Positive Parenting Pep Talks

What did it mean if your parents said there was a family meeting?

Usually it meant someone was in trouble.

Learn the Positive Parenting way to implement family meetings to create a closer family bond.

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In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, you will learn an alternative to telling your child, "You're not old enough yet!"

Why? Because this statement often sets off a power struggles.

Listen to this excerpt from the Positive Parenting Class for an encouraging alternative to this discouraging phrase.

I include an example using with a toddler as well as a teenager.

Enjoy!

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Today's Positive Parenting PEP Talk will give you several ideas for getting kids to clean up their rooms.
Room cleaning can be fun, but remember to have age appropriate expectations.

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Today's Positive Parenting PEP Talk is a great insight from a dad about keeping your relationship a priority over discipline.
It is important to discipline and teach your children well, but the everyday battles are not worth damaging our relationship.

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Today's Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast is a recording of and interview I gave many years ago on the Happier Kids Now Online Expo. I wanted to share it with you because I was able to provide so many ideas for helping you to help your kids behave better.

I mentioned the Dial-A-Discipline Wheel that you can purchase here.

I talked about Power Struggles and have an online video class you can purchase for $12.99 here.

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In this episode:

• About my back ground and how I got started
• Why do kids Misbehave?
• Kids have need they are trying to get met through their behavior.
• Spend time with kids when they’re not misbehaving.
• How do you identify misbehavior?
• A systematic approach to misbehavior in your children.
• A misbehaving child is a discouraged child.

There are 4 mistaken goals of misbehavior:

• Attention
• Power
• Revenge
• Inadequacy

Dial-A-Discipline to help identify and correct misbehavior.

• Why do kids love to power struggle with us?
• What age do they learn to power struggle with us?
• What’re the 2 best ways to teach them not to power struggle with us?
• How do you get out of a power struggle?
• Why do kids always have to get the last word in?
• What is the high level communication tool you can role model for your children?
• What happens if your child is being hurtful or hateful?
• You need to know which discipline to use on which behavior.
• What is the child who is helpless, tired or says, “I Can’t”?
• What is the first thing to do when your child is being hurtful or hateful?
• How can you understand the behavior without taking it personally?
• Mirror back to your child the impact they are having on their world.
• An example of my daughter bing in the goal of revenge and how I handled it.
• Valuable insights into the goal of revenge.
• Looking at how adults model this behavior.
• Learn to redirect a child that is whining and saying, “I can’t!”

During the last 20 minutes, Deb offers parents specific help during Q&A.

If you want more in depth information about powers struggles and the other 3 goals go to Season 1 of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast.