Balancing Parental Impulses: Instinct vs Insight | 008

04/11/24 • 49 min

Matthew and Michael candidly explore the emotional challenges of fatherhood. They discuss how negative energy from outbursts can affect a home, the struggle to keep parental control, and the importance of being present with children. Personal stories reveal their battles with emotion, identity shifts after becoming fathers, and the impulse to maintain authority. Both emphasize the fleeting nature of childhood, advocating for appreciation amid frustration. The conversation underscores the themes of regulating emotions, the struggle against the pull of negative feelings, and the impact on children's perceptions of their parents. The episode is a candid look at the intricacies of fatherhood, the work of self-awareness, and the impact of parental behavior on family dynamics.

Highlights

How negative outbursts linger in the environment.
The pitfalls of attempting to control children.
The impact of these parental impulses on the parent-child relationship
The repetition of negative feelings and habits in parenting.
The importance of being present for meaningful connection with children.
Motivations behind parenting impulses led by fear and lack of control.
How parental stress manifests in children's behaviors.
The importance of addressing issues in a calm state to avoid escalation.

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04/11/24 • 49 min

Project Rad Dad - Balancing Parental Impulses: Instinct vs Insight | 008

Transcript

Matthew S00:00:00.000

Fathers are men who have a biological and physiological and cultural foundation from which we act in the world. On a daily basis, we can find ourselves face to face with an impulse that comes from somewhere deep inside us and judge it, or be happily surprised by it. We can also find ourselves holding back and repressing an impulse without necessarily always knowing how to relate to it. What are some of these impulses and natural instincts we have

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