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Talking Sense with Dr Martha

Talking Sense with Dr Martha

Martha Deiros Collado

Come and join Dr Martha Deiros Collado, clinical psychologist and mother, every Monday to get your parenting questions answered. Get a thought provoking lens on child behaviour that all parents witness and see every day and find ideas to support you and your child. Make sense of children’s behaviours, quirks, and communication, and notice how Talking Sense brings you closer to other parents and helps you feel that little bit less alone through this messy, yet beautiful, chapter we call childhood. Subscribe now and don’t miss an episode!

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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Talking Sense with Dr Martha episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Talking Sense with Dr Martha for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Talking Sense with Dr Martha episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Talking Sense with Dr Martha - What Can I Do When My Child Says "I Feel Sad"
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07/10/23 • 35 min

As a parent it is normal to want your child to be happy and have positive experiences. And one of the hardest things to learn is that you cannot make your child happy, and fixing their feelings is not your job. Dr Martha speaks about emotion to help you make sense of what your child means when they say "I feel sad", how to work with the emotion rather than trying to fix it or remove it, and the things to watch out for if sadness is getting stuck around your child and it's not longer a temporary emotion but low mood impacting on their quality of life.


Pre-order my first book 'How To Be The Grown Up' here:https://bit.ly/HowtoBetheGrownUpAMZ

Pre-orders are a ‘promise’ between you and me - that I will deliver a book that I think you will love and find useful, and you will support me by promising to buy it first. No money gets taken out of your bank account until the day the book is launched.


The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years (including sibling rivalry).


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Talking Sense with Dr Martha - How Do I Talk To My Children About Our Separation?
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05/08/23 • 32 min

Making the decision to separate as a couple is never an easy one. Considering how you share the new with your children show how much you care about the relationship you have with them and can help you all adjust to the changes a separation brings. Dr Martha talks through how to talk to children about an adult separation, the areas to consider for you and for them, as well as what to do when children witness adult conflict. Because your story is unique you will need to adapt the words and ideas suggested here but Dr Martha hopes it will offer you some comfort and grounding in the conversations.


If you need further support there is help available:

Divorce Aid: www.divorceaid.co.uk

Independently run page with information for parents, children and teens


Parent Line: 0808 800 2222

Emotional support, information and guidance for parents going through family changes


Gingerbread: www.gingerbread.co.uk

Expert advice and practice support for single parents


✨The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years.


Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course



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Talking Sense with Dr Martha - How Can We Talk About Reproduction With Our Kids?
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12/12/22 • 30 min

Do you know how to answer your child’s questions about ‘where babies come from’? And what do you do when your answer isn’t enough and they want ‘more’ understanding about how babies are made? Dr Martha gives you the tools and scripts to talk about this with your child to build your confidence in this topic and bring your child a sense of safety that they can trust you to answer their big questions, always.

Find Dr Martha’s curated list of books on reproduction, sex and families here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/drmdc_paediatric_psychologist/list/PH5HRDNY6GLO

Sign up to Dr Martha’s newsletter here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com

If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]


The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years.


Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course



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Talking Sense with Dr Martha - When Can We Expect Our Children’s Big Outbursts To Stop?
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09/05/22 • 33 min

As our child gets older we might expect their emotional regulation skills to get better. When can we expect their outbursts to stop? How do we respond when our child is older and still shout at us? Dr Martha talks about this and a lot more on the topic of emotional regulation with older children.

Dr Martha holds a list of favourite reads on useful topics including emotions. Find the reading list and further resources including sensory toys for soothhing here:

https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/resources

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]


The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years.


Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course


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Talking Sense with Dr Martha - How Can We Meet Sibling's Individual Needs?
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01/23/23 • 28 min

If you have more than one child you cannot split yourself in half to care for their needs. So how do you manage your children's competing demands? What can you do when you feel like you are constantly being pulled in different directions? Dr Martha answers these questions and offers a thought provoking perspective on parenting multiple children and the importance of boundaries, for them and for you too.


The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years.


Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course


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Talking Sense with Dr Martha - How To Find a Balance with Screen Time?

How To Find a Balance with Screen Time?

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12/26/22 • 33 min

Screens are everywhere! When little ones want to watch screens what is the best way of setting limits? Is there such a thing as ‘healthy screentime’? And how do you find the right balance for you and your family? Dr Martha explores all of these questions and offers you the current evidence base we have on screentime and children.

On January 6th 2023 Dr Martha will be making a big announcement and it will happen on the newsletter first. Sign up now and don’t miss out!

https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com

If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]


The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years.


Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course


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Talking Sense with Dr Martha - Where is The Line Between Caring and Spoiling?
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12/19/22 • 29 min

How do you know whether you are showing care to your child or spoiling them? Where is the line between nurturing and bringing up an entitled child? Dr Martha shares the difference and the reasons behind why children might ask for care even when they have the skills to do things by themselves.

On January 6th 2023 Dr Martha will be making a big announcement and it will happen on the newsletter first. Sign up now and don’t miss out!

https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com

If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]


The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years.


Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course


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Talking Sense with Dr Martha - How To Teach Little Boys That It's Ok To Have Big Emotions?
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04/03/23 • 33 min

Little boys gets taught from an early age the rigid rules of 'masculinity' in terms of what is acceptable to say, do, and like. This can turn toxic in the long term and have a detrimental impact on the health and well-being of men. Dr Martha discusses what 'toxic masculinity' is and how it differs from healthy masculine behaviours, she breaks down some for he stereotypes we have absorbed in Western Society and offers you ideas to reflect on and work with if you wish to break the cycle of 'toxic masculinity' for your child and for yourself.


Dr Martha's Recommended Book list for book on this topic see 'Gender' here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/recommended-books


The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years.


Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course


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Talking Sense with Dr Martha - I Think My Child Is A Bully. What Do I Do?

I Think My Child Is A Bully. What Do I Do?

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07/24/23 • 34 min

We often talk about bullying from the point of view of the victim, but what of the children who engage in bullying behaviour? This conversation can be confronting because it means deconstructing the narrative that child who bully are 'bad kids' and it means we need to look inwards - at ourselves, the adults who are around children - to consider what messages our words and actions are giving children, and explore with compassion what may be going on for a child who chooses to engage in bullying behaviour. Dr Martha sensitively walks you through this offering you ideas to guide your next steps to hopefully prevent bullying or stop it in its tracks.


Pre-order my first book 'How To Be The Grown Up' here:https://bit.ly/HowtoBetheGrownUpAMZ

Pre-orders are a ‘promise’ between you and me - that I will deliver a book that I think you will love and find useful, and you will support me by promising to buy it first. No money gets taken out of your bank account until the day the book is launched.


The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years (including sibling rivalry).


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Talking Sense with Dr Martha - I Just Saw My Child Touching Themselves. HELP!
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07/03/23 • 36 min

We don't tend to talk about little ones' sexual behaviour. As adults we may find this is wrong or perverse, and yet there is a difference between 'sexual behaviour' that comes from curiosity and exploration and 'sexualised behaviour' with an intention for sex. Children are born wanting to explore the world and learning about their bodies is a part of it. When it comes to little ones masturbating this conversation is often taboo, can feel embarrassing or bring shame to adults. And yet - it is healthy and natural for children to explore their own bodies. There are however some 'red flags' to be aware of to differentiate developmentally appropriate behaviour from something that may need further professional guidance and support. Dr Martha talks about all these topics with sensitivity towards you, the adult navigating these situations, and appropriate developmental understanding of your child, to guide you to think about ways to set safe boundaries and explore conversations around privacy, consent, and safeguarding.


Pre-order my first book 'How To Be The Grown Up' here:https://bit.ly/HowtoBetheGrownUpAMZ

Pre-orders are a ‘promise’ between you and me - that I will deliver a book that I think you will love and find useful, and you will support me by promising to buy it first. No money gets taken out of your bank account until the day the book is launched.


The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years (including sibling rivalry).


The NSPCC "Pantosaurus" song I discuss on the podcast is linked below:

https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/support-for-parents/pants-underwear-rule/


Three of my favourite books on sex and bodies are linked below. For a full list of recommended books see: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/recommended-books

  • Sex is a Funny Word: https://amzn.eu/d/a318aYn
  • Let's Talk About Body Boundaries, Consent, and Respect: https://amzn.eu/d/dluyo04
  • Making a Baby: https://amzn.eu/d/bd8D6Rd

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FAQ

How many episodes does Talking Sense with Dr Martha have?

Talking Sense with Dr Martha currently has 56 episodes available.

What topics does Talking Sense with Dr Martha cover?

The podcast is about Questions, Parenting, Parent, Kids & Family, Fatherhood, Motherhood, Father, Podcasts, Education, Mother, Kids, Advice, Parenthood, Children and Child.

What is the most popular episode on Talking Sense with Dr Martha?

The episode title 'Oh No! I Just Lost It. How Do I Repair With My Child?' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Talking Sense with Dr Martha?

The average episode length on Talking Sense with Dr Martha is 31 minutes.

How often are episodes of Talking Sense with Dr Martha released?

Episodes of Talking Sense with Dr Martha are typically released every 6 days, 23 hours.

When was the first episode of Talking Sense with Dr Martha?

The first episode of Talking Sense with Dr Martha was released on Jul 8, 2022.

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