91: Declarative Language with Linda Murphy

10/17/23 • 58 min

“It shifts your communication dynamic from one that might be negative to one that’s positive. It moves it from demand based or power struggles to connection and partnership.”

Linda Murphy joins me in today’s episode about Declarative Language.

Linda is a speech language pathologist and RDI® Constultant.

We discuss social learning differences, imperative vs declarative language, examples, benefits, social learning examples, pacing, and co-regulation.

Get the full show notes at sagefamily.com/podcast91.

“It shifts your communication dynamic from one that might be negative to one that’s positive. It moves it from demand based or power struggles to connection and partnership.”

Linda Murphy joins me in today’s episode about Declarative Language.

Linda is a speech language pathologist and RDI® Constultant.

We discuss social learning differences, imperative vs declarative language, examples, benefits, social learning examples, pacing, and co-regulation.

Get the full show notes at sagefamily.com/podcast91.

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“Limits are the thing parents struggle with the most and it’s one of the most important pieces of the puzzle. Until you feel confident and competent in your limit setting skills, it’s going to be really hard to help your child through aggressive behaviors.”

Tosha Schore joins me in today’s episode about Aggression.

Tosha is a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time.

We discuss boys, aggressive play, brains, fear, connection, communication, playfulness, and limits.

Get the full show notes at sagefamily.com/podcast90.

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92: Warrior with Karen Young

“We have to give them the neuroscience. This is going to strip any shame. It’s going to make it easier for them to turn and face and own their behavior. We really have to turn these feelings into allies and friends.”

Karen Young joins me in today’s episode about inner warriors (anxiety).

Karen is a psychologist, speaker, consultant, the founder of Hey, Sigmund, and the author of Hey, Warrior.

We discuss ways anxiety shows up in kids that are often not recognized as anxiety, how we can frame anxiety for our children, how to guide our own nervous systems back to safety, how to support a child through co-regulation, how to hold boundaries for safety while holding space for big feelings, why repair is important, how to help our children through hard experiences so they don’t get stuck as traumas.

Get the full show notes at sagefamily.com/podcast92.