Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
Jenna Wolfe, Certified Lactation Counselor (CBI) and Certified Purejoy Parent Coach
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding by Jenna Wolfe is dedicated to supporting moms breastfeeding and weaning their older babies, toddlers and preschoolers, and those who are hoping to make it that far and want to set themselves up for success.
You wanted to breastfeed for years, not months, but I bet you didn’t expect gymnurstrics, skin crawling with every latch, nipple twiddling, meltdowns, and still having sleepless nights. In this podcast you will find everything you need to extended breastfeed, full-term wean and even tandem feed without losing your mind (or your toddler’s trust). We will also cover nutrition, supporting healthy emotional and social development in your child, and so much more.
You will find fireside chats with incredible experts like Krystyn Parks of Feeding Made Easy, Samantha Radford of Evidence-Based Mommy, and more. You will leave every episode feeling like you have found your people and have a new-found confidence in your breastfeeding and parenting.
If you are looking to make some changes in your breastfeeding relationship with your older baby or child, make sure to download the free “Making Changes” communication guide & cheat sheet so that you can say “no” to the feed while saying “yes” to the need.
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23: cavities, teething, and toddler biting while nursing
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
07/03/23 • 29 min
Teeth, and all the issues that come with them, seem to pop up alongside breastfeeding concerns throughout the breastfeeding journey.
It's hard not to worry when these are things you hear day-to-day:
"You'll be ready to wean once they have teeth!"
"You need to stop breastfeeding at night or you will rot their teeth"
"They have teeth now, they are supposed to be eating REAL food!"
In this episode I'll dip into the science, and provide some practical support for:
- Breastfeeding a baby with teeth
- Breastfeeding a teething toddler
- Handling biting
- Oral development
- Cavities & breastfeeding toddlers
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Research Links:
A Natural Age of Weaning by Katherine Dettwyler, PhD
Devenish G, Mukhtar A, Begley A, Spencer AJ, Thomson WM, Ha D, Do L, Scott JA. Early childhood feeding practices and dental caries among Australian preschoolers. Am J Clin Nutr. 2020 Apr 1;111(4):821-828. doi: 10.1093/ajcn/nqaa012. PMID: 32047898.
Law V, Seow WK. A longitudinal controlled study of factors associated with mutans streptococci infection and caries lesion initiation in children 21 to 72 months old. Pediatr Dent. 2006 Jan-Feb;28(1):58-65. PMID: 16615377.
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35: How to wean a clingy toddler from breastfeeding
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
10/23/23 • 17 min
In this episode, I discuss the challenges of weaning your booby-obsessed toddler when they're not quite ready to stop breastfeeding. I explore the role of internal experiences, stress, and co-regulation in this process.
Key Points:
- You Can't Magically Make Them Ready: Unfortunately, you can't instantly make your toddler ready to wean - no matter how badly you might want to! It's important to understand that their internal experiences and feelings can't be changed on a whim - but that doesn't mean you don't have anything within your control...
- The Toddler Breastfeeding Stress Spiral: I delve into the "toddler breastfeeding stress cycle" where a stressed parent can lead to more frequent breastfeeding, creating a cycle of stress for both child and parent. This is the part you CAN control!
- Addressing Your Internal Experience: By addressing your own internal experiences and managing your stress, you can turn down the dial of intensity in your child's breastfeeding demands and clinginess. But, your ability to influence your toddler's readiness doesn't stop there.
- External Stressors: Examine your child's environment to identify external stressors that might be affecting them. Reducing these stressors can empower your child to handle the stress associated with weaning more effectively.
- Empowering Your Child: Weaning is a big change, and if they haven't stopped breastfeeding on their own they probably aren't "ready to stop" - BUT if you have laid the foundation well, you can empower them to move through the change of weaning without too much stress. And the stress that is there will be met with connection & co-regulation from you that will strengthen your bond.
- Upcoming Workshop: Don't forget to register for the upcoming workshop on October 27th at 2 p.m. Eastern, where I'll dive deeper into these topics and answer your questions. The replay will be available if you can't attend live.
