From Kidnapped to Resilient: My Incredible Life Story
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05/13/25 • 24 min
David Kanu shares his deeply personal journey from birth in Sierra Leone to life in a Ghanaian refugee camp, exploring how these formative experiences shaped his identity and worldview.
• Born in Sierra Leone, West Africa as the oldest of four siblings
• Mother fled her marriage and country with David and his brother for their safety
• Experienced a traumatic kidnapping at age 4 when separated from his mother for five days
• Life in Ghana included both struggles and simple joys like mango trees and playing with friends
• Family eventually moved to a refugee camp called Zanzuli while seeking resettlement
• As the oldest child, David took on significant responsibilities including caring for his younger brother
• Mother instilled strong values about presentation, hard work, and responsibility
• Developed an exceptionally close bond with his mother following the kidnapping trauma
• Learned early that as a Black child he would be "held to a higher standard" than others
• Recognizes how childhood trauma created patterns that affected his later relationships
If you enjoy this podcast and want to hear more of David's story, please support through the link on his account. Sharing with friends and family or contributing financially helps make this content possible. The next episode will continue with his life in Africa.
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David Kanu shares his deeply personal journey from birth in Sierra Leone to life in a Ghanaian refugee camp, exploring how these formative experiences shaped his identity and worldview.
• Born in Sierra Leone, West Africa as the oldest of four siblings
• Mother fled her marriage and country with David and his brother for their safety
• Experienced a traumatic kidnapping at age 4 when separated from his mother for five days
• Life in Ghana included both struggles and simple joys like mango trees and playing with friends
• Family eventually moved to a refugee camp called Zanzuli while seeking resettlement
• As the oldest child, David took on significant responsibilities including caring for his younger brother
• Mother instilled strong values about presentation, hard work, and responsibility
• Developed an exceptionally close bond with his mother following the kidnapping trauma
• Learned early that as a Black child he would be "held to a higher standard" than others
• Recognizes how childhood trauma created patterns that affected his later relationships
If you enjoy this podcast and want to hear more of David's story, please support through the link on his account. Sharing with friends and family or contributing financially helps make this content possible. The next episode will continue with his life in Africa.
Stay alert, stay safe
If you never try, you will never know
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Breaking Silence: Navigating Racism and Male Victimhood in Modern Australia
I share my personal struggle with racism and gender bias in the Australian justice system, highlighting how being a black man creates unique challenges when seeking protection from harassment.
• Attempted to get a restraining order against an ex who has been harassing me for two years despite having substantial evidence
• Faced discrimination as the police immediately implemented an order against me based on false allegations without requiring proof
• Being a black man means facing a justice system that inherently views you with suspicion
• Men who report being victims of harassment or bullying are often told to "turn the other cheek"
• Warning to other black men to be careful, document everything, and protect themselves
• Call for people to speak up against racism rather than standing by silently
• Despite these challenges, determined to maintain my values and not let these experiences change who I am
If you're experiencing similar situations, document everything and keep strong in your truth. Remember that your worth isn't determined by how others treat you.
If you never try, you will never know
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Finding Home: Navigating Identity as a Black Refugee in White Australia
*Trigger Warning Discussion of Suicide*
David shares his profound journey of cultural displacement after moving from Africa to Australia as a child in 2004. The painful experience of being the only black student in his class, navigating conflicting cultural values, and finding himself caught between two worlds eventually led to depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts.
• Moving to Australia in 2004 meant experiencing vastly different cultural norms and expectations
• Struggled with conflicting values – communal African household vs individualistic Australian society
• Used humour as a shield and became socially adaptable but never felt like he truly belonged anywhere
• Depression creates an isolating experience where you feel uniquely alone even when surrounded by support
• Many who appear confident and happy are often struggling with hidden mental health challenges
• Cultural attitudes toward mental health ("just don't be sad") prevented seeking proper help
• Depression can escalate to anxiety, overthinking, and suicidal ideation when left unchecked
I'll be cutting my dreadlocks to raise funds for men's mental health. Please share resources that have helped you in the comments, recommend trustworthy mental health charities, and consider donating or sharing the fundraising page when it launches.
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G'day guys . How are we going ? I hope everyone's well today . Like I said , this is going to be more of an
Speaker 1in-depth introduction into me , into my life . I had a thought that I haven't actually spoken to you guys really about
Speaker 1who I am and why I'm here and what's brought me this far . <
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