#102 Motivating Unmotivated Children

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Does your child drag their feet when it's time to hit the books or complete chores? Or do you ever find yourself scratching your head, wondering how to get them out of bed in the morning or to convince them to maintain basic hygiene habits? Whatever the case, motivation isn't always easy, even for adults. We all have moments when we struggle to find the drive to tackle certain tasks. So how can we make sense of this challenge when it arises in our children? That's precisely what we're going to uncover today!

In this episode, we'll explore the various factors that can contribute to a child's lack of motivation. From neurodivergent conditions like ADHD and autism to social challenges, learning disabilities, and even mental health issues like anxiety and depression.But more importantly, we'll discuss:

• The pitfalls of lecturing, shaming, minimizing the child's struggles, and engaging in power struggles.
• Understanding the concept of neuroplasticity and how positive thoughts and beliefs can wire the brain for positivity.
• The importance of deep connections between parents and children and how we can use this connection to foster a sense of purpose, and empower children to find their own solutions.
• Introducing the concept of a Motivation Menu as a tool to enhance motivation, energy, and focus by incorporating activities that stimulate the release of dopamine.

Let's dive in and discover how we can help our children unlock their potential and embrace a more motivated approach to life. Tune in to learn how you can make a positive difference in your child's journey toward greater motivation and fulfillment.

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Episode Resources:

***CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD YOUR MOTIVATION MENU COPY***

Article: https://drsandygluckman.com/why-your-child-is-unmotivated-and-what-to-do-about-it/

Jessica McCabe Video: “How to Give Your Brain the Stimulation it Needs”.

Article: https://www.parentingforbrain.com/how-to-get-kids-to-do-chores/

Article: https://www.edutopia.org/article/reframing-rewire-student-brains/#:~:text=Neuroplasticity%20is%20how%20our%20nervous,well%2Dbeing%20in%20all%20moments.

Article: https://www.edutopia.org/article/reframing-rewire-student-brains/#
SHOWNOTES: In this episode of the 3D Parent podcast, we're going to delve into this common challenge, exploring the various reasons why children may struggle with motivation and, most importantly, what we can do to support them.Before we jump into solutions, let's remember that struggling with motivation is a common issue, and it doesn't mean that your child is destined for a lifetime of apathy. By understanding the root causes and implementing some practical tips, we can help ignite that spark of motivation within them.

So, why might your child be lacking motivation?...