Pure Desire Podcast

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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Pure Desire Podcast episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Pure Desire Podcast for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Pure Desire Podcast episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

251 - The Good Guide To Great Sex w/ Dr. Keith & Sheila Wray Gregoire

Pure Desire Podcast

04/26/22 • 63 min

Sheila Wray Gregoire is back on the podcast today and she is joined by her husband, Dr. Keith. They’ve been busy updating and writing their books, The Good Girls Guide To Great Sex and The Good Guys Guide To Great Sex! Today, we talk to Sheila and Dr. Keith about their books, interesting findings from their research of over 25,000 Christian women, a new approach to sexual intimacy in marriage, how frequent we should be having sex, and A LOT more!

RESOURCES

Full Episode Video (YouTube)

The Good Girl's Guide To Great Sex (Sheila's updated book)

The Good Guy's Guide To Great Sex (Sheila & Keith's new book)

To Love, Honor, and Vaccum (Sheila's blog)

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038 - Love Addiction Pt. 1

Pure Desire Podcast

03/27/18 • 28 min

We talk about Love Addiction. We talk through how it differs from sex addiction and also discuss causes and factors that cater to a love addiction. We also talk about if it is just a women's issue, or if men can struggle with it as well.

RESOURCES

LOVE ADDICTION EVALUATION

SEXUAL ADDICTION SCREENING TEST (SAST)

COUNSELING REQUEST FORM

RECOVERY ACTION PLAN – ADDICT

RECOVERY ACTION PLAN – SPOUSE

8 PILLARS TO FREEDOM

7 PILLARS OF FREEDOM

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Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn

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407 - Resurrecting a View of Sexual and Single

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04/22/25 • 70 min

In this episode, we dig into the often overlooked intersection of singleness and sexuality, exploring how we can resurrect a healthier, more holistic view of both. We discuss the importance of stewarding sexual desire with integrity, especially in a culture that promotes instant gratification and casual relationships.

Our guests share their personal stories of God’s redemptive work in their sexuality during their single years and offer insights on how the church can better support and value singles. We also explore the difference between sexuality and sensuality and how to hold space for both desire and disappointment with hope and faith.

Resources:

'Unwanted' by Jay Stringer

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Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn

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348 - 7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life w/ Joshua Broome

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03/05/24 • 51 min

For those who regularly listen to the show, we have a return guest. This guy has shared his story about the journey from porn star to a pastor.

Today, we’re excited to have Joshua Broome back on the show to talk about his new book, 7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life. We talk through all seven lies, identifying how they impact sexual brokenness and disrupt our healing. We also discuss some initial steps we can take to combat these lies and reclaim God’s truth in our lives.

RESOURCES

Full Episode Video (YouTube)

7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life (Joshua’s book)

Joshua’s TikTok

Joshua’s Twitter

Joshua’s Instagram

Share The King (Joshua’s Ministry)

Joshua’s Website

Killing Kryptonite (John Bevere’s book)

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Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn

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366 - Betrayal Triggers

Pure Desire Podcast

07/09/24 • 58 min

Today's episode addresses a listener's question—how to manage betrayal triggers. Most of us are aware of triggers for those struggling with addictive or compulsive sexual behavior. But are there such a thing as betrayal triggers? The answer is an emphatic YES! Ashley Jameson joins us to discuss what betrayal triggers are, how to identify them, how to bring healing to them, and what couples can do to help each other navigate triggers.

RESOURCES

FULL EPISODE VIDEO (YOUTUBE)

BETRAYAL & BEYOND (WOMEN’S BETRAYAL RESOURCE)

BETRAYAL & BEYOND ONLINE GROUPS

PURE DESIRE COUNSELING

RELAPSE PREVENTION PLAN (3 CIRCLES TOOL)

ASSOCIATION OF PARTNERS OF SEX ADDICTS TRAUMA SPECIALISTS

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Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn

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368 - Rebuilding Life After Discovery

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07/23/24 • 56 min

The moment of discovery in a marriage or relationship is crushing. The exposure of sexual addiction or unfaithfulness wrecks the relationship. Is there any hope to rebuild? Should we even rebuild? On today's episode, we're joined by Traci Wright (Pure Desire Clinician). Traci knows firsthand the damage the discovery of sexual betrayal does. But she also knows the healing power of Jesus and walking a recovery and healing journey. With Traci's help, we talk through what it looks like to rebuild our lives after discovery.

RESOURCES

Full Episode Video (YouTube)

Seven Pillars of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)

Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)

Pure Desire Online Groups

International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP)

Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS)

Pure Desire Summit

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Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn

Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation

Join A Pure Desire Online Group

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086 - Stories Of Healing: Rick Bulman

Pure Desire Podcast

02/26/19 • 45 min

We talk to Rick Bulman about how he and his wife, Tiffany, walked through the darkest of times in their marriage and how God took that mess and made it their message. We talk with Rick about what gave them hope and healing, the role of counseling in their recovery, how their relationships have healed, and their new book Mended.

RESOURCES

MENDED (BOOK) BY RICK & TIFFANY BULMAN

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Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn

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315 - Marriage, Relationships, & Sex w/ Dr. Les Parrott

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07/18/23 • 40 min

Relationships are at the center of each part of our lives. And few things impact our relationships like unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma. In this episode, best-selling author, speaker, and professor, Dr. Les Parrott joins us with practical tools to create fulfillment in our relationships. We talk about trends in dating and marriage relationships, when and how to share our history with our partner, and how to improve communication around sex and everything else.

RESOURCES

Full Episode Video (YouTube)

Loveology.com

Symbis Assessment (Marriage Resource)

BetterLove.com

Crazy About Sex (Les' Book)

5 Love Languages (Gary Thomas' Book)

063 - Stories Of Healing: Patty Moreno

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09/18/18 • 47 min

We hear Patty Moreno's story of healing from her husband's unfaithfulness. She talks through how God used the refuse in her life and marriage to create a renewed relationship with her husband and a restored ministry in the kingdom.

RESOURCES

BETRAYAL & BEYOND KIT

FASTER SCALE TOOL

RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (BETRAYED SPOUSE)

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Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn

Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation

Join A Pure Desire Online Group

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396 - Rupture & Repair: Strengthening the Parent-Child Bond w/ Dr. Jake Porter

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02/04/25 • 71 min

In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative concept of "rupture and repair" in parenting with expert Dr. Jake Porter. As a featured expert in the Parent Training Course, he unpacks the crucial role this process plays in building stronger, more resilient relationships between parents and children.

We explore what happens when emotional ruptures occur—whether through misunderstandings, miscommunication, or outbursts—and how parents can recognize when their child feels disconnected or hurt. Dr. Jake shares practical insights on how to approach repair with vulnerability, empathy, and emotional presence, offering concrete strategies for parents navigating the complexities of connection and healing.

Tune in for actionable advice, relatable stories, and expert wisdom on fostering deeper bonds with your children through the process of rupture and repair.