Parenting with Impact

Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster

The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all over the world to become capable, independent adults. ImpactParents.com is an online community, award-winning blog, and direct service provider for parents and professionals. Elaine and Diane are certified professional coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, gender identity issues, and more. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, they teach and inspire parents and professionals to raise and empower complex kids with confidence and calm. Scroll down for links and to download a free parenting guide. The Parenting with Impact Podcast will: Feature leading experts, bringing you cutting edge information to address your child’s challenges Teach you real-life, practical strategies for creating lasting change Demonstrate how a coach-approach can improve all of your communications, one conversation at a time For the essentials of ImpactParent's coach-approach to parenting, download a free parenting guide at: ImpactParents.com/Podcast Find out about Sanity School®, a program for Parents, at: https://impactparents.com/programs-offerings/parent-training-sanity-school/ For information about professional continuing education: https://impactparents.com/for-professionals/ Visit Impact Parents at: https://impactparents.com/

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Ep 188: Executive Function through the Lens of Social Thinking

Parenting with Impact

11/13/24 • 38 min

What does it mean to break down information in order to build up social competencies? And how does that relate to people with compelling social anxiety? In this discussion with the founder of Social Thinking, Michelle Garcia Winner, we explore the relationship between "being social" and social cognition (ie. social thinking). We touch on four areas of executive function that can foster our ability to learn how to take action on social dynamics that we want to do and are important to us. Get a better understanding of social dynamics and how to help your kids navigate them.

Michelle Garcia Winner, MA, CCC-SLP, is the founder and CEO of Think Social Publishing, Inc, (a.k.a. Social Thinking). She is a globally recognized thought leader, author, speaker, and social-cognitive therapist who is dedicated to fostering awareness and development of our social-emotional and organizational selves, both neurodivergent and neurotypical. Across her 30+ year career she has created numerous evidence-based strategies, treatment frameworks, and curricula to help family members as well the professionals who support them foster the development of social and organizational competencies and problem solving. Her methodology is most effective with children and adults who have a solid command of expressive and receptive language. Michelle and her team continually update the Social Thinking® Methodology based on the latest research and clinical insights.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Michelle Garcia Winner.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Michelle stresses the importance of understanding the individual you are trying to help. Tailoring social strategies based on the person's specific challenges and strengths can significantly enhance their social learning experience.

Michelle explains managing social anxiety requires self-regulation, flexibility, and self-compassion. Encouraging individuals to be kind to themselves and allowing them to progress at their own pace can foster a more comfortable social interaction environment.

Michelle highlights the significance of working through the social learning process slowly and deliberately.

Links Mentioned:

Website: socialthinking.com

Addressing Social Competencies and Social Anxiety: https://www.socialthinking.com/Articles?name=anxiety-and-social-competencies

Is Anxiety Making it More Difficult to Diagnose ADHD?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/is-anxiety-making-it-more-difficult-to-diagnose-adhd/

Did Social Anxiety Make Me a Leader?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/did-social-anxiety-make-me-a-leader/

Treating Depression & Anxiety Disorder in People with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/recognize-treat-depression-anxiety-disorder-adhd/

12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind, Survive Everyday Parenting Struggles, and Help Your Family Thrive: https://drdansiegel.com/whole-brain-child-handouts/

Executive Function Skills - What Every Parent Needs to Know: https://youtu.be/_s1Kj0lEzkA

Helping Complex Kids Process: A Student Coach's SUCCESS STORY: https://youtu.be/XtH5vBXtJ7E

Helping Kids Become Better Problem-Solvers: https://youtu.be/RHMxf7tMlJU

Connect with Michelle:

Website: www.socialthinking.com

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/socialthinking

Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/2socia1thinking

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Ep 158: ADHD Diagnosis & Treatment: From Skepticism to Evidence-Based Innovation

Parenting with Impact

04/17/24 • 33 min

Phil Anderton, a visionary in the field of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), has revolutionized the way we perceive and address this condition. Through his leadership at ADHD 360, the largest and most successful ADHD medical clinic in Europe, Phil and his team have consistently pushed boundaries and paved the way for new possibilities.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Phil Anderton about ADHD diagnosis and treatment.

Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible:

What is recommended treatment for children and teens

Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication

Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring.

ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Phil discusses the systematic approach to diagnosing and treating ADHD in patients of all ages. His focus on providing comprehensive care through assessments, treatment, and support services reflects a shift towards acknowledging and accepting ADHD as a neurodiverse condition that requires attention and understanding.

Phil emphasizes the importance of addressing skepticism towards ADHD diagnosis and the benefits of medication and accommodations for individuals with ADHD. He advocates for improved outcomes and quality of life, using examples like comparing ADHD medication side effects to common pain relievers and discussing the necessity of accommodations, such as extended time in exams, to support individuals with ADHD in achieving success.

Phil emphasizes the importance of evidence-based practices in advocating for ADHD acceptance and treatment. By using medical evidence and a data-driven approach, Phil aims to address funding battles and challenge misconceptions about ADHD in the National Health Service and educational institutions, with the goal of making positive impacts on individuals' lives through evidence-backed interventions and treatment options.

Phil explains digitized clinic processes streamline patient journeys and enhance assessments through video conferences. By offering assessments in patients' homes, the clinic reduces anxiety associated with in-person visits, leading to more accurate results and improved patient outcomes.

Phil and Diane explain the ADHD diagnosis process can be simplified by blending qualitative and quantitative data. By using screening tools, DSM criteria, and semi-structured interviews, clinicians can streamline the diagnostic process to a few hours of focused assessment.

Related Links:

Medical Bias vs. ADHD: The History of a Smear Campaign: https://youtu.be/0Cdcg5nwV2Y

Bilbow Formula for Success: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/bilbow-formula-for-success/

Using ADHD as an Excuse: Its Pitfalls: https://www.blogtalkradio.com/attentiontalkradio/2024/03/27/using-adhd-as-an-excuse-its-pitfalls

Website: www.adhd-360.com
QbTest: https://www.qbtech.com/
Connect with Dr. Phil Anderton:
Website: www.adhd-360.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/360ADHD
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/360adhd/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/adhd-360
X (formerly Twitter): https://twitter.com/360Adhd
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Ep. 161: When It Feels Like It’s Just Too Much

Parenting with Impact

05/08/24 • 29 min

Stop the Roller Coaster, I want to get off! In today's fast-paced world, resilience and flexibility are crucial for survival. With constant changes happening around us, being able to adapt and bounce back from challenges is key to thriving in this environment.

Understanding complex children is also essential for their well-being and development. Each child is unique, with their own set of needs and characteristics. By taking the time to truly understand and connect with them, we can support their growth and help them navigate the complexities of the world.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about stress, anxiety and difficult situations.

Ten Self Care Tips for Parents

Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Diane discusses the significance of self-talk and coaching oneself through difficult situations, underscoring the need to help parents navigate challenging circumstances with resilience.

Elaine emphasizes the need to find a balance between anticipating potential challenges and not overwhelming oneself with excessive planning.

Diane encourages listeners to celebrate small wins along the way, acknowledging that life is full of ups and downs like to a rollercoaster ride.

Links Mentioned:

A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/a-parents-best-question-is-it-naughty-or-neurological/

Parenting Kids with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/parenting-kids-with-adhd/

Shedding the Shoulds: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/shedding-the-shoulds/

Navigating Parenthood: Embracing the Coach Approach: https://youtu.be/SbN75MWckn4

This Too Shall Pass: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/this-too-shall-pass/

Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s

Expect the Unexpected: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/set-realistic-expectations/

Sanity School: https://impactparents.securechkout.net/ssp?utm_campaign=imp-purchase&utm_source=show-notes&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=ssp

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Ep 166: Summer Stressors: Realistic Expectations with ADHD & Anxiety

Parenting with Impact

06/12/24 • 22 min

Parenting during the summer presents unique challenges, as parents strive to create a balance between structured activities and unstructured downtime for their children. Elaine and Diane, both experienced in navigating these summertime hurdles, offer insightful perspectives on the matter.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss summer stressors.

Ten Self Care Tips for Parents

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Elaine and Diane advocate for a flexible structure that allows for goal-setting across different types of activities

Elaine and Diane stress the importance of parents prioritizing self-care during the summer months.

Involving children in the summer planning process not only encourages autonomy but also fosters essential life skills like executive function and self-sufficiency.