Stay Tuned: In the next podcast episode, I'll be talking about how to know if YOU are truly ready to wean.
Thank you for tuning in to this episode.
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43 - Tandem breastfeeding: Life with 2 booby-monsters (part 3 of the tandem feeding series)
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
03/10/24 • 1 min
Breastfeeding a toddler and a newborn... at the same time -> most people in the Western world think this is crazy.
And yet, I breastfed 2 kids (of different ages) for 3.5 years, and I hear from listeners all the time who are either doing it or considering it.
But, just like fertility & contraception while breastfeeding a toddler (and breastfeeding through pregnancy) there aren't many places to find support when you start out on your tandem nursing journey.
In this final part of the Tandem Feeding series I give you all the things I wish I would have known as a first time tandem feeding mom,
I cover:
- The most commonly asked tandemfeeding questions
- Preparing to tandem feed
- Navigating the early days of tandem nursing (including positions & sleep)
- Common challenges
- Some benefits of tandem nursing.
Since I cover the topics from a top level perspective, I would love to hear from you about what areas you would like me to dive deeper into in the coming episodes!
Send me an email at [email protected] or leave a review with your suggestion!
Resources & Links from the episode:
Sleep:
Tiffany's Safe Bedsharing Guide
University of Notre Dame Mother Baby Sleep Labratory FAQ
La Leche League International Safe 7 Sleeping
Baby Wearing:
Tula Toddler Carriers (not an affiliate - just an example of something available)
Ring Sling with a newborn video
Breastfeeding in a ringsling
Woven wrap tandem carry with a woven wrap
Back carry newborn (ONLY ATTEMPT IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCED)
Studies referenced in the episode:
Sinkiewicz-Darol E, Bernatowicz-Łojko U, Łubiech K, Adamczyk I, Twarużek M, Baranowska B, Skowron K, Spatz DL. Tandem Breastfeeding: A Descriptive Analysis of the Nutritional Value of Milk When Feeding a Younger and Older Child. Nutrients. 2021 Jan 19;13(1):277. doi: 10.3390/nu13010277. PMID: 33478010; PMCID: PMC7835967.
Yate ZM. A Qualitative Study on Negative Emotions Triggered by Breastfeeding; Describing the Phenomenon of Breastfeeding/Nursing Aversion and Agitation in Breastfeeding Mothers. Iran J Nurs Midwifery Res. 2017 Nov-Dec;22(6):449-454. doi: 10.4103/ijnmr.IJNMR_235_16. PMID: 29184583; PMCID: PMC5684792.
Supportive resources for navigating judgment while tandem feeding:
Podcast episode on Navigating Judgment
Want to learn more from me?
Watch my free, instant access workshop:
Designing Your Pathway to Toddler Breastfeeding Mastery
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34: Why (almost) all the toddler breastfeeding advice is WRONG (and why there is still hope!)
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
10/16/23 • 23 min
Who knew you would be longing for the early days of breastfeeding again a year or two don't the road?
It seems to get MORE complicated the further along you go - and the big reason for this?
Really terrible advice, from (often) really well-meaning people!
In this week's podcast episode I am breaking down the 3 different types of toddler breastfeeding "advice" I see out in the world:
- Behaviour Focused
- Fantasy Focused
- Overly Generalized
AND I'll be sharing why I believe there is still so much hope for you and your little one.
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33: When to stop breastfeeding on demand (and what to do instead)
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
10/09/23 • 22 min
Breastfeeding on demand is recommended by leading health & breastfeeding organizations around the world, but what happens when your little one isn't so little anymore? Is there an age where you should stop offering breastmilk anytime your child asks? And if there is - what are you supposed to do after it?
