Parents Who Write
Erin P.T. Canning
Repeat after me: "I cannot do the dishes until I sit down and write for at least 10 minutes."
Welcome to Parents Who Write, the podcast that helps you pursue your writing dreams.
Join host, Erin P.T. Canning—an indie author, editor, writing coach, and mom of two young boys—as she helps you to regularly make time for your writing, strengthen your voice, and gain confidence and direction, so you can own your identity as a writer and thrive as an author.
You’ll hear from other writers and authors as they share (1) how and why they make time to write, (2) what keeps them inspired, and (3) what they’ve learned throughout their journey, including publishing and marketing tips. Their experiences will inspire you and help you find solutions to the struggles that many writers face.
We’ll also talk about the craft of creative writing, including my personal favorite genres of fantasy and romance, and discuss techniques you can apply to your own manuscripts.
Enjoy the laughs, the writing tips, the occasional parenting stories, and the relief in knowing you’re not alone. Episodes release every other Tuesday.
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01/30/24 • 42 min
Have you ever dreamed of writing all day long—and getting paid to do so? But then reality sets in, and you start wondering how that’s feasible? How you’d even get started?
In today’s episode, you’ll hear from Sarah Werner, who shares how she planned to leave her full-time job in marketing, how she discovered the worth of her work, and how she trudged through painful writing gigs that still taught her valuable lessons.
You’ll also learn how experimenting with your creativity can lead to surprise opportunities and how to connect with your ideal audience.
Topics discussed in this episode:
- Sarah’s journey
- Starting a fictional podcast
- Making money as a full-time writer
- Learning about structure, voices, and characters through ghostwriting
- Using Patreon
- Acknowledging the worth of your work
- The power of next steps
- Marketing your author self
- Using social media effectively
- Why you shouldn’t fear sharing your struggles
Connect with Sarah:
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahRheaWerner
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SarahRheaWerner
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahrheawerner/
- Substack: https://sarahrheawerner.substack.com/
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXs-eisO1DWhkgAY4kzQ9yw
- Website: https://www.sarahwerner.com/
About Sarah:
Sarah is a writer, speaker, podcast creator, and executive producer whose mission is to help creators find confidence, success, and ultimately delight in their work. In addition to writing and podcasting, she is also a national public speaker who has been invited to talk about creativity, podcasting, marketing, and leadership for TEDx, Austin Film Festival, Podcast Movement, PodFest, PodCon, and more, from her community YWCA to YouTube headquarters.
Books discussed during the show:
- If You Want To Write by Brenda Ueland
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
67. Memoir writing tips: Transforming journal entries into a book w/ Sarah Birnbach
Parents Who Write
04/09/24 • 29 min
Curious about transforming journaling entries into a published memoir?
Joining us today is Sarah Birnbach, author of the memoir "A Daughter's Kaddish." Sarah shares her surprising journey from journal facilitator to published author and how journaling helped her heal through grief.
But the question remains: How do you take those raw, personal entries and turn them into a compelling memoir?
In this episode, Sarah shares her secrets! You'll hear:
- Tips for overcoming overwhelm and getting your ideas on the page
- The unexpected ways grief can inspire powerful narratives
- Strategies for crafting a memoir that resonates with readers
Get ready to hear Sarah's top journaling tips and advice for crafting a memoir from your own journal entries.
Topics discussed in this episode:
- Top 3 tips for journaling
- Writing about grief
- 22 years from start to finish
- Surprises about writing a memoir
- Dialog tips
- Finding a good writing group
- Books on craft
Get her book:
- A Daughter’s Kaddish: https://sarahbirnbach.com/books/a-daughters-kaddish/
Connect with Sarah:
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/sarah_birnbach
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sarahsheilabirnbach/
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahsheilabirnbach
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarah.birnbach/
Books discussed during the show:
- The Emotional Craft of Fiction: How to Write the Story Beneath the Surface by Donald Maass
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
58. Crafting continuity: A writer’s guide to style sheets
Parents Who Write
12/05/23 • 16 min
As your story expands, do you find keeping track of the evolving ideas and details overwhelming? What about if you’re writing not just one book but a whole series?
In today’s episode, you’ll learn how you can maintain consistency and track story threads, regardless of whether you’re working with professional editors or beta readers.
You’ll walk away knowing how to better communicate with your editor about their offerings, including whether they’ll create a style sheet for you. Erin also shares the importance of using style tags in writing programs like Microsoft Word or Google Docs for seamless navigation, both in your manuscript and style sheet.
Whether you're a seasoned writer or just starting, this episode provides valuable tools to enhance your storytelling journey.