Related Links:

Flexibility + Structure = Moderation: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/flexibility-structure-moderation-2/

Managing Summer Stressors: A Message to Moms with

ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/managing-summer-stressors-a-message-to-moms-with-adhd/

Planning Summer Days Rhythm and Routine with Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/planning-summer-days-rhythm-and-routine-with-kids

Summer Planning with Complex Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/summer-planning-with-complex-kids

Setting Boundaries for Summer: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/setting-boundaries-for-summer/

Dinner with an ADHD Family: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/dinner-adhd-family/

Anxiety 101: Let Go of Expectations (success story): https://youtu.be/BmUOXqqL8tY

Parenting Is Improv!: https://youtu.be/xjt1rT_Tioo

Travel Planning with Anxious, Inflexible, Neurodiverse Kids: https://youtu.be/JWhIFPvmTNU

Yes, You Can Teach Life Skills Through GAMING: https://youtu.be/RQL8PUcbGvM

Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.: https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU

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Ep 175: Research Results: Porn Exposure in Pre-Teens & Teens

Parenting with Impact

08/14/24 • 30 min

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Supreet Mann about potential psychological and emotional impacts of exposure to pornographic material on children and teens.

How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]
Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.
https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
Dr. Supreet explains it is crucial for parents to engage in open and honest conversations with their teenagers about pornography, consent, and healthy sexual relationships. Creating a safe space for dialogue can help address any misconceptions and provide guidance.
Dr. Supreet and Elaine agree parents and caregivers should seek out educational resources and tools to facilitate discussions about pornography and its impact.
Dr. Supreet and Elaine explain it's essential to understand that curiosity about sexuality and exposure to explicit content does not make teenagers "bad kids." Parents should refrain from shaming or judgment and instead focus on guiding them towards healthy choices and understanding.
Related Links:
Research: CommonSenseMedia.org/Research
Report: www.commonsensemedia.org/research/teens-and-pornography
What To Do if Your Young Child Sees Pornography: https://www.commonsensemedia.org/articles/what-to-do-if-your-young-child-sees-pornography
Talking with Teens and Preteens About Pornography: https://www.commonsensemedia.org/articles/talking-with-teens-and-preteens-about-pornography
Teens Are Watching Pornography, and It's Time to Talk About It: https://www.commonsensemedia.org/kids-action/articles/teens-are-watching-pornography-and-its-time-to-talk-about-it
Full Report: https://www.commonsensemedia.org/sites/default/files/research/report/2022-teens-and-pornography-final-web.pdf
Surgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb

Opinion: Surgeon General: Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb

5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids:

Episode 195: Highlight Reel: Impactful Moments & Guidance from 2024

Parenting with Impact

01/01/25 • 36 min

Have you ever thought about that word: Parenting?

Parenting is actually about us, not about our kids.

Sure, part of the job of parenting is 'child-rearing,' or 'raising kids,' or whatever you want to call it. With one of my kids, I used to say that it is "my privilege to supervise her while she raises herself."

But really -- parenting is not about them. It's about WHO we're BEING while we are doing the work of loving them and guiding them.

Our journey is to be with them on their journey -- and that can get complicated sometimes. Messy. Confusing!

If you are a parent who knows that this journey of parenting is definitely calling on you to learn some stuff -- if you know that your spiritual or emotional journey in life is being challenged -- then tune in to some highlights from this year's podcasts about the Inside Adventure of Parenting

And remember -- however or wherever you are on this fascinating journey of yours -- we're glad that you're on it with us!

Related Links:
Why Focus on Parents? Complex Kids Need Our Guidance: https://youtu.be/me7EkzVWUnA
Parents: Are You Making Your Kids Your Job?: https://youtu.be/nkzQZ0h_5v4
The Parent Paradox: Avoid 'Fix-It Mode' for Better Problem-Solving: https://youtu.be/726RKC7-8-k
When it Feels Like It's All Just Too Much: https://youtu.be/bGCCSYUdIaM
Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s

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Ep 164: Shame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD Wellness

Parenting with Impact

05/29/24 • 26 min

Jamie Blume is the Founder and CEO of Alone Their Way, an organization dedicated to empowering people with ADHD and helping them reach their potential. Jamie is a certified ADHD and Life Coach an IFS and IFIO Coach, an educator at the ADD Coach Academy, a mentor of aspiring coaches, and the Chair of the Education Committee for ADDA.

