Welcome to our Polysphere

01/03/25 • 60 min

Hosts: Kat and Doc
Website: polypathwayspodcast.transistor.fm
YouTube: @polypathwayspodcast
Instagram: @polypathwayspodcast
TikTok: @polypathwayspodcast

In this inaugural episode of Poly Pathways, hosts Kat and Doc dive into the rich landscape of polyamory resources across social media, podcasts, books, and online communities. They explore how these various platforms and voices have shaped their understanding of ethical non-monogamy and continue to influence their poly journeys. The hosts share their personal experiences with different content creators while offering insights into which resources might be most valuable for listeners at different stages of their polyamorous exploration.

The discussion weaves through various social media accounts that offer everything from therapeutic perspectives to practical advice about polyamorous relationships. The hosts highlight accounts like TherapyJeff, Millennial.Therapist, SteadyPolyamory, Ready for Polyamory, Polyfamory, and Chill Polyamory, discussing how each offers unique insights into different aspects of ethical non-monogamy. They also candidly address some content creators they've found less helpful or potentially problematic, helping listeners navigate the vast landscape of poly resources.

The conversation extends beyond social media to explore influential books like "The Ethical Slut," "Polysecure," and "Polywise," as well as podcasts such as MultiAmory, Remodeled Love, and Normalizing Nonmonogamy. The hosts also discuss various online communities, including Discord channels and Facebook groups, while offering practical advice about finding local poly communities and navigating online spaces safely and effectively.

Social Media Accounts:

Resources Mentioned (affiliate links):
- "The Ethical Slut" by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
- "Polysecure" by Jessica Fern
- "Polywise" by Jessica Fern
- "Love" by Leo Buscaglia
- "Living, Loving, and Learning" by Leo Buscaglia
- "Open Deeply" by Kate Loree
- "Monogamy in this Economy" by Laura Boyle
- "More than Two" by Eve Rickert
- "Polyamory in Parenthood" by Jessica and Joseph Daylover
- "The Topping Book" and "The Bottoming Book" by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton

Other Podcasts:
- MultiAmory Podcast
- Remodeled Love
- Normalizing Non-Monogamy
- We Can Do Hard Things (specific episodes on relationships)
- 2BeBetter

Questions We Answer:

Where should I start if I'm new to learning about polyamory?
Are all polyamory resources equally valuable?
What resources are available for polyamorous parents?
How can I find my local polyamory community?
What are some good resources for understanding attachment and security in poly...

Hosts: Kat and Doc
Website: polypathwayspodcast.transistor.fm
YouTube: @polypathwayspodcast
Instagram: @polypathwayspodcast
TikTok: @polypathwayspodcast

Social Media Accounts:

Other Podcasts:
- MultiAmory Podcast
- Remodeled Love
- Normalizing Non-Monogamy
- We Can Do Hard Things (specific episodes on relationships)
- 2BeBetter

Questions We Answer:

Where should I start if I'm new to learning about polyamory?
Are all polyamory resources equally valuable?
What resources are available for polyamorous parents?
How can I find my local polyamory community?
What are some good resources for understanding attachment and security in poly...

Previous Episode

Introducing Poly Pathways: A New & Practical Guide to Polyamory

Hosts: Kat and Doc
Website: polypathwayspodcast.transistor.fm
YouTube: @polypathwayspodcast
Instagram: @polypathwayspodcast
TikTok: @polypathwayspodcast

In this introductory episode of Poly Pathways, hosts Kat and Doc introduce themselves as polyamorous individuals who, while not partnered with each other, bring unique perspectives to polyamory discussions. Both hosts share their journey of recognizing their polyamorous identities, with Kat identifying as demisexual/bisexual/pansexual with ADHD, and Doc identifying as demisexual. They emphasize their approach to polyamory as just one aspect of their identities rather than their entire personality.

The hosts discuss how recent global events, particularly the post-pandemic period, have led many to question traditional relationship structures and seek deeper emotional connections. They position themselves as resources for those exploring polyamory, offering practical advice based on their personal experiences, mistakes, and successes. Their perspective is particularly unique as they represent polyamorous individuals who maintain conventional lives while practicing ethical non-monogamy.

The podcast will release biweekly episodes covering various topics including dating, trust, family issues, finances, and relationship repair. Future episodes will delve deeper into the hosts' personal polyamory journeys and provide practical guidance for navigating polyamorous relationships.

Resources Mentioned: (affiliate links)

Living Loving and Learning by Leo Buscaglia | Amazon | Bookshop.org
Love: What Life is All About by Leo Buscaglia | Amazon | Bookshop.org
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern | Amazon | Bookshop.org
Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships by Jessica Fern | Amazon | Bookshop.org

Key Questions We Answer:

What makes Poly Pathways different from other polyamory podcasts?
Do I need to be actively polyamorous to benefit from this podcast?
What topics will the podcast cover?
What are the hosts' backgrounds and identifications?

Next Episode

How do you Handle Jealousy? Decoding and Navigating Jealousy in Polyamory

In this eye-opening episode of Poly Pathways, hosts Kat and Doc tackle the elephant in the room for many considering polyamory: jealousy and envy. They dive deep into the differences between these emotions and why they're not unique to polyamorous relationships. The hosts share personal stories and insights, debunking common misconceptions about jealousy in non-monogamous relationships.

Kat and Doc explore how monogamy often allows people to avoid confronting jealous feelings, while polyamory encourages facing these emotions head-on. They discuss the fear-based nature of jealousy and how it relates to seeking safety in relationships. The hosts also touch on how jealousy can manifest in unexpected ways, as illustrated by Doc's camping story and Kat's experience with her boyfriend's profession.

Listeners will gain valuable insights into managing jealousy and envy in all types of relationships. The hosts emphasize that feeling jealous doesn't make you "bad at poly" and offer a teaser for strategies to work through these challenging emotions in the second half of the episode. Whether you're polyamorous, monogamous, or somewhere in between, this episode provides a fresh perspective on dealing with the green-eyed monster.

Follow @polypathwayspodcast for more insights on practical polyamory!