Topics discussed in this episode:
- Why style sheets make all the difference
- Which sections to include in your style sheet and why
- How to track story threads across a series
Connect with Parents Who Write:
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/parentswhowrite
- Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/parentswhowrite
- Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/parentswhowrite
- Website: https://parentswhowrite.com
- Book a free 30-minute consultation call to learn about my editing services: https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Resources / books discussed during the show:
- Episode 25 for details on how to use style tags in MS Word and Google Docs
- Ruins and Redemption: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CG84P1N8
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
43. Growing your audience organically
Parents Who Write
05/09/23 • 22 min
Do you struggle with spreading the word about your writing and growing your audience organically? Do you fear people just scroll past your “buy my book” or “read my writing” posts?
In this episode, you’ll learn how to reach your ideal readers and why spamming other groups doesn’t convert users into readers.
Best of all, you’ll walk away knowing how to create content that users actually want to consume AND share.
So, stay tuned to learn the secrets for gaining a following of raving fans who love your posts and voluntarily spread the word about you and your writing.
Topics discussed in this episode:
- Conquering the purpose of social media
- Finding your ideal readers
- Knowing what to post and NOT post in other groups
- Creating your own consistency
- Using the three main types of content
- Posting content people want to consume and share
- BONUS: An affordable resource for generating your ideas
About Erin:
Erin P.T. Canning has worked for more than 15 years as a magazine and book editor, encouraging each writer’s individual voice and strengthening their writing goals.
She always planned to write a book. Then she had kids. While she focused on them, she stopped writing—for six years. Something deep inside was missing. Depression, anxiety, and anger forced her to search for herself, both for her sake and her family’s.
Despite fearing her skills had atrophied, Erin started writing again. One journal entry led to one blog post that led to her creating her podcast, Parents Who Write. Erin’s current role as a podcaster and writing coach enables her to help others pursue their writing dreams.
Finally, she finished writing her own shitty first draft and will release her first novel in 2023. She earned her MA in Writing from Johns Hopkins University, and she lives with her husband and their two boys in Maryland.
Connect with Erin:
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/erinptcanning
- Twitter: http://twitter.com/erinptcanning
- Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/parentswhowrite
- Book a free 30-minute consultation call: https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Resources discussed during the show:
- Parents Who Write writing workshops: https://lifebeyondparenting.com/courses/
- Rachel Miller’s Set-and-Forget Social System: https://moolah.life/social-system46939416
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
48. Braving (and conquering) the traditional publishing route w/ Maria Costanzo Palmer
Parents Who Write
07/18/23 • 52 min
The traditional publishing route can feel overwhelming. Query letters and manuscript evaluations and book agents—oh, my!
In this episode, you’ll learn how one author entered Dante’s inferno, her words, not mine, and took initiative to get her narrative nonfiction novel published.
You’ll also walk away not only better understanding the twists and turns of the traditional publishing route but also learn 5 tried and true tips for shopping your manuscript with book agents.
So stay tuned to find out how this author never gave up and finally published her book after 17 years!
Topics discussed in this episode:
- 17 years of drafting / shopping a narrative nonfiction book
- How Maria kept going and found her co-author
- Making tough revision decisions
- Shopping the manuscript and entering Dante’s hell
- The challenge of not being famous
- Query letters, manuscripts, and book proposals
- Exiting Dante’s hell with positive manuscript reviews
- 5 tips for attending writing workshops
- Making dad’s dream come true
- Changing the narrative of our own stories
About Maria:
A narrative nonfiction writer, Maria Costanzo Palmer is also a Page Turner Award Finalist for her co-authored book On the Rocks (Koehler Books). Her writing has been published in OC87 Recovery Diaries, and she has made a number of media appearances.
She also serves as the grant writer for St. Paul's Community Development Corporation in Paterson, NJ, where she helps fund programs that support "a hand-up, not a hand-out." She lives in New Jersey with her husband and college sweetheart Joe, their two children, ages 9 and 7, and her two rescue pit bulls, Luna and Stella.
Get her book:
- On the Rocks: http://visithei.nz/primadonna-book
Connect w/ Maria:
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoeCostanzoPrimadonna/
- Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/joecostanzoprimadonna
- Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/mariacpalmer
- Website: http://www.mariacpalmer.com
- LinkTree: linktr.ee/mariacpalmer
Resources discussed during the show:
- Writing Day Workshops: http://www.writingdayworkshops.com/
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
06/06/23 • 47 min
How often do you read romance novels in which mental health issues are a normal part of the main characters?
Joining today’s conversation is Ginny Moore, a romantic historical fiction author, middle school assistant principal, and mother to three kids.
In this episode, you’ll hear Ginny share not only why her postpartum anxiety and depression went undiagnosed for far too long but also how subconsciously funneling her mental health issues into her main characters has helped her to know herself better, heal, and save her marriage.
So tune in to hear more about how Ginny uses romantic historical fiction to push boundaries—both externally among a more formal, ridged society and internally as characters wrestle with their worst sides.
