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214: Is It Dangerous or Just Inconvenient? The Parenting Question That Changes Everything
Real World Peaceful Parenting
02/12/25 • 18 min
Do you find yourself saying “no” all day long? Before Lisa discovered peaceful parenting, she was caught in the same cycle—until she came across one simple question that changed everything: Is it dangerous, or just inconvenient? In this episode, Lisa shares real-life examples of how shifting from automatic "no’s" to thoughtful responses can help you build trust, foster cooperation, and create more opportunities for connection with your kids. Get ready to rethink your approach and start saying “yes” in a way that works for both you and your child!
What You'll Learn:
- The difference between saying “no” for safety versus saying it out of convenience.
- How pausing before reacting can transform your relationship with your kids.
- Practical ways to set boundaries without shutting down your child’s requests.
- Why thoughtful “yeses” help build responsibility and cooperation.
- How to shift from reacting with control to responding with connection.
- A simple two-part homework exercise to start changing your parenting approach today.

216: Breaking Free From the 'Good Kid, Bad Kid' Trap
Real World Peaceful Parenting
02/26/25 • 16 min
In this powerful episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, Lisa Smith shares an inspiring story from one of her Hive community members, Sandy, who bravely reflected on her old parenting rules and the profound impact they had on her relationship with her daughter. Through honest self-awareness and a shift from rigid control to nurturing connection, Sandy transformed her family dynamic. Lisa walks us through how we, too, can reframe household rules to build trust, invite cooperation, and break intergenerational cycles.
What You'll Learn:
- The Impact of Labels: How “good girl” and “bad girl” labels create lasting identities and affect your child’s self-perception.
- From Control to Connection: Learn practical strategies to shift your parenting from managing behavior to guiding growth.
- Reframing Rules: How to transform household rules from rigid demands to invitations for cooperation and respect.
- The Power of Grace: Why giving yourself grace is crucial as you break old patterns and learn new parenting tools.
- Awareness as a Superpower: The magic that happens when you recognize your own inherited parenting patterns and make intentional changes.
- Actionable Homework: A guided exercise to assess your own parenting rules, identify hidden messages, and reframe them to build connection.

142. How to Use Rules to Create Connection with Your Kids
Real World Peaceful Parenting
09/27/23 • 33 min
Do you feel like you’re on the struggle bus when it comes to setting and enforcing rules in your household? I know it seems impossible to get your children to help out, do their chores, stay off screens, and get good grades at school. The good news is that, while overwhelm and frustration are common among all parents trying to set rules, there’s a better approach that will support your child’s growth while maintaining your well-being.
Discover the value of rules as a tool to connect with your kids. Hear a whole new approach that is the secret to feeling productive, managing your energy, and enjoying parenting your kids. I'm also offering how to navigate getting pushback and how to allow space for flexibility while enforcing the consequences of bending rules.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/142

73. Empathize, Not Internalize
Real World Peaceful Parenting
06/01/22 • 13 min
I’m showing you how to practice showing up for your kids and staying present in each moment, without invalidating their experiences. Discover what active listening is, how it can benefit your connection with your children, and how to empathize, not internalize.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/73

26. What am I Teaching My Kids?
Real World Peaceful Parenting
07/07/21 • 18 min
Find out why modeling is such a powerful tool in parenting and my four steps to help you learn how to model for your kids. Discover why modeling with intention is so important on the path to peaceful parenting and how to use this tool to teach them to be whatever you want them to be.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/26

4. A Parent’s Greatest Tool
Real World Peaceful Parenting
02/03/21 • 17 min
Join me this week as I show you how to use this incredible tool to figure out what’s going on with your kids and build a meaningful relationship with them throughout their life. Discover how to help your kids feel seen, heard, and valued, and use it on your journey to becoming a peaceful parent.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/4

176. Want Calm Kids? Co-Regulation is the Answer
Real World Peaceful Parenting
05/22/24 • 20 min
Practicing self-regulation is challenging, even for the most self-aware adults, but it’s what will ultimately enable you to offer co-regulation to your children. Co-regulation is the underbelly of peaceful parenting and the greatest gift you can offer your kids, and in this episode, you’ll learn why.
Discover the importance of co-regulation in your journey toward peaceful parenting. I’m showing you what it means to pause and respond in the face of challenging behaviors, why offering co-regulation is one of your most important jobs as a parent and a five-step process for cultivating calmness in the midst of chaos.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/176

143. You Are NOT Your Parents
Real World Peaceful Parenting
10/04/23 • 16 min
Many of us, myself included, were raised by at least one dominant parent. Now, you’re a parent and you’re desperately trying to avoid your own kids experiencing those emotions. But then, one day, you hear the very same words come out of your or your coparent’s mouth. Does that mean you’re doomed to repeat the dominant cycle that you grew up in?
Tune in this week for a sensitive discussion about dominant parenting and not repeating the mistakes of the past. I’m showing you why you are not your parents, your child is not your inner child, and I’m giving you practical tips and strategies for unpacking your thoughts about how you’re showing up as a parent.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/143

141. Body Image Q&A for Parents
Real World Peaceful Parenting
09/20/23 • 37 min
Last week, we had an amazing conversation with Corinne Crabtree all about parenting for a positive body image. This week, I’m joined by a wonderful mother and Hive community member, Hannah, who is currently in the middle of changing her own paradigms when it comes to body positivity and parenting her kids through the same experience.
Tune in as Hannah and I unpack the learned nature of body positivity and negativity. We’re discussing how to model a healthy body image even if you’re struggling with looking at your own body positively, how we value different body types, how to bring neutrality to the conversation, and our role as parents in having these conversations with our children.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://thepeacefulparent.com/141

201: Get Curious, Not Furious: Understanding Your Child's Anger
Real World Peaceful Parenting
11/13/24 • 16 min
In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, Lisa Smith addresses the common challenges parents face when dealing with their children’s big emotions, especially anger. Building on last week's theme of diving below the surface, Lisa shares five practical scenarios that parents encounter daily, each illustrating how to respond with empathy and understanding. Lisa also provides actionable phrases to help parents get curious, not furious, enabling deeper connection and calmer communication with their children. This episode empowers parents with a toolkit for navigating tough emotional moments, guiding both parent and child toward a more peaceful relationship.
What You'll Learn:
- The Power of Connection Phrases – Learn specific phrases to help your child feel understood and calm in emotionally charged moments.
- “Pause and Probe” Technique – Discover how to pause, breathe, and explore what emotions might be under the surface of your child’s behavior.
- Real-Life Scenarios – Five common parenting challenges with step-by-step responses to foster empathy and avoid escalation.
- Understanding the “Iceberg of Behavior” – Why what’s visible (like anger) is often only a small part of what your child is experiencing emotionally.
- Building Emotional Intelligence Together – How practicing empathy and understanding fosters emotional growth for both you and your child.
- Practical Tools for Real-Life Parenting – Techniques for shifting from reaction to understanding, helping to create a calmer, more cooperative household.
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How many episodes does Real World Peaceful Parenting have?
Real World Peaceful Parenting currently has 223 episodes available.
What topics does Real World Peaceful Parenting cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture, Parenting, Kids & Family, Podcasts and Relationships.
What is the most popular episode on Real World Peaceful Parenting?
The episode title '167. Limits and Rules: Why They Matter and How to Peacefully Enforce Them' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Real World Peaceful Parenting?
The average episode length on Real World Peaceful Parenting is 23 minutes.
How often are episodes of Real World Peaceful Parenting released?
Episodes of Real World Peaceful Parenting are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting?
The first episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting was released on Jan 13, 2021.
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