Sex & Consent

In the sixth and final episode of our Consent & Coercion 101 series, we take a look at masculinity and men’s involvement in sexual violence (yeah not all men, we know).

We get across the current context of male-perpetrated coercion and sexual violence in Australia, the social factors that contribute to this, what people mean by male entitlement, patriarchal (sometimes called toxic) masculinity, shitty rigid gender roles for men and how men are impacted by sexual violence.

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The US Supreme Court’s overturning of Roe vs Wade will impact millions of people who need an abortion – but some voices are missing in the uproar, while others are busy touting gun rights.

In this episode, Mardi and Lizzy explore:

• What the Roe vs Wade ruling means for people who can get pregnant in the US
• Abortion rights in so-called Australia
• The absence of cis men's voices in the abortion conversation
• The enraging hypocrisy between abortion rights and gun laws in the US

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Resources:

• https://www.vox.com/policy-and-politics/2022/5/28/23145600/uvalde-school-shooting-republicans-defend-gun-rights-nra-convention
• https://www.guttmacher.org/state-policy/explore/abortion-policy-absence-roe
• https://www.texastribune.org/2022/05/11/ted-cruz-john-cornyn-texas-abortion-law/
• https://apps.texastribune.org/features/2019/texas-10-years-of-mass-shootings-timeline/
• https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-06-26/roe-v-wade-australia-abortion-law-access-not-guaranteed/101183518
• https://www.abortiononline.com.au/how-tele-abortion-works
• https://www.clinic66.com.au/tele-abortion
• https://theconversation.com/has-us-style-politicisation-of-the-courts-come-to-australia-185384
• https://abortionfunds.org/

In the fifth episode of our Consent & Coercion 101 series, we dive into the *really* interesting research that inspired Mardi’s PhD on sexual coercion.

This includes two epic bits of research that debunk the ‘miscommunication theory’ (the theory that date rape is merely a result of men and women “not understanding each other”) and proof that, actually, men do know how to do consent – even when they claim that it’s confusing.

If this episode brings anything up for you, you can contact 1800RESPECT or check out the support services here: https://bit.ly/3tcehNV

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Resources

• Armstrong, E, Gleckman-Krut, M & Johnson, L 2018, ‘Silence, power & inequality: an intersectional approach to sexual violence’, Annual Review of Sociology, 44(1), pp.99-122
• Beres, M 2014, ‘Rethinking the concept of consent for anti-sexual violence activism and education’, Feminism and Psychology, 24(3), pp.373-389
• Beres, M, Senn, C & McCaw, J 2014, ‘Navigating ambivalence: how heterosexual young adults make sense of desire differences'
• Conly, S 2004, ‘Seduction, rape, and coercion’, Ethics, 115(1), pp.96-121
• Kitzinger, C & Frith, H 1999, ‘Just Say No? The use of conversation analysis in developing a feminist perspective on sexual refusal’, Discourse and Society, 10(3), pp.293–316
• O’Byrne, R, Rapley, M & Hansen, S 2006, ‘“You couldn’t say ‘No’, could you?”: young men’s understandings of sexual refusal’, Feminism & Psychology, 16(2), pp.133-154
• O’Byrne, R, Hansen, S & Rapley, M 2008, ‘“If a girl doesn't say ‘no’...”: young men, rape and claims of “insufficient knowledge”’, Journal of Community & Applied Social Psychology, 18(3), pp.168–193
• Powell, A 2010, Sex, power and consent: youth culture and the unwritten rules, Cambridge University Press, Australia

We all have a story to tell.

In our Storytelling Mini-Series, you’ll hear everyday people’s stories of sexual consent, coercion, misogyny and patriarchy – which Mardi and Lizzy unpack together.

In this episode, Lexi* shares her story of going home with someone she vibed with – only to be confronted with his slut-shaming, dismissiveness and a complete disregard for consent when they got home. Stuck at his place without a phone, she had to figure out how to keep safe. Through Lexi’s* story we explore themes of misogyny, rape culture and sexual violence.

This episode discusses rape, violence and heavy themes. If listening brings anything up for you, please contact 1800RESPECT or check out the support services here: https://bit.ly/3tcehNV

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Josh is a 45-year-old dad who works for himself, is devoted to his young sons and who transitioned at the age of 40.

With the unique experience of living in the world presenting as a woman and as a trans man, Josh shares his story of coming to know who he is, the process of medically transitioning and what it’s like to live truly as himself.

This episode discusses topics like trans gender identity, medical transitioning and parenting as a trans person. If listening brings anything up for you, please check out the support services here: https://bit.ly/3tcehNV

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