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71. Somebody You Love wrote a book about sluts (Dr Hilary Caldwell)
Somebody You Love
07/25/24 • 53 min
Note: we had some technical issues when recording this episode, so unfortunately the audio isn’t at the level we usually like to deliver!
Buy SLUTDOM: https://www.uqp.com.au/books/slutdom-reclaiming-shame-free-sexuality
Dr Hilary Caldwell has been a sex worker for over 20 years and decided to come out of hiding to publish her first book. She is an academic with a Masters in Health Science and Applied Science. Her doctorate, ‘Women Who Buy Sex in Australia’ was the first study in the world to explore women buying sexual services and was informed by her sex work and professional career in the field of sexology. She is kinky and queer, a mother and grandmother. Dr Caldwell has recently released her first book, Slutdom, which argues convincingly and passionately for women’s enjoyment of sex as a force to advance gender equality. Delving into topics such as pleasure, pain, empowerment, and including real women’s stories and saucy tips, we are welcoming Dr Caldwell on the show to discuss her research, the Slutdom movement and her experiences as an academic and secret sex worker.
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For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
Vic (Vixen): https://vixen.org.au/
WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org
WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au
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36. Somebody You Love has suspicious bank accounts
Somebody You Love
03/17/22 • 59 min
TW: Sex trafficking, Eating disorders
Today we are looking at an absurd document released earlier this year by AUSTRAC. For Shit People Say, Jenna and Holly both go on rants about supposed “compliments”, our Misconception is that sex work is easy, and the Question of the Week is a doozy (TW: ED for the Question)
1:49 Main Segment: AUSTRAC’s Guide to Detecting and Stopping Forced Sexual Servitude
29:05 Shit People Say: “Learn to take a compliment”
46:25 Misconception: Sex work is easy, a lazy option
52:17 Question of the week: Do you report her to the site to try to help her or leave her be to earn a little money?
The AUSTRAC Guide: https://www.austrac.gov.au/sites/default/files/2022-02/AUSTRAC_FCG_DetectingAndStoppingForcedSexualServitude_web.pdf
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Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations:
Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc
WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org
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02/17/22 • 59 min
Today on the show we have a very special episode focusing on the most recent developments in the sex work decrim space. On Thursday 10th February, the Sex Work Decriminalisation Bill 2021 was passed in Victorian parliament and, while we have all been celebrating the extraordinary work of everyone who contributed to this historic milestone, it has been somewhat bittersweet. Dylan O’Hara, the Acting Manager of Vixen, Victoria's peer only sex work organisation, and Jules Kim, the CEO of Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association, join Holly & Jenna to explain the good and the bad.
1:37 Main Segment: Decrim of sex work in Victoria
Victorian sex worker? Get involved with Vixen: [email protected]
Scarlet Alliance’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/scarletalliance
Vixen’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/VixenCollective
Scarlet Alliance’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scarlet_alliance
Scarlet Alliance’s FB page: https://www.facebook.com/scarletalliance.org.au/
Scarlet Alliance website: https://scarletalliance.org.au/
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Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations:
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc
WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org
WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au
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6. Somebody You Love is a transgender sex worker (Danika Deep)
Somebody You Love
07/29/21 • 63 min
CW: mentions of sexualised labels for trans individuals
This week we sat down with award-winning transgender escort Danika Deep to discuss her experiences making porn, offering GFE/PSE, and being a pro-domme. She discusses working with clients with a disability, her relationship to her preferred pronouns, what it’s like being both active and passive in the bedroom, and Our Questions of the Week are all questions for Danika submitted by our patrons, and for Shit People Say she shares the story of an ill-informed haggler.
CHAPTERS
2:04 Main Segment: Somebody You Love is a transgender sex worker
30:46 Questions of the week: hetero clients, gender roles, lockdown, self fetishisation
55:32 Shit People Say: “how’s about we do it for this?”
LINKS:
Scarlet Alliance Chuffed fund: https://chuffed.org/project/sex-worker-support
EnVilopes by Violet Macc: https://twitter.com/violetmacc_bbw
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Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations:
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc
WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org
WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au
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62. Somebody You Love does Christmas!
Somebody You Love
12/21/23 • 60 min
Holly spreads the festive fun while Jenna tries to maintain her strong boundaries around frivolity.
CHAPTERS
04:32: Sexy Gift Giving Guide 2023
20:50: Porno or not-porno?
