Paradox and Poetry with Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer

04/29/25 • 35 min

Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer knows grief. Her dad and son died in the same year. Like her latest book, The Unfolding, if this interview were music, it would be in the key of grief. Rosemerry shares how her daily writing practice helped her navigate the days and weeks following her son's death. She also explains how we can hold opposite things that may both be true. We can let go of the tired stories we tell ourselves and find new metaphors that better serve us.

You can find Rosemerry's work and learn more about her poetry here: https://www.wordwoman.com/

You can find Rosemerry's work and learn more about her poetry here: https://www.wordwoman.com/

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Joél Simone Maldonado is a licensed funeral director and embalmer, spiritual death care educator and the founder of the Multicultural Death & Grief Care Academy. She's helping to revolutionize the death care industry by educating practitioners about culturally sensitive protocols and death care for communities of color. In this episode, we talk about everything from restorative art, to various disposition methods, to how Covid impacted the death care industry. Joél also talks about growing up in Beaufort, South Carolina, immersed in the Gullah Geechee culture.

You can learn more about Joél and The Multicultural Death & Grief Care Academy: https://thegravewoman.com/

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Joél's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/thegravewoman

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