Affordable Gay Cities to Live in Delaware | Queer Money Ep. 469
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01/04/24 • 8 min
What are the best cities for gay folks in Delaware?
In this episode of Queer Money®, we’re headed to the First State and shining the spotlight on Wilmington, Delaware—the most affordable LGBTQ-friendly city in the state and the proud owner of an HRC Equality Score of 80 (not too shabby, Wilmington 👏).
We spill the tea on what makes Wilmington worth the move—like Crimson Moon, the video bar/dance club hybrid that keeps the local queer scene glowing well past bedtime. 🌙💃
But wait, there’s more! We also peek into other Delaware cities (hi, Dover 👋) that might be lower on the equality score but still give your budget room to breathe.
Oh, and did you know Delaware has one of the highest LGBTQ+ population percentages in the country at around 7.5%? Small state, big queer energy!
So, if you're dreaming of a move that lets you live your truth and afford the occasional drag brunch, this episode is for you.
🎧 Listen in and let’s keep building fabulous lives—on our financial terms.
Takeaways:
- 🏳️🌈 Wilmington Wins (Mostly) - Wilmington snatched the title of most LGBTQ-friendly city in Delaware with an HRC Equality Score of 80. Not bad, but we’re still side-eyeing that missing 20 points. Do better, Delaware.
- 📜 History, Heimlich & Homo-Economics - Delaware may be small, but it's got big history energy—first to sign the Constitution and home to Henry Heimlich (yes, that Heimlich). Now it's time to make history again with fierce financial empowerment for LGBTQ+ folks.
- 💸 Queer Money = Financial Power to the People - This episode is another installment in our mission to help the LGBTQ+ community slay their finances—even when the economy is giving “meh.” Because money is freedom, baby.
- 🏠 Wilmington: Budget-Friendly and Queer-Affirming - Turns out, Wilmington has the lowest home values in the state, which means you might actually afford a home and still brunch on weekends. A rare combo!
- 😤 Not-So-Perfect Equality Scores? We Noticed - Delaware cities, we see you—but we also see that none of you hit a perfect 100 on the HRC Equality Index. We expect more. Especially when queer lives and rights are on the line.
- 🏖️ Rehoboth Beach, We Need to Talk - You're the coastal queen of queer getaways... yet you scored only 61 on the HRC Index?! That’s giving us glitter on the outside, but not enough equity on the inside. Let’s fix that, shall we?
Topics Covered:
- 00:06 - The Tallest Lego Tower
- 01:41 - Exploring Delaware's LGBTQ Community
- 03:31 - Introduction to the Queer Cities Series
- 04:35 - Exploring Wilmington's Equality Score and Economy
- 06:31 - Exploring LGBTQ+ Communities in Delaware
- 07:41 - Upcoming Topics in LGBTQ+ Community Discussions
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What are the best cities for gay folks in Delaware?
In this episode of Queer Money®, we’re headed to the First State and shining the spotlight on Wilmington, Delaware—the most affordable LGBTQ-friendly city in the state and the proud owner of an HRC Equality Score of 80 (not too shabby, Wilmington 👏).
We spill the tea on what makes Wilmington worth the move—like Crimson Moon, the video bar/dance club hybrid that keeps the local queer scene glowing well past bedtime. 🌙💃
But wait, there’s more! We also peek into other Delaware cities (hi, Dover 👋) that might be lower on the equality score but still give your budget room to breathe.
Oh, and did you know Delaware has one of the highest LGBTQ+ population percentages in the country at around 7.5%? Small state, big queer energy!
So, if you're dreaming of a move that lets you live your truth and afford the occasional drag brunch, this episode is for you.
🎧 Listen in and let’s keep building fabulous lives—on our financial terms.
Takeaways:
- 🏳️🌈 Wilmington Wins (Mostly) - Wilmington snatched the title of most LGBTQ-friendly city in Delaware with an HRC Equality Score of 80. Not bad, but we’re still side-eyeing that missing 20 points. Do better, Delaware.
