
Embracing imperfection as parents & loving well with Valerie Probstfeld | Ep. 66
05/08/24 • 42 min
This episode gets right to the heart of what it means to “mom” with love and embrace imperfect parenting. Valerie Probstfeld, a devoted mom and nurse practitioner, opens up about her journey of motherhood—from facing her initial high expectations and the reality check of #newmomlife, to her evolution towards valuing simple, loving interactions over perfection.
Valerie and I chat about how she finds profound lessons in the everyday chaos, and why she believes that loving well often means letting go of control. Whether you’re seeking relatable dialogue about the pressures of parenting or looking for a bit of encouragement to find beauty in the mess, this episode is here to remind you that it’s all about loving your kids and yourself, imperfections and all.
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- Podcast: https://www.tomomistolove.com/podcast
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- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQhKAdlZP8_tq2-zv3CqhrQ
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/valerie-probstfeld-23022448/
Listen to these episodes next:
- Mental health for moms: 6 tips to take care of yourself and your family | Ep. 13
- Why running is the perfect workout for busy moms | Ep. 23
- How to break free from emotional eating & pick healthy snacks for busy moms with fitness coach Vanessa Flores | Ep. 43
Favorite resources for listeners:
- Instacart for grocery delivery - use code KFARMER39312D to get $10 off your first order.
- Qube for managing your family spending plan - use code SECRETMOMHACKS to get two months free.
- Herbaly wellness tea for my daily cuppa.
- HOKA for moms on the run.
Favorite resources for podcasters:
This episode gets right to the heart of what it means to “mom” with love and embrace imperfect parenting. Valerie Probstfeld, a devoted mom and nurse practitioner, opens up about her journey of motherhood—from facing her initial high expectations and the reality check of #newmomlife, to her evolution towards valuing simple, loving interactions over perfection.
Valerie and I chat about how she finds profound lessons in the everyday chaos, and why she believes that loving well often means letting go of control. Whether you’re seeking relatable dialogue about the pressures of parenting or looking for a bit of encouragement to find beauty in the mess, this episode is here to remind you that it’s all about loving your kids and yourself, imperfections and all.
Check out the show notes HERE.
Get every new episode of Secret Mom Hacks delivered to your inbox by subscribing for free HERE!
Connect with Secret Mom Hacks:
- Website: http://www.secretmomhacks.com
- Join newsletter: https://www.secretmomhacks.com/about/#/portal/
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@secretmomhacks
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristamischell/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secretmomhacks/
Connect with Valerie Probstfeld:
- Podcast: https://www.tomomistolove.com/podcast
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valerie_probstfeld/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090022943012
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQhKAdlZP8_tq2-zv3CqhrQ
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/valerie-probstfeld-23022448/
Listen to these episodes next:
- Mental health for moms: 6 tips to take care of yourself and your family | Ep. 13
- Why running is the perfect workout for busy moms | Ep. 23
- How to break free from emotional eating & pick healthy snacks for busy moms with fitness coach Vanessa Flores | Ep. 43
Favorite resources for listeners:
- Instacart for grocery delivery - use code KFARMER39312D to get $10 off your first order.
- Qube for managing your family spending plan - use code SECRETMOMHACKS to get two months free.
- Herbaly wellness tea for my daily cuppa.
- HOKA for moms on the run.
Favorite resources for podcasters:
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Hand print Mother's Day crafts: 5 homemade gifts made easy | Ep. 65
In today's episode we dive into the art of DIY crafts for Mother's Day, designed for moms to make memorable moments right at home. Join me as I guide you through five easy, adorable crafts personalized with your child's handprint or fingerprint including oven mitts, clay jewelry dishes, and custom dish towels. We'll also tackle fingerprint-painted butterfly mugs and heart photo frames, perfect for keeping or gifting. Ideal for little hands and big hearts, these projects not only fuel creativity but also fortify the blessings of bonding. Dive into these delightful activities that promise to turn simple materials into cherished keepsakes. Tune in now!
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Spring cleaning schedule for working moms & how to begin decluttering regularly | Ep. 67
Spring is in the air! And that means it's time for some Spring cleaning! Busy moms know maintaining a tidy and organized home can be a challenge. After recently discovering Clean Mama's effortless cleaning routines, I had to share them with you! Her simple checklist is designed to streamline your daily tasks and keep chaos at bay, covering everything from decluttering strategies to deep cleaning tips. By following this simple cleaning schedule and incorporating simple tech, like the pet-friendly Roomba, my day-to-day house cleaning is finally feeling more manageable...so I hope these quick tips help you too! Grab those cleaning supplies and let's get ready to reclaim your space and sanity for Spring - and hopefully on into the Summer months too! Tune in now to revolutionize your cleaning routine!
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- Teaching tidiness early in life & giving back with home organizer Kristy Edwards | Ep. 58
- Workouts for moms at home: My top fitness YouTube Channels for easy at-home strength and cardio | Ep. 62
Favorite resources for listeners:
- Instacart for grocery delivery - use code KFARMER39312D to get $10 off your first order.
- Qube for managing your family spending plan - use code SECRETMOMHACKS to get two months free.
- Herbaly wellness tea for my daily cuppa.
- HOKA for moms on the run.
Favorite resources for podcasters:
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