Topics discussed in this episode:
- Struggling with depression, anxiety, and ADHD
- Using writing to cope with mental health struggles
- Using two lead characters to reconcile different sides of yourself
- Forcing characters to reckon with their worst sides amid history
- Oxford University’s unwanted, first female students
- How car notes evolved into a full novel
- The non-career goal of one writer
- Finding a great writing buddy
- Sharing your other hobbies with your audience
- Reaching burn out, again
- Favorite books
About Ginny:
Ginny B. Moore was the kid who loved kissing scenes in movies and always rooted for Mulder and Scully to hook up. Her first piece of writing was a horrendous fanfic romance based on The Three Musketeers when she was thirteen years old.
Ginny started reading romance during the pandemic. In an effort to avoid doom-scrolling social media, she decided to put her own stories to paper. She is a middle school assistant principal and has been in education for eighteen years. Most of her writing is done on her phone or in the parking lot of her kids' extracurricular activities.
When she is not writing, Ginny is a slow long-distance runner. She is the mother of three kids, two exceptionally stupid dogs, two codependent cats, and the grandmother to a hermit crab.
Get her books:
- Adding Up to Love: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BSB9G8BS
- The Countess and the Casanova: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C2N89ZGW
Connect w/ Ginny:
- Website: https://www.ginnymooreauthor.net
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginny_moore_writes/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GinnyMooreAuthor/
Books discussed during the show:
- Author Sarah MacLean
- Author Tessa Dare
- Thornchapel series by Sierra Simone
- Julius Caesar by William Shakespeare
- Matilda by Roald Dahl
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
42. Touching creative source w/ Jackie Amsden
Parents Who Write
04/25/23 • 35 min
Have you had that moment when your words flow effortlessly onto the page and what you write completely surprises and delights you?
Joining today’s conversation is Jackie Amsden, an indie comedy author, podcaster, and mom of two. In today’s episode, you’ll hear about how tapping into creative space helped Jackie reconcile her struggle with becoming a mother and the loneliness she felt throughout that transition.
You’ll learn why a writing habit doesn’t have to be done a certain way and how having kids can make our creativity more efficient. Tune in to also find out how Jackie has began reshaping the identity of mom through her writing.
Topics discussed in this episode:
- Feeling alone a new mom who also writes
- How Jackie thought writing had to be done, before having kids
- Tapping into that creative space and feeding the soul
- How passion and motivation change after becoming a parent
- How to not forget your creativity
- Using writing to play with the identity of mom and reshaping it
- Jackie’s desire to connect with more writers
- Using podcasts to connect with specific communities
- Favorite books
- BONUS: Using Fancy Nancy as an example for a strong voice
- BONUS: Advice on digging deeper into why you’re not writing
About Jackie:
Jackie Amsden is an indie comedy author and host of These Mums Write podcast. She is currently working on a MomCom about a stay-at-home mom who needs to pretend to be an ex-con to get a job.
She has children, ages 6 and 13, who provide an endless source of hilarious one-liners and also a great deal of lower back pain. She lives in Vancouver, the Canadian one.
Connect w/ Jackie:
- Linktree: https://linktr.ee/jackieamsden
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jackieamsden/
Books and resources discussed during the show:
- Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear, by Elizabeth Gilbert
- You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life, by Jen Sincero
- Midlife Bites: Anyone Else Falling Apart, Or Is It Just Me?, by Jen Mann
- Welcome to the Neighborhood, by Lisa Roe
- Confessions of a Forty-Something F##k Up, by Alexandra Potter
- The Wayside School series, by Louis Sachar
- Pinkalicious series, by Victoria and Elizabeth Kann
- Fancy Nancy, by Jane O’Connor
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
40. Reading like a writer & what that means
Parents Who Write
03/28/23 • 20 min
Have you heard this advice read like a writer but have wondered what does that actually mean?
In today's episode, you are going to learn how this practice helps strengthen your writing, which books you should apply this approach to, and how to actually read like a writer.
Topics discussed in this episode:
- Books that resonate
- Subconsciously learning through imitation
- Deciding what lessons and techniques to keep and not keep
- Identifying what you don’t like
- Recognizing the patterns of storytelling
- Choosing books to read like a writer
- Understanding decisions regarding structure
- How to look at the book’s big picture
- How to study the first chapter
- How to observe the way the author handles transitions
- How and why you should track predictions and breadcrumbs
- How to study passages that suck you into the story
- How to study passages you find boring
- What to notice regarding how chapters tend to end
About Erin:
Erin P.T. Canning has worked for more than 15 years as a magazine and book editor, encouraging each writer’s individual voice and strengthening their writing goals.
She always planned to write a book. Then she had kids. While she focused on them, she stopped writing—for six years. Something deep inside was missing. Depression, anxiety, and anger forced her to search for herself, both for her sake and her family’s.
