
Vibe (with CJ DeBarra)
12/11/23 • 33 min
The secret double life of author, journalist and LGBTQ+ sex communicator CJ deBarra.
It involves the benefits of drug-infused lube, a terrifying number of sex toys (some of them extremely large), and the realisation that being honest, open, and proud of who you are and what you do is the best way to live.
Cj's first book, 'NeuroQueer: A Neurodivergent Guide to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between' is available here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/NeuroQueer-N...
Their website is https://carobarry.com/ and you can follow them on the Twitter (https://twitter.com/cjdebarra) and the Instagram (https://instagram.com/cjdebarra).
YouTube version: https://youtu.be/OjMWsiClQsM
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The secret double life of author, journalist and LGBTQ+ sex communicator CJ deBarra.
It involves the benefits of drug-infused lube, a terrifying number of sex toys (some of them extremely large), and the realisation that being honest, open, and proud of who you are and what you do is the best way to live.
Cj's first book, 'NeuroQueer: A Neurodivergent Guide to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between' is available here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/NeuroQueer-N...
Their website is https://carobarry.com/ and you can follow them on the Twitter (https://twitter.com/cjdebarra) and the Instagram (https://instagram.com/cjdebarra).
YouTube version: https://youtu.be/OjMWsiClQsM
—
Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.
The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.
Get exclusive content, stickers, and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: patreon.com/probablytrue
Join the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscord
Wonky YouTube videos: bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTube
Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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YouTube version: https://youtu.be/IqwKPbgdrKk
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Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.
The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.
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YouTube version: https://youtu.be/ShJtzNorW-Y
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Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.
The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.
Get exclusive content, stickers, and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: patreon.com/probablytrue
Join the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscord
Wonky YouTube videos: bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTube
Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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