Redefining Masculinity: Relationships, Retreats, and the Realities of Submission with Traver Boehm

In this episode, I sit down with Traver Boehm, Founder of Uncivilized Men, to delve into fascinating topics including the dynamics of relationships, his profound experience during a prolonged dark retreat, and my thoughts on the term "submissive."

Traver Boehm is a renowned leader in modern masculinity, dedicated to helping men reclaim their power and purpose. As an author, speaker, and coach, he blends ancient wisdom with contemporary insights to guide men through personal transformation and growth. Traver's work through Uncivilized Men focuses on creating a supportive community where men can explore their authentic selves and develop a deeper understanding of their roles in relationships and society.

Learn more about Traver and the UNcivilized movement here.
From this episode:
"Hurt men hurt other people. Hurt women hurt themselves.”

3: Meditation
8: what Traver loves about women
10: men, unfelt pain
18: the dirty little secret that nobody wants to talk about
19:20: online dating and sex on tap
24: women's sexual awakening
26: travers spiritual awakening
34: pain is the root
34:50: Traver’s divorce and business collapsing as a catalyst. “I woke up in a crisis.... It was a level and depth of rock bottom that I didn’t know existed.”
41: women hurting themselves and relating to their bodies
45:40: what is consent?
47:40: how can men “work on their shit”
50: necessary release of feminine rage
53: emasculating men
65: “this is why she/he hates you”
66:50: how to ask a woman out on a date
73: being receptive is a gift to men
79: why men need to celebrate the primal
89:40: Man Uncivilized, Traver’s book on how to honor the primal