
Wedding Party Trends for 2021 and Beyond
06/01/21 • 32 min
Who you choose to be in your Wedding Party – and who you DON’T choose - is a very big decision for your wedding. In this episode, we share some trends on how couples are tweaking this age-old tradition to better reflect the people that matter most to them. This includes using more inclusive terminology, focusing less on someone’s gender or having “even” sides, and potentially forgoing having a wedding party altogether.
We talked about:
- Modern and inclusive terminology
- Traditions of the past
- Is it ok to have uneven sides?
- Mixed-gender wedding parties
- VIPs that are supportive of both partners
- Opting not to have a wedding party
- Some tips to keep in mind when deciding who you do (and don’t) want to include
Links mentioned:
- Episode 6: Reinterpreting Weddings with Kathryn Hamm
- Episode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding Plans
Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!)
Follow along on the socials:
Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcast
Danielle's Insta: @dpnak
Dan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto
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Follow us on Instagram:
@putaringonitpodcast
@dpnak
@danielmoyerphoto
Snag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.
Who you choose to be in your Wedding Party – and who you DON’T choose - is a very big decision for your wedding. In this episode, we share some trends on how couples are tweaking this age-old tradition to better reflect the people that matter most to them. This includes using more inclusive terminology, focusing less on someone’s gender or having “even” sides, and potentially forgoing having a wedding party altogether.
We talked about:
- Modern and inclusive terminology
- Traditions of the past
- Is it ok to have uneven sides?
- Mixed-gender wedding parties
- VIPs that are supportive of both partners
- Opting not to have a wedding party
- Some tips to keep in mind when deciding who you do (and don’t) want to include
Links mentioned:
- Episode 6: Reinterpreting Weddings with Kathryn Hamm
- Episode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding Plans
Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!)
Follow along on the socials:
Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcast
Danielle's Insta: @dpnak
Dan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto
–––
Follow us on Instagram:
@putaringonitpodcast
@dpnak
@danielmoyerphoto
Snag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.
Previous Episode

Celebrating 100 Episodes! 🎉
EPISODE 100!!! 🎉 Cue all the air horns and the confetti cannons! We’re celebrating episode 100 by going back in the archives and sharing some of our favorite moments over the years. We’re 100 episodes wiser and could not have done it without our amazing Ringer family! Thank you for cheering us on to this point and for being along for this wild ride!
We talked about:
- Some of our favorite moments from the past 99 episodes
Links mentioned:
- Season 1, Episode 2: It’s your party for everyone else
- Season 5, Episode 49: It’s Your Party For Everyone Else, Part 2
- Season 4 episode 38: Four Fundamentals to Hosting a Great Event
- Season 4: Episode 42: 10 Tips for Making the Most of Your Wedding Photos
- Season 4, Bonus Dear Dans episode: Is It Rude Not To Give A Plus One?
- Season 7, Episode 77: How to Set Boundaries with Berlyn Martin
- Season 7 Episode 80: Hindsight is 20/20
- Season 5, Episode 53: The Truth About Venue Coordinators
- Season 7, Episode 73: Planning for a Marriage More Beautiful Than Your Wedding with Amber Anderson
- Season 2: Episode 15: Post Wedding Blues
Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!)
Follow along on the socials:
Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcast
Danielle's Insta: @dpnak
Dan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto
–––
Follow us on Instagram:
@putaringonitpodcast
@dpnak
@danielmoyerphoto
Snag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.
Next Episode

Mid-Season Q&A
We’re halfway through Season 9 which means it’s time for another Q&A episode. In this episode, we’re picking some of our favorite listener-submitted questions and sharing our tips, advice, and encouragement.
We talked about:
- Is your wedding planner included in your budget?
- What to do when vendors aren’t living up to your expectations
- When to book which vendors, especially in the very beginning of planning
- Gift ideas for the Groom
- Including teenaged nieces and nephews in the wedding day
- Affordable wedding headpiece ideas
- Bridal shower etiquette
- Should you save money on a DJ and just do a Spotify playlist?
- Personally written vows vs. repeated standard vows
Links mentioned:
- Episode 63: How to Build Your Team of Wedding Vendors
- Episode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding Day
- Etsy
Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!)
Follow along on the socials:
Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcast
Danielle's Insta: @dpnak
Dan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto
–––
Follow us on Instagram:
@putaringonitpodcast
@dpnak
@danielmoyerphoto
Snag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.
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