- 📜 History, Heimlich & Homo-Economics - Delaware may be small, but it's got big history energy—first to sign the Constitution and home to Henry Heimlich (yes, that Heimlich). Now it's time to make history again with fierce financial empowerment for LGBTQ+ folks.
- 💸 Queer Money = Financial Power to the People - This episode is another installment in our mission to help the LGBTQ+ community slay their finances—even when the economy is giving “meh.” Because money is freedom, baby.
- 🏠 Wilmington: Budget-Friendly and Queer-Affirming - Turns out, Wilmington has the lowest home values in the state, which means you might actually afford a home and still brunch on weekends. A rare combo!
- 😤 Not-So-Perfect Equality Scores? We Noticed - Delaware cities, we see you—but we also see that none of you hit a perfect 100 on the HRC Equality Index. We expect more. Especially when queer lives and rights are on the line.
- 🏖️ Rehoboth Beach, We Need to Talk - You're the coastal queen of queer getaways... yet you scored only 61 on the HRC Index?! That’s giving us glitter on the outside, but not enough equity on the inside. Let’s fix that, shall we?
Topics Covered:
- 00:06 - The Tallest Lego Tower
- 01:41 - Exploring Delaware's LGBTQ Community
- 03:31 - Introduction to the Queer Cities Series
- 04:35 - Exploring Wilmington's Equality Score and Economy
- 06:31 - Exploring LGBTQ+ Communities in Delaware
- 07:41 - Upcoming Topics in LGBTQ+ Community Discussions
Mentioned in this episode:
Support the Queer Money podcast
We love bringing you new content every week. Help us keep doing that. Click the link below to support our mission of financial empowerment for the LGBTQ+ community.
Support the Queer Money podcast - Buy us some coffee
Get the FREE Happy Gay Retirement Calculator
Are you on the path to a tragic, basic, happy or fabulous retirement? Find out where and begin your journey to a better retirement with our Happy Gay Retirement Calculator.
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Unconventional Financial Strategies for 2024: Five Essential Tips | Queer Money Ep. 468
New Year, Who Dis? 5 Fresh (and Fabulous) Ways to Level Up Your Money Game
In this episode, we’re tossing out the crusty old budgeting rules that make you feel like a broke Puritan and serving up five fierce ways to build wealth that actually feel good. 💅
First up: Forget that budget that makes you cry into your cold brew. We’re all about the "no budget budget"—a sexy little system where you pay your musts first (like rent, debt, and saving for Future You), then guiltlessly spend the rest on what actually brings you joy (hello Beyoncé tickets and Trader Joe’s frozen croissants).
Tip two is all about putting your dollars where your happiness is. If your spending doesn’t make your life better, what are we even doing here? Say yes to intentional spending and a big gay no thanks to money guilt.
Then we get into the goods: a Roth IRA that moonlights as your tax-free emergency fund. She’s flexible, she’s smart, she’s basically your financial BFF with benefits.
We also break down why one income stream is soooo last season. It’s time to diversify, darling—side gigs, passive income, OnlyFans? (Kidding... unless?)—whatever helps you build that money stack.
Finally, we talk about finding your financial rhythm. Think of it like choreography for your bank account. Consistent, intentional moves that keep you dancing toward your goals—without the drama.
Bottom line: this episode is your glam guide to making smarter, happier money moves all year long. Your wallet deserves a glow-up—and so do you.
Episode Takeaways That Slay:
- 💸 Bye, Budgeting Trauma! - We’re ditching dusty budgeting rules and embracing the no-budget budget—a freeing, fab approach that makes space for both smart choices and spontaneous splurges.
- 🌈 Spend on What Sparks Joy (Not Just What Looks Good on Instagram) - Your money should make you happy, not just keep up appearances. Spend on what truly brings you joy—and say "boy, bye" to money guilt.