In this podcast episode, I break down:
- What on-demand breastfeeding is
- Why it's recommended (and touch on the sorted history of infant feeding recommendations)
- 3 Problems with on-demand breastfeeding
- What the typical answer is for "when to stop on-demand breastfeeding" (and why it doesn't hit the mark)
- Why you should stop on-demand breastfeeding today and what to do instead
Tune in for a nuanced conversation about the topics that keep you up at night (literally & figuratively) as a full-term breastfeeding mom.
Read the blog version of this podcast here.
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29: Birthing to breastfeed (and tandemfeed!) with Beau Wilson, Midwife & Childbirth Educator
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
08/21/23 • 40 min
Labour and deliver impact breastfeeding - and Beau Wilson is here to share all about it.
Whether you are pregnant with your first, or planning for your third, this episode will leave you inspired & empowered.
Learn about how you can set yourself up for success in both your birthing & breastfeeding, regardless of the external factors that you encounter - and how the power of your intuition can guide you.
About Beau:
Beau is a passionate Australian midwife with over a decade of experience in guiding and supporting women and their families through the transformative journey of childbirth. As a mother herself, she understands the profound significance of this momentous life event and is driven by her mission to empower women with the education and tools they need to approach birth and parenthood with confidence and informed decision-making. Whilst not initially planned, she is still breastfeeding her daughter 4.5 years on. She knew that during the pandemic, the single-most valuable thing she could do for her daughter's health is to continue to breastfeed. Extended breastfeeding has afforded her daughter ongoing emotional comfort and immune support while promoting a sense of security and emotional wellbeing.
You can read more about Beau's work at www.birthtobaby.com.au or follow her on Instagram @birthtobabyaus
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28: 3 Unexpected ways to get more sleep without night weaning
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
08/14/23 • 17 min
Ever wondered why your little one wakes up frequently throughout the night, leaving you both exhausted? Could it be something more than just regular feeding needs? This episode illuminates how certain overlooked medical issues might be the hidden culprits affecting sleep patterns. Learn about the unexpected connection between low iron levels, thyroid imbalances, and sleep disturbances. Discover how something as simple as a blood test might be the key to unlocking a peaceful night's sleep for you and your child.
Moving beyond the physical, we also delve into the psychological aspects of sleep. Stress, a ubiquitous part of modern motherhood, often goes unnoticed as a significant disruptor of sleep. Unravel the cues of danger and threat that loom in your daily life and learn how they may be affecting your sleep. This episode uncovers practical strategies to create a sense of safety and calm amidst the chaos, ultimately aiding in better sleep. Whether you're a stay-at-home mom or juggling work and family, this episode equips you with the tools to manage your stress effectively. Remember, improving your sleep may not necessitate a massive change like night weaning - sometimes, it's about understanding your body better and keeping your stress levels in check.
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27: Breastfeeding aches & pains, pelvic floor health and beyond with Katherine Baquie from The FitNest Mama Podcast
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
08/07/23 • 46 min
What happens when we start taking care of our bodies and minds during pregnancy and after childbirth? Kath Baquie, a women's physiotherapist and the founder of FitNest Mama, joins us to share her unique insights.
In this enlightening conversation, we discuss the real post-birth challenges and how they can affect your breastfeeding journey. Kath also shares some practical strategies for breastfeeding moms, including the art of lying down to breastfeed—a real game-changer for many mothers.
As Kath passionately tells us, investing in pelvic health and making adjustments to our exercise routine after childbirth can have long-term positive impacts. We also explore easy exercises for moms because even small movements can help us feel better. So, join us for this heartfelt discussion and learn why taking time for ourselves as new mothers is not just important, it's essential.
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Kath Baquie is an Australian mum of 3 young girls, a physiotherapist for women, and owner of FitNest Mama, an online community which provides new and expecting mothers with the exercises, support & resources they need to move from the physical aches & pains of pregnancy, the weakness felt after birth, to strong bodies and minds so that they can get back to doing what they love with a bubba by their side (whether or not that’s running around with the kids at the park, or running the next marathon).
Kath also has a podcast, the FitNest Mama Podcast, where each week she dives into all things pregnancy care, childbirth, and postnatal recovery.
