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Step into a world where candid conversations lead to self-discovery and triumphs. In this episode, we unravel the intricate dance between worries, anxieties, and the exhilaration of embracing life's opportunities. Join us as Matt and Steve, open up about their personal journeys through challenges, change, and growth.

From the unexpecteds financial curveballs that can make us catch our breath, to the demands of parenting and supporting our children's passions, this episode is a roller coaster of relatable experiences. Matt shares the real anxieties of parenting, balancing finances, and supporting a child's dreams. Meanwhile, Steve recounts tales of corporate upheavals and the "imposter syndrome" that can creep in even when success is achieved.

As they delve into their pasts, you'll hear echoes of your own worries and triumphs. Are you a parent caught in the whirlwind of funding your child's dreams? Or maybe you're navigating a shifting career landscape, just as Matt and Steve have. Whether you're on the road to recovery or simply seeking inspiration, this episode delivers relatable stories that resonate.

Tune in to discover how they've conquered their worries, the power of seeking support from fellow alcoholics, and the lessons learned from embracing the unknown. Join Matt and Steve as they provide a candid, engaging, and often humorous exploration of life's ups and downs. After all, it's not the worries that define us, but the resilience and growth that follow.

If you're ready to feel understood, motivated, and uplifted, this episode is your ticket to navigating life's twists with wisdom, humor, and the unwavering belief that triumphs await on the other side.

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Discover the purpose behind Bill Wilson's words and the evolution of his own recovery narrative. Did you know that Bill had to rewrite his own story several times? We'll uncover the reasons behind these revisions and the key moments that shaped his path to sobriety.

Explore the turning point in Bill's life as he meets Ebby Thatcher, a moment that resonates with countless recovering alcoholics. Discover how Ebby's words, "Why don't you choose your own conception of God?" opened doors to a more flexible approach to spirituality within the 12-step program. We'll also delve into the mystery surrounding the origins of the phrase, "God as I understood Him."

As we journey through Bill's story, you'll gain a deeper appreciation for the powerful message of hope and recovery that the Big Book carries. Join us as we decode the Big Book chapter by chapter, uncovering the truths, myths, and transformative moments that have guided countless individuals on their own paths to recovery.

So, whether you're a seasoned AA member or simply curious about the history and wisdom contained within the Big Book, join us on this captivating exploration of sobriety, spirituality, and the enduring legacy of Alcoholics Anonymous. Tune in now and be inspired by the incredible stories and insights that have transformed lives for generations.

Decoding the Big Book, is sourced from "Writing the Big Book, by William Schaberg. We highly recommend this book. Click here to purchase the book on Amazon.
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In this episode, we delve into the insidious grip of fear and its impact on their lives. Reflecting on recent experiences, they candidly discuss the repercussions of allowing fear to dictate their actions, from missed opportunities to strained relationships. The conversation unfolds as they share personal anecdotes, from Steve's reluctance to take a day off to Matt's travel anxieties.

Their exchange underscores a universal truth: fear can manifest in myriad forms, from economic insecurity to the fear of failure. As they navigate the complexities of fear, they unveil its close ties to control and comfort zones, revealing how fear-driven reactions can lead to unintended consequences.

Through introspection and vulnerability, Steve and Matt unpack the destructive cycle of fear and its correlation with addictive behaviors. They candidly explore how fear often masquerades as anger, causing rifts in relationships and perpetuating harmful patterns.

Yet, amidst the challenges, they find solace in the power of acknowledgment and self-awareness. By confronting their fears head-on, they pave the way for growth and resilience. Their conversation serves as a beacon of hope, reminding listeners that liberation from fear is attainable through courage and introspection.

Check out as we embark on a journey of self-discovery, challenging listeners to confront their own fears and embrace the transformative journey toward healing and wholeness.

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Gill Tietz picked up her first drink later than most. Bullied in school, she avoided social gatherings and focused on academics. But after starting Graduate School, she decided to live a little, experiencing love at first sight with alcohol.
A Biologist by trade, Gill talks about getting bullied as a kid and isolating from others through the end of college. Gill got into drinking in Graduate School and her affair with the bottle took off. Though she mentioned that biologists and chemists have the reputation as heavy drinkers, she took it to an extreme, with thoughts of self harm being one of the reasons she quit.
As a biologist, we asked Gill about The Doctor's Opinion by Dr. Silkworth in the Big Book of AA. Dr.Silkworth discusses "the allergy" which causes the phenomenon of craving. Gill had some unexpected opinions on the subject.
Gill's story shows that alcohol abuse and the mechanics internally don't care about education, gender and status in life. With this disease, we are all the same.
Please support Gill's podcast, Sober Powered at https://www.soberpowered.com/ or where ever you get your podcasts. You can find her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/sober.powered/ and on YouTube at by clicking Here.
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Buddy C is the author of the book, Powerless But Not Helpless, A Meditation Book of 81 Verses from the Tao Te Ching that can help you live an alcohol free life and find freedom from any addictive behavior.

Buddy chats with Matt J and Steve C about Taoism, his long path to sobriety, Eastern Spirituality and overcoming personal tragedy and remaining sober.  This is one of the most powerful conversations about spirituality we've ever had and we hope you enjoy it as much as we did.

You can purchase Buddy's book on Amazon or at https://buddyc.org/

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