Ep. 41 - Exploring How Your Attachment Style Influences Your Relationship with God
01/28/25 • 59 min
What if your attachment style could shape not just your human relationships but your spiritual connection with God? Join us for a transformative episode with Sam Landa, a licensed professional counselor and educator, who shares his personal journey into understanding God attachment. Influenced by his upbringing, including the impact of his parents' divorce, Sam reveals how these experiences molded his attachment style and his relationship with the divine. Together, we uncover the powerful intersection of psychology and spirituality, offering listeners insights into recognizing and reshaping their attachment dynamics for a more meaningful spiritual life.
As we navigate the complex realm of God attachment styles, we examine how childhood experiences affect our faith practices and interactions with God today. From secure to disorganized attachment, Sam and I explore how these styles manifest in our spiritual lives, drawing parallels with Biblical figures like Jonah, Moses, and Job. Through this engaging exploration, we illuminate how life's stressors can unveil these patterns, proposing pathways to healing and strengthening one's connection with God.
Dive deeper into the nuances of intimacy and obedience in a spiritual context as we contrast the use of "Abba, Father" with historical perspectives on divine connection. By differentiating between the "God image" and "God concept," we discuss the balance of tradition and personal engagement in one's relationship with God. Finally, we explore how upbringing and personal experiences profoundly influence religious attachment, offering a pathway to healing and a stronger divine connection. Don't miss this enriching conversation that blends psychological insights with theological wisdom to enhance your understanding of faith and spirituality.
To learn more about Cassian Bellino and her podcast, check out her information below:
Cassian's Website: https://www.bibspeak.com/
Bio:
Cassian Bellino is the passionate host of Biblically Speaking, a podcast born from her personal journey of seeking clarity in Scripture. Over the past year, Cassian has turned her questions and curiosity into a thriving platform that has reached over 70,000 followers. She’s had the privilege of hosting renowned guests such as Dr. Hugh Ross, Dr. John Walton, Pastor Douglas Wilson, and Ken Ham, creating conversations that bridge faith, reason, and a deeper understanding of the Bible.
When she’s not hosting interviews or building community, you can find Cassian inspiring others to connect scripture to daily life and faith. Join the conversation and explore her work: Resources: https://stan.store/biblicallyspeaking Website: https://www.bibspeak.com/
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Please leave a review, send comments and questions, and share the podcast with everyone you know. We love having these conversations with you all and are thankful for your support!
I look forward to walking alongside you as you draw closer to Christ!
What if your attachment style could shape not just your human relationships but your spiritual connection with God? Join us for a transformative episode with Sam Landa, a licensed professional counselor and educator, who shares his personal journey into understanding God attachment. Influenced by his upbringing, including the impact of his parents' divorce, Sam reveals how these experiences molded his attachment style and his relationship with the divine. Together, we uncover the powerful intersection of psychology and spirituality, offering listeners insights into recognizing and reshaping their attachment dynamics for a more meaningful spiritual life.
As we navigate the complex realm of God attachment styles, we examine how childhood experiences affect our faith practices and interactions with God today. From secure to disorganized attachment, Sam and I explore how these styles manifest in our spiritual lives, drawing parallels with Biblical figures like Jonah, Moses, and Job. Through this engaging exploration, we illuminate how life's stressors can unveil these patterns, proposing pathways to healing and strengthening one's connection with God.
Dive deeper into the nuances of intimacy and obedience in a spiritual context as we contrast the use of "Abba, Father" with historical perspectives on divine connection. By differentiating between the "God image" and "God concept," we discuss the balance of tradition and personal engagement in one's relationship with God. Finally, we explore how upbringing and personal experiences profoundly influence religious attachment, offering a pathway to healing and a stronger divine connection. Don't miss this enriching conversation that blends psychological insights with theological wisdom to enhance your understanding of faith and spirituality.
To learn more about Cassian Bellino and her podcast, check out her information below:
Cassian's Website: https://www.bibspeak.com/
Bio:
Cassian Bellino is the passionate host of Biblically Speaking, a podcast born from her personal journey of seeking clarity in Scripture. Over the past year, Cassian has turned her questions and curiosity into a thriving platform that has reached over 70,000 followers. She’s had the privilege of hosting renowned guests such as Dr. Hugh Ross, Dr. John Walton, Pastor Douglas Wilson, and Ken Ham, creating conversations that bridge faith, reason, and a deeper understanding of the Bible.
When she’s not hosting interviews or building community, you can find Cassian inspiring others to connect scripture to daily life and faith. Join the conversation and explore her work: Resources: https://stan.store/biblicallyspeaking Website: https://www.bibspeak.com/
FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:
@psych_and_theo
Psych and Theo Link
FOLLOW US ON FACEBOOK:
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Please leave a review, send comments and questions, and share the podcast with everyone you know. We love having these conversations with you all and are thankful for your support!
