Talk Dirty To Me - S3E4 - We're Not Ethical Non Monogamists Any More

S3E4 - We're Not Ethical Non Monogamists Any More

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06/02/24 • 63 min

Talk Dirty To Me

Is it time to reframe how we talk about non-monogamous relationships? Join us as Aaron leads a thought-provoking debate on the term "ethical non-monogamy." Why add the word "ethical" anyway? Dive into this fiery discussion as we question societal norms and explore the inherent honesty in non-monogamous relationships. We even cheekily suggest flipping the script and calling monogamous folks "ethically monogamous" to underscore the absurdity of needing such labels.
Ever wondered if a $1,200 sex toy is worth the investment? We share our exhilarating (and sometimes awkward) experiences with the high-end Sibian, examining how its mechanical nature can both enhance and detract from intimacy. From hilarious stories of loaning the toy to friends to practical tips on maintaining connection while using it, this segment is an eye-opener. Plus, we touch on other expensive toys and the importance of prioritizing intimacy amidst the gadgets.
Power dynamics in BDSM relationships can be both thrilling and complex. We delve into the responsibilities of dominants, the gift of submission, and the essential need for mutual respect. Discover why clear communication and equal footing are crucial at the start of any BDSM relationship. As we wrap up, we celebrate our third season and the impact of our candid conversations, knowing we're helping listeners navigate their own intimate journeys. Don't miss it, and check out more at littlerenegadefilms.com!

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