26:30: Holiday traditions
50:17: New Years Booking Wishlists
LINKS
Pipedream Fantasy for her – Her ultimate pleasure: https://www.randyfox.com.au/fantasy-for-her-her-ultimate-pleasure-licking-sucking-pleasure-pump.html
Alliance Ultra Plush MIcrofibre Pillow: https://www.mydeal.com.au/alliance-ultra-plush-microfibre-pillow-standard-4260271
Spareparts Joque Unisex Strap-on Harness: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/strap-ons/strap-on-kits/p/spareparts-hardwear-unisex-joque-strap-on-harness/a18043g22339.html
Australian Wildlife Sanctuary: https://www.australianwildlifesanctuary.com.au/
Exit: The Game Advent Calendar: https://www.gameology.com.au/products/exit-the-game-advent-calendar-the-silent-storm
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72. Turned On: Pretty Woman
Somebody You Love
08/08/24 • 67 min
Holly finally convinced Jenna to watch Pretty Woman and here we are!
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For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
Vic (Vixen): https://vixen.org.au/
WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org
WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au
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40. Somebody You Love sleeps with married men
Somebody You Love
04/14/22 • 57 min
It’s the season 2 finale! Join us while we ponder some big questions while trying not to get canceled... why do people cheat? And why do they do it with sex workers? Do we judge our clients who are cheating? Do we take responsibility for helping to facilitate it?
1:53 Question of the week: Why do married men seek out sex workers?
44:43 Misconception: Most of our clients are married men
51:28 Awesome Shit People Say: “Ladies of the night”
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Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations:
Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc
WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org
WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au
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45. Turned On: Louis and the Brothel
Somebody You Love
08/04/22 • 60 min
Unfortunately the audio for this episode is not great, we’re sorry!
Turned On is a series in which Holly & Jenna react to different representations of sex work in media. In this episode, they are reacting to ‘Louis and the Brothel’, Louis Theroux’s 2003 documentary where he visits a Nevada brothel.
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Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations:
Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc
WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org
WA (Magenta):http://magenta.org.au
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The Satisfaction Project: Everyday Activism with Holly Harte
Somebody You Love
05/12/22 • 49 min
This week we are again bringing you an episode of Georgie Wolf’s podcast The Satisfaction Project while Holly, Mr Love, and I enjoy a break between seasons 2 and 3 of Somebody You Love. The Satisfaction Project is your ultimate resource for enjoyable experiences with escorts and other independent, hands-on sex workers.
The episode we are sharing with you today is called Everyday Activism with Holly Harte and yep, that’s our girl Holly chatting to Georgie about practical sex work activism - everyday ways that you can stand up for us. You can go to satisfactionproject.com to find a plethora of resources, and you can find the other episodes of the podcast wherever you listen to podcasts!
We’ll be back in a few weeks with season 3 of Somebody You Love, but in the meantime we hope you enjoy The Satisfaction Project!
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09/16/21 • 63 min
Note: we had some technical issues this week, so the audio isn’t perfect, we’re sorry!
CW: whorephobia, transphobia, drug use, police entrapment, domestic violence, t-word, p-word
Chantell Martin is a transgender community service worker and activist at SWOP NSW, and former street-based sex worker. She moved from New Zealand to Sydney in the 80s and at that time began her gender transition, entered the sex industry, and began using drugs. She worked through the height of the AIDS epidemic in the 80s, before and after decrim in the 90s, and is now doing outreach helping the community through the COVID-19 pandemic with SWOP NSW
CHAPTERS
2:39 - Main Segment: Street-based sex work before and after decrim
49:35 - Questions of the week: most rewarding part, doubting yourself, difficulties, advice for clients
LINKS
SWOP NSW’s website: https://swop.org.au/
SWOP NSW on Facebook: www.facebook.com/SexWorkersOutreachProject/
SWOP NSW on Twitter: www.twitter.com/SWOPnsw
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Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through
technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations:
Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc
WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org
WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au
MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store
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How many episodes does Somebody You Love have?
Somebody You Love currently has 85 episodes available.
What topics does Somebody You Love cover?
The podcast is about Porn, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Sex, Podcasts, Relationships and Sexuality.
What is the most popular episode on Somebody You Love?
The episode title '50. Somebody You Love has group sex' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Somebody You Love?
The average episode length on Somebody You Love is 55 minutes.
How often are episodes of Somebody You Love released?
Episodes of Somebody You Love are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Somebody You Love?
The first episode of Somebody You Love was released on Jun 22, 2021.
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