248. Encouragement for young moms, raising great teenagers, and more Q&A!

07/30/24 • 51 min

If you are in the early years of motherhood, everything can feel so overwhelming. Your kids are all young and you are still trying to find confident footing as a mom. I hear from young mothers quite often who want to learn new homemaking skills, but they feel like they are already drowning in motherhood. In this episode, I am sharing my advice for mothers in those little years, and I’m also talking about my approach to parenting in the teen years, and my hopes and dreams for my children’s adult years. Join me for this chat as I answer a variety of questions from my listeners!

In this episode, I cover:

An update on my strategy for baby sleep as a mom of eight
My hopes for the future of my family as my kids get older
A sample week in the life of my blogging business
Our strategy for raising capable and delightful teenagers
The one downside to having a home birth
Do I regret becoming an online influencer?
My opinion on which season of parenting is the most difficult

View full show notes on the blog + watch this episode on YouTube.

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In this episode, I cover:

An update on my strategy for baby sleep as a mom of eight
My hopes for the future of my family as my kids get older
A sample week in the life of my blogging business
Our strategy for raising capable and delightful teenagers
The one downside to having a home birth
Do I regret becoming an online influencer?
My opinion on which season of parenting is the most difficult

View full show notes on the blog + watch this episode on YouTube.

Thank you for supporting the sponsors that make this show possible!

CONNECT

Do you have a question you’d like me to answer on the podcast? A guest you’d like me to interview? Submit your questions and ideas here: bit.ly/SFLquestions.

Previous Episode

247. Breaking Down Popular Narratives in Motherhood | Abbie Halberstadt of M is for Mama

If you have ever wanted to sit down with a seasoned mom and ask your biggest motherhood questions, I hope this conversation with Abbie will bless you! As a mother of ten, her perspective on raising kids has grown throughout the years as she has encountered challenges and rejoiced in victories. We chat about how to build an in-person community around you, dangerous modern parenting narratives, comparison, convenience, and more. We hope this episode fills you with encouragement as you walk out this noble calling of motherhood!

In this episode, we cover:

Our unique perspective on the “motherhood is hard” narrative
What real in-person community gives you that internet relationships can’t
The benefits of having a mentor in motherhood and how to find one
How to recognize the gifts and challenges of your unique circumstance
Is the easy way always the better way?
The countercultural way we prioritize quality time together in our large families
Laying the groundwork for raising delightful teenagers
The point of biblical parenting is not what you think
Why it’s dangerous to exclude dads from the parenting narrative

View full show notes on the blog + watch this episode on YouTube.

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ABOUT ABBIE

Abbie is a happy wife, homeschooling mama to ten rad kids, bestselling author, blogger, fitness instructor, and recent pickleball enthusiast. Abbie is the author of the bestselling M Is for Mama and has a passion for sharing scriptural wisdom combined with her own lessons learned through the challenges as a mama of ten. She is here to help shift perspectives on the hardships of motherhood and of life, in general, all while reminding women of their God-given beauty and purpose.

But most importantly, she’s a Bible-believing Christian who desires to know God and make Him known. Her new book is Hard is Not the Same Thing as Bad, and she loves encouraging women to dig deep in the everyday trials of motherhood for the treasures of joy and growth that are there in abundance if we’re only willing to look. She, her husband Shaun, and their double handful of children live in the Piney Woods of East Texas.

RESOURCES

M is for Mama by Abbie Halberstadt

Hard is Not the Same Thing as Bad by Abbie Halberstadt

M is for Mama Podcast

Abbie on the Ellen Fisher Podcast

CONNECT

Abbie Halberstadt of M is for Mama | Website | Instagram | Facebook

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Next Episode

249. Family Business: Involving Kids, Setting Boundaries, Making an Impact | Brad & Starla Walker of Abby’s Elderberry

Family entrepreneurship is such a unique and enriching way of life, but it is not without its challenges. Brad and Starla Walker of Abby’s Elderberry joined me on the podcast last year to share about the amazing benefits of elderberries, and today we are taking a look behind the scenes at what it is like to run a family farm business from home as a family of ten. How do they involve their children in the family business without burning the kids out? How do they divide responsibilities between home and the business? How does Starla manage a full plate as a mother of eight? Why is family business so impactful in the community? Join us for this inspiring conversation about what is possible when you link arms and take a risk.

In this episode, we cover:

How Abby’s Elderberry got started and where the family business stands now
Creative ways Brad and Starla’s children participate in the family business
What boundaries the family has established to separate work and family time
Challenges of running a business from home with a growing family
How do you involve kids in the family business without making them resent it?
Biggest lessons learned from beginning a family business as busy parents
You don’t have to be an expert in something to get started
Managing a full home and busy business as a mother of eight
The difference it makes to take your role seriously as a homemaker
The impact of a meaningful family business for future generations

View full show notes on the blog + watch this episode on YouTube.

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ABOUT BRAD & STARLA

Brad & Starla Walker have 8 kids and live on their 15 acre homestead in Southern Indiana, just outside of Louisville, KY. There they garden, raise livestock, homeschool their children, and operate their family business, Abby’s Elderberry. They have personally experienced the benefits of elderberry for years and jumped at the opportunity to take ownership of Abby’s in late 2022. Since that time, they have shipped their products to all 50 states, 4 Canadian provinces and are launching with a national distributor in September ‘24.

RESOURCES

Sitewide discount of 15% (elderberry syrups, teas, tinctures, organic berries, DIY syrup kits) with promo code FARMHOUSE at AbbysElderberry.com

CONNECT

Brad & Starla Walker of Abby’s Elderberry | Website | Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

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