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Still Becoming One

Still Becoming One

Brad & Kate Aldrich

We deeply desired a marriage based on God's design: two people coming together as "one flesh," but we had no idea how to do it. We tried and fell flat many times, going through many dark seasons. We wondered when the oneness was supposed to begin. Renewing grace and love in our marriage wasn't an easy process, but now, more than 20 years later, our marriage is thriving, and Brad is a licensed counselor, and Kate is a relationship coach. We work with couples and individuals who want to discover what building a one-flesh marriage means, helping them uncover and understand their stories and the unique challenges that keep them stuck. We invite you to journey with us as we are Still Becoming One.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Still Becoming One episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Still Becoming One for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Still Becoming One episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Still Becoming One - Sailing the Teen Tide Without Sinking Your Marital Ship
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05/01/24 • 36 min

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Remember when your kids were just a glimmer in your eye, and it was all about you and your partner's adventurous, romantic escapades? Fast forward through a blur of diaper changes and teen drama, and you might find your marriage playing second fiddle to the demanding orchestra of parenting. Join us as we chuckle and commiserate over the journey from child-free coupledom to navigating the choppy waters of raising teenagers without losing sight of our relationship's anchor. As the kids morph into the creatures known as teenagers, the game changes, and so must our strategies. In this episode, we swap stories and strategies for carving out quality time with your significant other, even when the teen tidal wave threatens to engulf every spare moment.

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Still Becoming One - Parenting the K-5's Without Forfeiting Your Marriage
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04/24/24 • 36 min

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Raising kids isn't just about the ABCs and 123s; it's a complex dance that can trip up even the most in-step couples. In this episode, we open up about the parenting hurdles that can either trip you up or strengthen your stride. We discuss everything from the decision-making behind how many activities to do to disciplining with differing philosophies. Listen as we share our personal reflections and how we strive to maintain unity in our parenting approach, all while keeping the laughter alive and the marriage thriving.

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Still Becoming One - Safeguarding Spousal Intimacy Against Toddler Tornadoes
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04/17/24 • 29 min

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Discover the secret to keeping your marriage alive and kicking, even when toddlers are ruling the roost. Brad and Kate, with their treasure trove of marriage counseling and relationship coaching wisdom, invite you into a world where your spouse doesn't become a stranger amongst the diapers and tantrums. We're pulling back the curtain to reveal how you can carve out a sacred space for two, amidst the whirlwind of parenting. You'll get a peek into our own journey of transforming our bedroom into a couple's sanctuary and learn how to set boundaries that keep the romance blooming, even when the little ones are just on the other side of that good old door lock.
We're not just talking about keeping the spark alive; we're about kindling a bonfire of connection and intimacy that not only you and your partner feel, but your kids witness and learn from. Say goodbye to the myth that date nights are off the table until the children are older. Instead, we're dishing out strategies that make every night an opportunity for reconnection, from at-home dinner dates to sneaking in moments of affection. As we delve into the long-term perks of a robust partnership, you'll be inspired to prioritize your relationship now rather than waiting for a 'more convenient time' that may never come.

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Still Becoming One - The Balancing Act of Love and Diapers
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04/10/24 • 32 min

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Welcome to our marriage and parenting series. This week, we tackle the challenge of adjusting your marriage to pregnancy and infants! Each stage of parenting can tug at the seams of even the most resilient unions. The profound shifts in identity that come with pregnancy and how a new baby can reshape the couple's dynamic underscore the need to cling to each other as life's tides shift around us.

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Still Becoming One - Growing Your Marriage By Yourself
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03/27/24 • 37 min

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You've tried to get your spouse to get some help with you, and for whatever reason they aren't ready. Is it worth going to marriage coaching alone? Today we try to tackle this listener's question after our "How Do I Make My Spouse Get Help" episode. Before you just take the easy answer, "of course" there are some pitfalls that you need to watch out for. Going to marriage coaching or counseling yourself could end in hurting your marriage more than helping if you (and your coach) aren't careful!

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We get asked questions about oral sex all the time. In this episode, we share insights and have a frank conversation to cut through the discomfort and get to the heart of why this topic is so frequently a challenge.
We examine the concerns and curiosities that arise, underscore the significance of honest communication, and strive to illuminate a path to joy and more profound connection for couples. So, if you're ready for a frank discussion of oral sex that promises to inform, enlighten, and possibly even entertain, join us for this intimate journey. And remember, this might be one best listened to away from little ears—unless you're keen on an impromptu lesson in marital intimacy!

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Still Becoming One - The Art of Pursuing Sex in Marriage
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02/14/24 • 34 min

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Navigating the waters of sexual intimacy in marriage can often feel like we're trying to decode a mysterious language. How do you pursue your husband? How do you cherish your wife? This heart-to-heart isn't shy about addressing the pressures and expectations that color our perceptions of sexual intimacy. We're tearing down misconceptions and revealing how a genuine and caring approach to romance can deepen connections and dispel barriers. Whether you're the higher or lower-drive spouse, our candid chat aims to guide you toward a sexually intimate connection that's authentic, not just a means to an end.

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For far too long, the Church has either ignored or villanized sexual intimacy, but God designed sex to be GOOD. In this heart-to-heart exchange, we dissect the often misinterpreted signals sent by church teachings that leave many feeling lost in their marital beds. We confront the realities of desire, intimacy, and the vital role of communication in nurturing a God-honoring union. We're laying out the roadmap for couples at any stage—single, dating, or married—to foster a fulfilling sexual relationship that stands strong in the light of faith.

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Still Becoming One - Ignoring Marital Abuse: What Church's Get Wrong Series
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01/17/24 • 42 min

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Too often, we hear tearful stories about how a church or pastor ignored the signs of abuse or even participated in the manipulation of Scripture to justify the abuse in marriage. In today's episode, we tackle this ugly side of how the church can miss abuse while they are trying to support marriages. We look at sexual abuse and manipulation, physical abuse, spiritual abuse, and even discuss what emotional abuse looks like.
Navigating the murky waters of marital abuse and the misuse of spiritual texts to justify control in relationships, we uncover the challenges and seek to offer a better way to actually support marriages!

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Still Becoming One - You Aren't Meeting My Needs- Now What?
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11/13/24 • 41 min

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We hear it all the time: "My wife's not meeting my needs" or "My husband isn't meeting my needs!" What do we do about this? Of course, we want our spouse to meet our physical, emotional, sexual, and other needs. Yet, is it their responsibility to do so?
The struggle to juggle demanding jobs and family commitments makes this a very common feeling. We explore the emotional tug-of-war many couples experience when they feel like the person they signed up to "do life with" is now not meeting their needs. Is this a reason to end the relationship? Are there ways to fix this? Let's dive into understanding and meeting each other's needs.

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FAQ

How many episodes does Still Becoming One have?

Still Becoming One currently has 97 episodes available.

What topics does Still Becoming One cover?

The podcast is about Christianity, Christian Marriage, Wife, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Podcasts, Marriage, Relationships, Husband and Coaching.

What is the most popular episode on Still Becoming One?

The episode title 'Parenting the K-5's Without Forfeiting Your Marriage' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Still Becoming One?

The average episode length on Still Becoming One is 33 minutes.

How often are episodes of Still Becoming One released?

Episodes of Still Becoming One are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Still Becoming One?

The first episode of Still Becoming One was released on May 15, 2022.

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