cheap wine out of deeply questionable glassware, discuss why Spam has a longer shelf life than our childhood dreams, and attempt to answer life’s biggest question: Why does this stuff still exist?
🎧 Listen now before we all get buried in an inbox avalanche and/or canned meat surplus.
Thanks for listening to the Big F*cking Feelings podcast!
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend!
For more, visit thebffpodcast.com
Let be friends! Follow us on Instagram @thisisthebffpodcast and SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel
ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs...preferably with a margarita in hand.
Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

Empanadas and Embarrassing Moments | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 6
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast
03/17/25 • 55 min
What do giant empanadas, humiliating high school moments, and a deeply regrettable red lacy bra have in common? Absolutely nothing. And yet, here we are.
In this chaotic and hilarious episode of The BFF Podcast, Ashley and Jenna serve up freshly stolen empanada recipes, unpack mortifying memories that still haunt them, and question why middle schoolers are the most ruthless creatures on earth.
🔥 Inside this episode:
🥟 Ashley reveals the Argentinian empanada recipe she totally didn’t steal.
🤦♀️ Jenna recalls the time she lost a tooth at P.F. Chang’s in front of the Tennessee Titans.
🎭 The tragic story of Ashley’s head vs. a two-by-four (spoiler: the wood won).
💀 Why bra shopping as a teen celebrity is a literal nightmare.
It’s unfiltered. It’s unhinged. It’s exactly what you need in your life today.
🎧 Listen now or find us on YouTube for the video version!
Thanks for listening to the Big F*cking Feelings podcast!
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend!
For more, visit thebffpodcast.com
Let be friends! Follow us on Instagram @thisisthebffpodcast and SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel
ABOUT OUR HOSTS:
Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs...preferably with a margarita in hand.
Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.
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How many episodes does The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast have?
The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast currently has 14 episodes available.
What topics does The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast cover?
The podcast is about Dating Advice, Comedy, Podcasts and Tv & Film.
What is the most popular episode on The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast?
The episode title 'Staying True to You, Even When He’s Not Feeling It | Season 1 | Episode 4' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast?
The average episode length on The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast is 42 minutes.
How often are episodes of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast released?
Episodes of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast?
The first episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast was released on Mar 18, 2024.
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