Strong Men Strong Marriages

A lot of men come to work with me when they are very near divorce.
They may already be separated, their wife may be threatening divorce, or they may be in the divorce process.
The men I work with want their wife back. They have seen the error of their ways.
But, sometimes, despite their best efforts and strength building, their wife chooses to divorce.
This can be extremely difficult. It can feel like all their work was in vain.
BUT, fortunately, divorce is NOT the end.
Life goes on.
And, if you put your effort into building up your strength...
If you have become strong and learned how to be attractive...
You WILL eventually create the marriage of your dreams.
It may just be with someone new.
Jeff shares his journey with us in this interview.
From the hope of reconciliation, to the heartbreak of divorce, to thinking he would never get married again, to having a wife that "he couldn't have dreamed up better."
I greatly appreciate his honesty and openness.
Summary:
-If you put everything you can into building yourself up and saving your marriage, you can look back with your head held high and look your kids in the eye and tell the you did EVERYTHING you could to make the marriage work
-Create fun times AND routines and structure for your children after divorce
-Developing the skill of learning from your mistakes and seeing things from your wife's perspective will serve you well in your continued relationship with your ex-wife and in future relationships
If you are looking at a possible divorce, take the time and make the effort to learn the skills that will help you feel STRONG and CONFIDENT, no matter what your wife chooses.
And, the skills that will help you create AMAZING relationships now and in the future.
Visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.
Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...
And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow...
All while living true to Christian values...
Starting TODAY...

CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.

You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

P.P.S. Making $250K plus per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

In part 1 of the workshop, we learned that the main problem is that your wife is not ATTRACTED to you right now.

That’s why she wants a divorce or separation, “loves you but is not in love with you,” or is interested in someone else.

We learned that STRENGTH is what ATTRACTS women.

Spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.

We started learning HOW to build that up.

And how to become an EXPERT at communication, conflict management and intimacy.

This week you’ll learn the FINAL steps to TRANSFORM your marriage…

And create the BEST relationships you have EVER had.

With God, yourself, your wife and your kids…

In 90 days or less…

Guaranteed.

You can SIGN UP for The Strong Man System here.

It’s a ONE TIME investment of $2,000 with a LIFETIME of benefits.

-LIFETIME access to online materials

-LIFETIME access to ask me questions ANY time… as often as you WANT

-LIFETIME access to our member’s only Facebook group for support

-LIFETIME access to a weekly group call for LIVE coaching

And…

If you complete ALL the materials…

And follow through on ALL the habits…

For 90 days straight…

And don’t feel like you have the BEST relationships you have EVER had with God (if you believe in God), yourself, your wife and your kids…

You get your investment BACK.

There’s nothing to lose and a lifetime of health and happiness to gain (According to the 80-year long Harvard Study of Adult Development).

CLICK HERE to sign up now. 

See you inside!

Mike

This title was hard for me to write.

Being a husband and father are two of the most important roles that I have as a man.

But, those roles are not ALL of who I am.

And, even if I do poorly in those roles...

Or walk away from them all together...

(Gulp)

I still have value.

This was a BIG breakthrough for me and I'd love to share it with you.

Watch on YouTube here. 

Summary:

-God STILL cares about me (and you) even if I don't do a good job as a husband and father

-Even if I walk away completely from my family, God will STILL care for me and send people to help me

-This actually gives me MORE motivation and LESS pressure to be a good husband and father

Mike

P.S. Will today be the day YOU decide to build up your strength and create a stronger, more joyful, and more intimate marriage... no matter how bad (or good) it is right now? CLICK HERE to join The Strong Man System. And I'll see you inside. 

What does it mean to be codependent in marriage?

For most of the guys I work with, they identify with a few things.

They put aside their own wants and needs in favor of what their wife wants and needs.

They avoid doing anything that might upset their wife (like going out with friends, disagreeing with her, confronting her about problematic behavior, etc).

They are constantly focused on meeting their wife’s wants and needs.

They lose themselves in this process, finding it hard to identify what they enjoy doing anymore. Or if they can identify it, they don’t do it (like sports, hobbies, etc).

Eventually, they start becoming resentful because they realize they are doing a lot for their wife, but their wife isn’t doing much for them.

And, this can build up to an explosion that surprises their wife. Their wife didn’t even know they were frustrated, because they haven’t been able to express the small things they’ve wanted and needed for many years. And they’ve said all along that “things are fine,” when really they weren’t.

Fortunately, we can fix this.

Codependency comes from not having a strong sense of self worth. It’s also often formed from feeling the need to manage a parents’ emotions (or drug or alcohol problems or emotional distance or abuse).

To fix it, we reconnect with a sense of self worth that’s based in God. We let our wife manage her own emotions and needs while we manage our own emotions and needs. We let go of that responsibility. We treat our wife kindly because that’s who we want to be. We ask for what we want effectively. And we create a marriage that feels like we’re winning every day for both you and your wife.

Learn more about how to do this in today’s episode:

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow... starting TODAY...

CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.

You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

P.P.S. Making $250K plus per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

This is one of the most common problems I see in the men I work with.

It can be VERY frustrating to feel like you’re changing, but have your wife keep bringing up your past mistakes.

What you have to understand about this is that your wife is HURT.

And YOU are the one who hurt her.

And over time, the wound you have caused her has become infected.

And so, when you tell her to “get over it” or “move forward” or “trust you,” you’re basically trying to put a band aid on an infection.

Instead, you need to:

1. Deeply understand her pain. This is like letting the wound drain.
2. Make permanent changes. This is what helps the wound heal.

Learn about these principles in today’s episode:

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

P.S. To make permanent changes, you need to:

1. Identify and eliminate negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting
2. Replace those with positive, attractive patterns
3. Repeat those new patterns over and over until you can’t get them wrong

These are the three steps we follow in my program, Love, Intimacy and Legacy.

If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow... starting TODAY...

CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.

You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

P.P.S. Weekly wins from men in the program (anonymized for privacy):

-Mental, emotional and sexual infidelity... even after infidelity

-Fun at in-laws, where before it was always a pain

-Turning old conflicts about parenting into more connection

-Turning a bad mood from work into a good mood and enjoying a great evening with family

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

P.P.S. Making $250K plus per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157