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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia

Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia

Lisa Testart

If you’ve ever thought “how the fuck did that happen” as you walked out of the Australian Family Law system and losing everything, while watching your psychopathic ex get away with the boys club trifecta of perjury, contempt, and not coughing up their financials til you’re broke, homeless, and probably couch surfing, then boy have you come to the right place! Strap on your fuck it attitude, and settle in to find out what your lawyer never told you...be prepared to feel very ducking angry 😡 and then share this with everyone you know that needs these words of hard fought wisdom.
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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - You can check-out any time you like, but you can never leave!

You can check-out any time you like, but you can never leave!

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10/20/24 • 10 min

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Just like the Eagles sing in Hotel California: if you’re in a property case “You can check-out any time you like, but you can never leave!"

Without leave of the court, you cannot withdraw from a property case once it’s started, no matter how exhaustipated or traumatised you are by your psychonarc ex.

Withdrawing leaves you vulnerable to a costs order being made against you, but even more horrific than a costs order is the fact that the rules allow your ex to continue to litigate the proceeding without you there, on an undefended basis, and not only are you at risk of costs, but you also have no say in anything and you’ll have to wear whatever the court orders.

FEDERAL CIRCUIT AND FAMILY COURT OF AUSTRALIA (FAMILY LAW) RULES 2021 (F2021L01197) - RULE 10.02

Discontinuance

(1) A party may discontinue an application or response by filing a notice of discontinuance in accordance with the approved form.

(2) A notice of discontinuance may be filed:

(a) at least 14 days before the day fixed for the final hearing of the application; or

(b) with the leave of the court, at a later time.

(3) However, a party must not file a notice of discontinuance in a proceeding under the Family Law Act without the leave of the court if:

(a) the proceeding relates to the property of a party; and

(b) one of the parties dies before the proceeding is decided.

(4) A party filing a notice of discontinuance must, as soon as practicable, serve a copy of the notice on each other party to the proceeding.

(5) Discontinuance of an application or response by a party does not discontinue any other party's application or response.

And then there is the costs implications:

FEDERAL CIRCUIT AND FAMILY COURT OF AUSTRALIA (FAMILY LAW) RULES 2021 (F2021L01197) - RULE 10.03

Costs

(1) If a party discontinues an application or response, another party to the proceeding may apply for costs.

(2) Unless the court directs otherwise, an application for costs must be made by a party within 28 days after service on the party of the notice of discontinuance.

(3) If an order for costs is made against a party, and the party brings against the party to whom the costs are payable a further proceeding on the same or substantially the same matter, the court may stay the further proceeding until the costs are paid.
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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - I’m self represented…where do I sit?

I’m self represented…where do I sit?

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05/23/21 • 2 min

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A tricksy question for the uninitiated

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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - Why won’t the barrister talk to me?

Why won’t the barrister talk to me?

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05/23/21 • 9 min

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Snobbery? Legal practice? A protective measure?
Find out why some will, and some won’t, talk to a client.
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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - Confidentiality vs Privilege

Confidentiality vs Privilege

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05/21/21 • 11 min

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Confidentiality vs Privilege and why it's critical to understand when you're a victim in hiding, or just don't want to be found.
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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - What if I can't remember things? Can I refer to my affidavit?

What if I can't remember things? Can I refer to my affidavit?

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06/21/21 • 12 min

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It's impossible to expect a witness to remember every last detail in complex cases, particularly financial ones. We talk about how and when to ask for documents to refresh your memory.
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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - Full and Frank Financial Disclosure Obligations

Full and Frank Financial Disclosure Obligations

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05/28/21 • 26 min

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FAMILY LAW RULES 2004 - RULE 13.04

Full and frank disclosure

(1) A party to a financial case must make full and frank disclosure of the party's financial circumstances, including:

(a) the party's earnings, including income that is paid or assigned to another party, person or legal entity;

(b) any vested or contingent interest in property;

(c) any vested or contingent interest in property owned by a legal entity that is fully or partially owned or controlled by a party;

(d) any income earned by a legal entity fully or partially owned or controlled by a party, including income that is paid or assigned to any other party, person or legal entity;

(e) the party's other financial resources;

(f) any trust:

(i) of which the party is the appointor or trustee;

(ii) of which the party, the party's child, spouse or de facto spouse is an eligible beneficiary as to capital or income;

(iii) of which a corporation is an eligible beneficiary as to capital or income if the party, or the party's child, spouse or de facto spouse is a shareholder or director of the corporation;

(iv) over which the party has any direct or indirect power or control;

(v) of which the party has the direct or indirect power to remove or appoint a trustee;

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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - He did a Bill Clinton -Trigger Warning

He did a Bill Clinton -Trigger Warning

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05/24/21 • 22 min

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This episode deals with sexual abuse, trauma and comes with a trigger warning.
This is not an easy episode to listen to, and it’s achingly heartbreaking 💔 ❤️‍🩹
My hard-won knowledge has come at huge expense, and there’s no running from that.
If you are triggered by this episode, please look after yourself.
Reach out to support people, loved ones, family, friends, or whatever services fit your need in the moment.
Lifeline 131114
1800 Respect 1800 737 732
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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - Don’t call me babe - Trigger Warning

Don’t call me babe - Trigger Warning

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05/24/21 • 14 min

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The dreadful depersonalisation of never having your name used unless you’re in trouble; serious trouble.
This is not an easy episode to listen to, and it’s achingly heartbreaking 💔 ❤️‍🩹
My hard-won knowledge has come at huge expense, and there’s no running from that.
If you are triggered by this episode, please look after yourself.
Reach out to support people, loved ones, family, friends, or whatever services fit your need in the moment.
Lifeline 131114
1800 Respect 1800 737 732
www.witnesspreparation.au
I’ve set up a go fund me campaign to fight the bankruptcy proceedings my ex has launched against me: https://gofund.me/24af5893

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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - Consent, final, and Interim orders

Consent, final, and Interim orders

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05/23/21 • 11 min

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What do they mean, and why is it important to understand the difference between final orders by consent, and final orders by judgement.
One you can appeal, the other you’re stuck with.
Do you know which is which?
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Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia - Without Prejudice...not just a pretty heading

Without Prejudice...not just a pretty heading

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06/21/21 • 11 min

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How many episodes does Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia have?

Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia currently has 42 episodes available.

What topics does Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia cover?

The podcast is about Society & Culture, Domestic Violence, Abuse, Podcasts and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia?

The episode title 'Cross examination and objections' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia?

The average episode length on Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia is 11 minutes.

When was the first episode of Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia?

The first episode of Surviving The Legal System With a Psychopath in Australia was released on May 21, 2021.

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