I look forward to walking alongside you as you draw closer to Christ!
Previous Episode
Ep. 40 - How to Navigate LGBT Issues Using Compassion and a Biblical Lens w/ Cassian Bellino
What if we could merge theology and psychology to navigate the challenging intersection of Christianity and LGBT issues? Join us as we bring together insights from Tim, a seasoned theologian, alongside our special guest, Cassian Bellino of the Biblically Speaking podcast. Together, we explore how Christians can uphold their faith while engaging empathetically with the LGBT community, confronting misconceptions about therapy, and promoting a healthy fusion of mental health and spiritual well-being. Cassian shares her thoughts on tackling cultural norms and what it means to embody a Christ-centered life that challenges traditional notions of masculinity.
In this episode, we tackle the ethical dimensions of LGBT issues through a practice known as steel manning—presenting opposing viewpoints in their strongest form. By doing so, we aim to foster respectful dialogues around the church's varying treatment of certain sins like premarital sex and homosexuality. We dissect interpretations of same-sex relationships from Genesis, Leviticus, and Paul's writings, questioning if these biblical teachings are culturally bound or universally applicable. Our conversation digs deep into historical contexts and challenges listeners to think critically about how these ancient texts relate to modern same-sex relationships.
As we journey through biblical narratives, we confront complex subjects like same-sex attraction, human struggles, and the pursuit of a Christ-centered life. From examining the deep friendship of David and Jonathan to exploring Paul's writings, we highlight the importance of empathy and understanding in our dialogues. We leave you with a powerful reflection on how love, patience, and faithful conversations can pave the way for a deeper connection to God, encouraging listeners to speak truth with compassion and trust in God's guidance for the outcomes of their discussions.
To learn more about Cassian Bellino and her podcast, check out her information below:
Cassian's Website: https://www.bibspeak.com/
Bio:
Cassian Bellino is the passionate host of Biblically Speaking, a podcast born from her personal journey of seeking clarity in Scripture. Over the past year, Cassian has turned her questions and curiosity into a thriving platform that has reached over 70,000 followers. She’s had the privilege of hosting renowned guests such as Dr. Hugh Ross, Dr. John Walton, Pastor Douglas Wilson, and Ken Ham, creating conversations that bridge faith, reason, and a deeper understanding of the Bible.
When she’s not hosting interviews or building community, you can find Cassian inspiring others to connect scripture to daily life and faith. Join the conversation and explore her work: Resources: https://stan.store/biblicallyspeaking Website: https://www.bibspeak.com/
FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:
@psych_and_theo
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Please leave a review, send comments and questions, and share the podcast with everyone you know. We love having these conversations with you all and are thankful for your support!
I look forward to walking alongside you as you draw closer to Christ!
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Ep. 42 - Integrating Faith, Coping Skills, and Psychological Tools for Emotional Well-Being
Master the art of conquering anxiety with faith as your anchor, where we unravel the complex dance between spiritual beliefs and emotional well-being. Imagine a world where anxiety is recognized as a universal human experience—one that can be managed effectively with the right understanding and tools. We explore the thin line between everyday anxiety and anxiety disorders, shedding light on how cultural and societal pressures, especially within the Christian community, can heighten these feelings. Through this discussion, we aim to equip you with a deeper understanding and validation of your emotions to foster healing and growth.
Join us on a journey through the transformative power of Christian-based coping skills that address the roots of anxiety. We delve into how attachment styles, shaped by early life experiences, impact our relationships and our connection with God. Discover how Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can be a powerful ally in challenging false beliefs and reinforcing affirming truths, helping you build a healthier relationship with yourself and the divine. We also touch upon the nuanced role of medication and lifestyle changes, encouraging a holistic approach to managing anxiety.
Embrace the gradual process of overcoming anxiety, understanding that true change takes time and patience. We discuss the importance of implementing new disciplines and routines, and why it's crucial to allow your mind and body the time to adapt to these changes. Whether it's through small lifestyle adjustments or deeper therapeutic work, we provide practical advice and resources, like "The Anxiety Cure" by Dr. Archibald D. Hart, to guide you on your path. Remember, anxiety is not a sign of weak faith but a shared human experience, even amongst biblical figures. Join us for this insightful exploration and take the first step towards a more balanced life.
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Please leave a review, send comments and questions, and share the podcast with everyone you know. We love having these conversations with you all and are thankful for your support!
I look forward to walking alongside you as you draw closer to Christ!
Psych and Theo Podcast - Ep. 41 - Exploring How Your Attachment Style Influences Your Relationship with God
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All right , everyone , welcome back to the Psych and Theology podcast . This is another episode that we recorded with a friend of ours , ms Cassian Bellino ,
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Speaker 1she interviewed me and we had a great discussion on God attachment and it was really good . I think everyone just
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