Despite fearing her skills had atrophied, Erin started writing again. One journal entry led to one blog post that led to her creating her podcast, Parents Who Write. Erin’s current role as a podcaster and writing coach enables her to help others pursue their writing dreams.
Finally, she finished writing her own shitty first draft and will release her first novel in 2023. She earned her MA in Writing from Johns Hopkins University, and she lives with her husband and their two boys in Maryland.
Connect with Erin:
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/erinptcanning
- Twitter: http://twitter.com/erinptcanning
- Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/parentswhowrite
- Book a free 30-minute consultation call: https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
46. Six editing lenses that help with revisions
Parents Who Write
06/20/23 • 14 min
Have you started revising your story only to feel like you're going in circles? Does the revision process feel overwhelming and you don't know what to tackle next?
In today's episode, you are going to learn how you can use different lenses to review your work and how this method can help make the revision process less chaotic.
Tune in to learn 6 different editing lenses for the revision process that you can start using today.
Topics discussed in this episode:
- Changing your focus
- Simplifying overwhelm
- 1. Time and location
- 2. Showing emotions
- 3. Character arcs
- 4. Chapter purpose
- 5. Plot
- 6. Mood
- The four stages of the writing process
About Erin:
Erin P.T. Canning has worked for more than 15 years as a magazine and book editor, encouraging each writer’s individual voice and strengthening their writing goals.
She always planned to write a book. Then she had kids. While she focused on them, she stopped writing—for six years. Something deep inside was missing. Depression, anxiety, and anger forced her to search for herself, both for her sake and her family’s.
Despite fearing her skills had atrophied, Erin started writing again. One journal entry led to one blog post that led to her creating her podcast, Parents Who Write. Erin’s current role as a podcaster and writing coach enables her to help others pursue their writing dreams.
Finally, she finished writing her own shitty first draft and will release her first novel in 2023. She earned her MA in Writing from Johns Hopkins University, and she lives with her husband and their two boys in Maryland.
Connect with Erin:
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/erinptcanning
- Twitter: http://twitter.com/erinptcanning
- Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/parentswhowrite
- Book a free 30-minute consultation call: https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
10. Exploring romance gone wrong w/ Amanda Jane Schiller
Parents Who Write
08/23/22 • 36 min
She’s far more excited about exploring the millions of ways a romance can go wrong, rather than right. Amanda Jane Schiller, a mom of one preteen and contemporary romance novelist, is on the show today.
In this episode, Amanda discusses the book that completely altered her previous views about writing and became the catalyst for her own writing style. She not only defines books about “romance gone wrong” but also gives us a sample of the psychological curiosities she gets to play with as she explores her character’s past.
Amanda also shares how she prepared herself for self-publishing so that the process wasn’t overwhelming, as well as what resources helped her most. And I give detailed examples of what it means to “read like a writer” and some of the other best writing advice I learned at university.
We also have an in-depth conversation about pursing our passions as adults, the roundabout ways we got here, and the messages we’re passing on to our kids. And, as always, we discuss which books we and our kids love most.
Get her books:
– Wicked Games and Wasted Years: Part 1:
https://www.amazon.com/Wicked-Games-Wasted-Years-Part/dp/B0962N9JTX
– Wicked Games and Wasted Years: Part 2:
https://www.amazon.com/Wicked-Games-Wasted-Years-Part/dp/B09WCJWNPS
Connect with Amanda:
– Blog: https://www.patreon.com/amandajaneschiller
– Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/ajschiller
– Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amanda.schiller.9
Books discussed during the show:
– The Coldest Winter Ever by Sister Souljah
– The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien
– Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery
– The Last Unicorn by Peter S. Beagle
– The Neverending Story by Michael Ende
– Harry Potter series by J.K. Rowling
– The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
– Save the Cat Writes a Novel by Jessica Brody
– The Bad Guys series by Aaron Blabey
– Dead Boy by Laurel Gale
– Fearless series by Francine Pasco
– The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern
Resources mentioned during the show:
– Reedsy.com
– Vellum
– KDP (Amazon Kindle Direct Publishing)
– Draft2Digital
For more content on writing, parenting, and life, visit LifeBeyondParenting.com.
Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.
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How many episodes does Parents Who Write have?
Parents Who Write currently has 74 episodes available.
What topics does Parents Who Write cover?
The podcast is about Podcasts and Arts.
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The episode title '65. Scenes, Characters, Series, Oh My! Taming the Chaos of Multi-Project Writing w/ Edward Green' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Parents Who Write?
The average episode length on Parents Who Write is 29 minutes.
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Episodes of Parents Who Write are typically released every 7 days, 7 hours.
When was the first episode of Parents Who Write?
The first episode of Parents Who Write was released on Jul 1, 2022.
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