Kath was so generous and is offering listeners of this podcast 7 free days in her Fitnest community - click here to take advantage of this opportunity.
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25: 5 Ways to navigate judgement & social pressure while extended breastfeeding
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
07/24/23 • 22 min
Have you ever felt judged for your choices around breastfeeding? Are you looking for strategies to confidently navigate these pressures and judgments? We tackle these sensitive topics head-on, offering grounded ways to manage societal pressures surrounding extended breastfeeding. From your intimate relationships to healthcare professionals, we delve into the dynamics of this area that is often fraught with unsolicited opinions. Whether you’ve already settled on extended breastfeeding or are still weighing the options, we provide actionable strategies to guide you through this journey.
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21 : The Secret Sabotage Part 1 - How the position of your tongue might be making breastfeeding & weaning extra hard with Orofacial Myofunctional Therapist Jenny Cacilhas (MyoBalance OMT)
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding
06/19/23 • 22 min
In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of orofacial myofunctional therapy with our special guest, Jenny, a registered dental hygienist. Jenny shares her personal journey and how she discovered the transformative effects of this therapy. We explore the core principles of myofunctional therapy and how it can impact so many areas of your life (and your child's) including night waking & challenging daytime behaviours.
Episode Highlights:
- Jenny's personal story (inspired by her daughter's struggles with dyslexia, behavioral issues, and sleep problems) to explore oral-facial myofunctional therapy.
- The 4 main goals of myofunctional therapy.
- The impact of myofunctional therapy on behavior, sleep, allergies, and even tonsil size.
- The role of tongue ties and oral restrictions in oral facial myofunctional disorders.
- The importance of nasal breathing for oxygen delivery, nitric oxide production, and overall health.
Book an initial in-person or virtual assessment with Jenny on her website.
Hang out with Jenny on Instagram & Facebook @myobalanceomt
A bit about Jenny:
"I am a Registered Dental Hygienist and Orofacial Myofunctional Therapist. I first stepped foot into the dental field back in 2011 graduating St. Clair College in 2014. Over the years I have taken many continuing education courses, leading me to finish my Bachelor of Science - with specialization in dental hygiene, at the University of Detroit Mercy in 2018. I have always been interested in how oral health effects overall health, and have taken many continuing education courses around this area. I have found that there are many people (including myself) with orofacial myofunctional disorders (OMD) and that people were just dealing with it. This brought me to do some research and asking myself - Why are people just dealing with the symptoms? There has to be negative long-term effects in having OMDs and there has to be a root cause to the OMD.
During the shutdown of March of 2020 due to the global pandemic, I came across the field of Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy (OMT). This was the first time I have heard of OMT and wondered why I havent heard of it before. Researching more about OMT, I knew I had to get certified, and completed my certification October 2020.
During my studies of OMT I learned how to assess for signs and symptoms of orofacial myofunctional disorders (OMDs) and learned how to treat my own OMDs, realizing the impact it had on my overall health. I am excited to provide the same services to you! Through a comprehensive examination, a therapy program is specifically designed depending on the persons myofunctional disorder and severity to help them start breathing well, sleeping well, and living well.
I also look forward in collaborating with other health care professionals who are interested in learning about OMT and how it can help make a difference in their patients who live with OMDs.
Outside of Dental Hygiene and OMT, you can find me out and about in the community with my husband and daughter, usually taking our two dogs for their walks. I have recently enjoyed learning the art of photography - mainly landscapes. My biggest joy would have to be traveling; Im always looking for a new destination to plan our next adventure!"
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How many episodes does Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding have?
Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding currently has 56 episodes available.
What topics does Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding cover?
The podcast is about New Mom, Parenting, Kids & Family, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education, Gentle Parenting, Toddler and Conscious.
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The episode title '39: a massive cultural barrier to natural term breastfeeding & toddler weaning with confidence and calm' is the most popular.
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The average episode length on Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding is 31 minutes.
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The first episode of Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding was released on Jan 14, 2023.
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