- 🏳️🌈 Roth IRA = Your Financial Safety Net in Heels - Think of it as your emergency fund with extra flair—Roth IRAs give you tax-free access when life gets messy (and we know it will).
- 💼 More Than Just a 9–5, Honey - Relying on a W-2 alone? That’s so 1997. We’re talking multiple streams of income—because you deserve more than just a paycheck and a pat on the back.
- 📆 Find Your Money Groove - Structure = freedom. When your money moves have rhythm, you build wealth without burnout. Think of it like a fierce financial choreography.
Topics Covered:
- 00:14 - Rock Your Finances This Year
- 04:30 - Focusing on Happiness in Financial Decisions
- 08:00 - Financial Happiness and Living Standards
- 17:04 - Pursuing a Multi-Pronged Approach to Wealth Building
- 25:37 - Creating a Financial Plan: Steps to Achieve Your Goals
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10 Great Gay Retirement Communities | Queer Money Ep. 470
Closets Are for Clothes, Not Seniors
On this week’s episode of Queer Money®, we’re kicking off our Gay Retirement 101 series with a hard truth: Too many LGBTQ+ folks are being forced back into the closet as they age — and it’s not because they miss the wardrobe. 🏳️🌈
With anti-LGBTQ+ legislation gaining traction across the U.S., many older queer adults are facing discrimination, isolation, and even financial insecurity during a time that’s supposed to be their golden years. From unaffordable retirement housing to long-term care facilities that feel more 1950s than fabulous, the challenges are real — and urgent.
We’re breaking it all down:
- 💰 The money traps queer folks face in retirement
- 🏘️ How housing discrimination adds insult to injury
- 🌈 A shortlist of LGBTQ+-affirming retirement communities we love (yes, they do exist — and yes, some are affordable!)
If you want to retire out loud, not fade back into silence, this episode is for you. Let’s make sure your next chapter is as bold, proud, and you as ever.ill present a selection of our preferred LGBTQ+ retirement communities nationwide, reflecting a spectrum of affordability and acceptance. Join us as we navigate this critical dialogue, equipping ourselves with the knowledge necessary to foster a secure and fulfilling retirement.
Topics Covered:
- 00:23 - Introducing Gay Retirement 101 Series
- 03:28 - Retirement Planning for LGBTQ+ Individuals
- 18:21 - Exploring Affordable LGBTQ+ Living Options Across States
- 20:54 - Exploring LGBTQ Senior Housing Options
- 28:32 - The Cost of Care Services and LGBTQ Communities
- 36:04 - Exploring LGBTQ-Friendly Communities
Gay Retirement Communities:
Today, we’re sharing our favorite LGBTQ+ retirement communities 10 of our favorite places for LGBTQ+ individuals to live in retirement
- Pueblo Manor in Apache Junction, AZ
- Triangle Square in Hollywood, CA
- A Place for Us in Cleveland, OH
- Rainbow Vista in Gresham, OR
- Town HallApartments in Chicago, IL
- Fountaingrove Lodge in Santa Rosa, CA
- Wilton Manors, FL
- The Residences atSeashore Point in Provincetown, MA
- Village Hearth Cohousing in Durham, NC
- Birds of a Feather in Village of Pecos, NM
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Support the Queer Money podcast
We love bringing you new content every week. Help us keep doing that. Click the link below to support our mission of financial empowerment for the LGBTQ+ community.
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Get the FREE Happy Gay Retirement Calculator
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Queer Money®: How Gay People Do Money - Affordable Gay Cities to Live in Delaware | Queer Money Ep. 469
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Once upon a time, it was the home of the tallest Lego tower in the world, standing at 113ft or 11 stories, with 500,000 Lego bricks. It was the first state to sign the U.S. constitution. And one of its nicknames is Home of Tax Free Shopping. Can we say hello? Total Wine and Spirits. It's where Henry Heimlich of the famous Heimlich maneuver was born, and when he was a plant worker at Chrysler. It was once the home of Bob Marley.
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