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Seventeen years ago, the fabric of our marriage was torn by an act of infidelity. Through this podcast, we share the intimate and often unspoken journey of rekindling the sexual and emotional connection that was threatened by this betrayal. We reflect candidly on the rollercoaster of emotions, from the false sense of repair in the aftermath of makeup sex to the genuine healing that arises through communication, faith, and laughter.
Navigating the rough waters of a post-infidelity relationship, we peel back the curtain on the delicate dance of trust and vulnerability. Our experience has taught us that the path to recovery isn't always straight, and the complexities of emotional ties to intimacy differ for each partner. By sharing our own narrative, we aim to inspire open dialogue in your relationships, recognizing that it's not about assigning blame but about growing stronger together.
We wrap up with a message that's part pep talk, part practical advice: "Remix Your Marriage" is more than just a catchy phrase; it's a call to action for all couples to share, listen, and laugh as a way of fostering connection and intimacy. Whether it's embracing the seemingly unromantic "scheduling sex" or finding solace in the shared experiences of friends, our discussion is an invitation to breathe new life into your partnership. Join us in discovering how vulnerability can become the catalyst for a reinvigorated, loving bond that thrives in the face of life's greatest challenges.
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Have you ever found yourself in the middle of an argument, wondering if there's a better way to communicate? Tune into this episode of Remix Your Marriage, where we share our personal journey. This episode promises to provide you with tools to handle disagreements more effectively, focusing on communication, forgiveness, and growth as the cornerstones of a stronger, healthier marriage. Our journey from a challenging time to a place of deeper understanding and love offers hope and practical advice for any couple facing similar trials.
Words can build bridges or burn them down, and understanding their power is crucial in any relationship.
Lastly, we tackle the often-overlooked nuances of effective communication in relationships. We'll explore why using absolutes like "always" and "never" can escalate conflicts and how shifting the focus from blame to personal feelings can make a world of difference. Through our own stories, we illustrate the importance of choosing battles wisely and appreciating the small acts of love that strengthen our bond. Join us as we unpack these essential communication strategies, aiming to help you and your partner understand each other's needs and intentions better.
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Have you ever felt like you were just "playing house" in your marriage? Like you were fumbling in the dark, trying to figure out what it meant to be a spouse, a parent, and an adult all at the same time? That's where we, Lyndan and Vanessa, found ourselves as high school sweethearts turned teenage parents. Join us as we peel back the layers of our messy, chaotic, yet ultimately rewarding journey in marriage. We'll delve into our pasts, exploring our upbringings, and the significant events that molded us into who we are today - a far cry from those two broken kids pretending to play the marriage game.
Stay tuned, because we're going to be revealing a major event that rocked our marriage to its core in a future episode. We believe that by sharing our unique love story - with all its trials, tribulations, and victories - we can offer encouragement and inspiration to others struggling in their marriages. Whether you're on your first, second, or third marriage, we respect your story and we're here to tell ours. So, pull up a chair, fasten your seatbelt or go for walk and listen in as we embark on this journey, showing you that it's possible to Remix Your Marriage, to make mistakes, and to learn from them. Because in the end, it's not about perfection, but about embracing the messy realities of life.
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In this episode Vanessa shares her feelings of being lost and feeling like she had nothing. Feeling like she was just a mom and Lyndan's wife. As she is trying to heal she begins to seek validation from other men. This only causes things to get worse in our marriage.
As she spends time with her mentor learning to forgive and grow, she has one foot in a dangerous place allowing flirty conversations with men to happen at her job.
Listen and learn how we were able to keep growing, and forgiving as we worked on mending our marriage.
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We really did not like each other a lot during this process. I (Lyndan) had no right to be angry or mean which made me just want to give up. I am not the victim and I was struggling not to be the coward and run away!
Vanessa struggled with feeling bad for me cause she knew I was sorry but also not liking me for betraying her trust. At times she wanted me by her side, laying next to her and other times she couldn't even look at me and questioned if staying together was worth it.
In this episode we touch on 5 of the steps we took to rebuild this marriage into something we didnt think possible. Like the houses we mentioned in the last episode that were burned to the ground and 3 months later were rebuilt bigger, stronger and more beautiful. God showed us our marriage. Burned to the ground so he could rebuild it from scratch to this beautiful union!!
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