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06/17/21 • 68 min
Do you secretly keep score of who does what in your relationship?
Do you feel like your partner gets to be carefree and happy while you’re stressed out trying to hold it all together?
In today's episode, we talk about one of the most popular topics we’ve ever talked about: mental load.
If you’ve never heard the term before, mental load refers to the invisible mental burden of keeping track of household and family needs.
Seriously, people go bananas whenever we talk about mental load, so this is an episode you don’t want to miss!
Get full show notes and resources mentioned in this episode here: www.vmtherapy.com/episode4
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10/10/24 • 45 min
Mutual masturbation is one of the sexiest things you can do in the bedroom! But when we asked our audience if they had ever mutually masturbated with their partner, only 36% said yes.
in today’s episode, we break down what mutual masturbation is, how to get comfortable and confident doing it, and how to take it to the next level!
Links & Resources:
Guide: The Ultimate Foreplay Guides
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Episode 24: Butt Stuff: The Sequel
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11/04/21 • 43 min
The follow up to episode 23: Butt Stuff (if you haven't listened to that episode yet, go ahead and check it out)! Today we're talking about how to actually do butt stuff — step by step — as well as what not to do.
Check out the show notes here: https://bit.ly/3BHpDeM
Good communication is really hard.
We'll be the first to admit that in the heat of the moment it can be really tough to validate your partner's experience, use clear and empathic language, and also ask for your needs to be met.
We make a living teaching couples how to have good communication and we STILL struggle with this.
So in this episode, we're roleplaying some of our listener-submitted arguments, and breaking down their communication breakdowns.
Links & Resources:
Video: 5 Communication Tips For Couples
Guide: Golden Rules Of Communication
Masterclass: Bring Your Sex Life Back To Life
If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!
Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode10
11/03/22 • 54 min
Do you want a higher sex drive? Bet you said, “yes!” without thinking twice. 74% of our Instagram audience did. Most of us feel self-conscious about how rarely we desire sex, and believe that we’re supposed to have a stronger libido.
But if you’re really honest with yourself, do you truly want more desire? Only 8% of our Instagram audience said they’d do whatever it takes to have a higher sex drive. And we’ve found that whenever we offer sex drive resources to our community, very few people actually use them. (This episode contains a fascinating sneak peek at one of the biggest flops in our business!)
So what’s going on here? In this episode, we dive deep into the sex drive disconnect so many of us are struggling with. We’ll bust some of the biggest - and most damaging - sex drive myths, and give you the honest truth about libido. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of what you truly want, and a clear path on how to get there.
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Episode 73: Do You Ever Owe Sex To Your Partner
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Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode76
12/22/22 • 67 min
Be honest - if you look back at your last fight with your partner, are you happy with how it went? Was there anything you wish that you had said differently? Or would take back Maybe you were feeling defensive, a little misunderstood, or just plain hurt! It would be nice if there was a referee to throw a flag or call time out when we cross the line in an argument.
We reached out to our Instagram audience and found a couple willing to share a fight that they recently experienced. In this episode, we go through their text fight line by line, calling out what worked, what didn’t, and different choices they could have made to communicate more effectively. You’ll get a sneak peek at the kinds of fights other couples really have, while learning how to manage relationship conflict in a healthier way. Learning how to fight fair can be a process, but with some practice, you can turn those moments of tension into opportunities for growth and connection.
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If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!
Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode83
Episode 33: The Episode We Almost Didn’t Release
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01/06/22 • 55 min
Full transparency: we didn’t know if we were going to release this episode. We’re talking about everything from how we processed the chaos that is the holidays to whether we upheld our “Holiday Classic” sex pact.
If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!
Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode33
03/03/22 • 54 min
So how DID Xander propose? How often do we really have sex? You’re about to find out in this “ask us anything” style episode, where we answer your most frequently asked, burning questions.
If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!
Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode41
08/12/21 • 49 min
Body confidence is something that affects everyone, whether it's an occasional thing or a daily struggle. Usually we think of it as a personal issue - feeling self conscious, or having critical and judgmental thoughts towards ourselves.
But there's another aspect to body confidence that actually has a huge impact on how we show up in our sex lives and relationships: our ability to let our partner love our body.
In today's episode, Vanessa and Xander discuss how to let your partner love your body and share their best tips for receiving and accepting compliments from your partner.
Links & Resources:
Video: How To IMPROVE Body Confidence - The Ultimate Guide
Guide: 3 Simple Daily Habits To Keep The Spark Alive In Your Relationship!
If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!
For full show notes: https://vmtherapy.com/episode12
04/14/22 • 57 min
You’re having a steamy makeout session with your partner, things are getting hot and heavy and leading to sex, but your partner just can’t get or stay erect. (Or maybe their erection isn’t the problem, but their orgasm is.)
What does it mean??
For most women, we think the answer lies within ourselves. We’re not hot enough. We’re not experienced enough or lacking technique. Something is wrong with our body, not theirs.
What you THINK these performance issues mean vs. what they REALLY mean are two very different animals, so in today’s episode, we are going there.
Whether your partner has trouble getting and staying hard, orgasming too quickly/taking too long to orgasm, we’re talking about how these issues have affected us in our relationship and giving you all of our best tips for navigating them in (and out) of the moment.
And, spoiler alert, this episode turned into a mini therapy session for us!
If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!
Check out the show notes at: vmtherapy.com/episode47
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FAQ
How many episodes does Pillow Talks have?
Pillow Talks currently has 191 episodes available.
What topics does Pillow Talks cover?
The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Podcasts and Sexuality.
What is the most popular episode on Pillow Talks?
The episode title 'Episode 4: Mental Load: What It Is and How to Stop It from Destroying Your Relationship' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Pillow Talks?
The average episode length on Pillow Talks is 59 minutes.
How often are episodes of Pillow Talks released?
Episodes of Pillow Talks are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Pillow Talks?
The first episode of Pillow Talks was released on May 25, 2021.
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