
How Can I Lead Others When I Can't Lead Myself?
02/21/24 • 29 min
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Many men struggle deeply with their godly responsibilities of leadership, especially in the home, because they aren’t even managing themselves very well.
In this episode, Stephen brings a letter from a leader that is meant to be representative of most men who struggle with this internal conflict of leadership calling and poor self-management. This letter addresses issues like:
- Dividedness and hypocrisy
- Wearing masks to cover fear and shame
- Poor or non-existent emotional skills
- Weariness and hopelessness
For any man who can relate to what is shared in this letter, there is hope for transformation. You can become the man and leader God designed you to be.
For helpful resources to enhance your godly manhood and marriage skills, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
More Resources:
- Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive
- 49 Days of Growth by Stephen Cervantes*
- Daily Thoughts from Doctor Marriage
Related Podcasts:
- Helping Men Navigate Between Logic and Emotion
- A 7 Day Challenge for Emotional Growth
- Are You Open or Closed to Emotional Growth
*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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Register for Xposed Conference!
When: THIS Saturday, February 24th (join in person or online)
Xposed is an annual event to help pastors, ministry leaders, counselors, and individuals navigate sensitive sexual issues and equip them to care for their communities regarding God’s design for sex.
Register Online (use coupon code XP24-BBM for discount)
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Many men struggle deeply with their godly responsibilities of leadership, especially in the home, because they aren’t even managing themselves very well.
In this episode, Stephen brings a letter from a leader that is meant to be representative of most men who struggle with this internal conflict of leadership calling and poor self-management. This letter addresses issues like:
- Dividedness and hypocrisy
- Wearing masks to cover fear and shame
- Poor or non-existent emotional skills
- Weariness and hopelessness
For any man who can relate to what is shared in this letter, there is hope for transformation. You can become the man and leader God designed you to be.
For helpful resources to enhance your godly manhood and marriage skills, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
More Resources:
- Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive
- 49 Days of Growth by Stephen Cervantes*
- Daily Thoughts from Doctor Marriage
Related Podcasts:
- Helping Men Navigate Between Logic and Emotion
- A 7 Day Challenge for Emotional Growth
- Are You Open or Closed to Emotional Growth
*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts
Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
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Wisdom from a Sage in Recovery Ministry
Sometimes we don’t have a “topic” for the podcast, but instead simply have a conversation with someone with loads of experience and wisdom in sexual struggles and recovery. This is what today’s episode is all about.
Our guest is author and speaker, Nate Larkin. He founded the Samson Society, a fellowship of Christian men who are serious about authenticity, community, humility, and recovery.
In our conversation, Nate shares his own story of addiction and recovery. Then we dive into lots of questions that draw on his decades of personal and ministerial wisdom that will prove helpful to any man listening who wants to break free from unwanted sexual behaviors.
To learn more about Nate and his ministry, visit SamsonSociety.com.
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Next Episode

Living Undefiled (with Nick Stumbo)
Why is pornography such a big deal? This is a common question in the culture, but not necessarily one of alarm, but rather questioning why ministries like ours and many others even exist. Is there any real harm to pornography?
To help us answer these questions we have Nick Stumbo back on the program. Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and an author and speaker on sexual issues from a Christian worldview.
In our conversation, Nick shares many of the negative effects of porn: biological, mental, emotional, and relational. We look at the many unhealthy patterns porn promotes, the natural trajectory of tolerance (both individually and culturally), the linkage between human trafficking and porn, and then how to live free from the negative effects of porn.
Finally, Nick shares a new video series resource called Living Undefiled that takes an in-depth look at the topics surrounding pornography and human trafficking.
To learn more about Nick and Pure Desire, visit PureDesire.org.
To get access to the Living Undefiled course, visit LivingUndefiled.com.
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- New Research on Why Women View Porn
- Exposing the True Impact of Porn
- Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World
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