As a life-long learner, Jamie believes in educating and creating awareness about ADHD to support overall healing, growth, and transformation. In her practice, Jamie supports individuals and families by integrating health, wellness, and nutrition into her coaching and by incorporating the healing properties of nature, mindfulness, and self-compassion into her work.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Jamie Blume about shame and ADHD

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Jamie discusses the importance of understanding how shame contributes to emotional dysregulation in individuals with ADHD.

Jamie emphasizes focusing on the wins, positives, strengths, and talents of younger kids with ADSHD to help build confidence and a better sense of self.

Jamie also explains the importance of staying calm during tough conversations to build self-confidence and resilience.

Elaine stresses the importance of setting intentions before taking action – something that is often overlooked in a community where the focus tends to be on quick fixes. Slowing down and understanding the situation and setting clear intentions can help reduce fear and anxiety.

Related Links:

Along Their Way Website: alongtheirway.com

Three Steps to Learn from Mistakes Without Shame: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/

Take the Shame Out of Making A Mess: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/keep-their-mistakes-to-yourself/

Why and How to Teach Kids to Fail Forward: https://impactparents.com/books/why-and-how-to-teach-kids-to-fail-forward/

Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake a New One: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/failing-forward/

Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_U

Parenting with Presence: Celebrating Neurodiversity in Kids and Adults: https://youtu.be/6SApHN_Jswg

Treatment vs. Support: What Do Complex Families Need?: https://youtu.be/F46WANGkmqU

Shame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD Wellness: https://youtu.be/jIKZtEKBBKk

Connect with Jamie:

Website: https://alongtheirway.com/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/alongtheirway/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/alongtheirway/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-blume-78782653/

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Ep 162: The Alycat Series: Helping Younger Kids Manage Daily Life Challenges

Parenting with Impact

05/15/24 • 23 min

Award-winning author Alysson graduated from the University of Louisiana at Lafayette with a degree in elementary education. She is a certified elementary education teacher and earned a law degree from the Southern University Law Center. After practicing law for six years, she traded in writing trial briefs for writing children’s books. Her books featuring Alycat have been recipients of the NYC Big Book Award, the Mom’s Choice Awards, have been featured in Kirkus Reviews, Publishers Weekly, and People Magazine; and have appeared in the Oscars celebrity swag bag and the Grammy Awards gift bag. Bourque enjoys speaking with children and teachers at schools and libraries and she hopes to inspire others to believe in themselves and their work and to keep pursuing their dreams.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Alysson Foti Bourque about the Alycat book series.

Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their Tracks

In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.

UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/bonus-minimize-meltdowns-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=mm

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Alysson highlights the importance of instilling bravery in children. By celebrating small victories and encouraging problem-solving, kids can develop important tools to navigate life's challenges.

The Alycat series serves as a great example of using storytelling to help children navigate complex emotions and friendships.

Alysson’s books showcase the value of relying on friends during challenging times. By working together and offering support, children can learn to conquer their fears and navigate difficult situations.

Links Mentioned:

Lessons From Celebration: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/lessons-from-celebration/

Learn From Mistakes: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/

Combat Your Anxiety and ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/combat-your-anxiety-and-adhd/

ADHD Kids Believe What Parents Tell Them to Believe: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/kids-believe-what-parents-tell-them-to-believe/

Connection & Compassion: Parenting Children & Teens in Difficult Times with Susan Stiffleman: https://youtu.be/0pZJhzfTeVU

Black Woman Psychotherapist & Coach on ADHD, Resilience & Community with Ingershaye Colzie : https://youtu.be/ky6tjmfoUZc

Alycat Series Website: www.alycatseries.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealycatseries/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thealycatseries

Connect with Alysson:

Website: www.alycatseries.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealycatseries/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thealycatseries

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Episode 192: Navigating Big Emotions with ADHD (Ours & Theirs!)

Parenting with Impact

12/11/24 • 34 min

One of the trickiest aspects of parenting with ADHD is that, very often, the best parenting strategies -- the ones that help our kids the most -- require calm, well-regulated parents. And that’s not always easy to accomplish when parents have their own big emotions. In this conversation, we’ll identify at least 2 of the 10 main differences in an ADHD brain that create more intense negative emotions (in kids and adults), and get guidance on 2 essential components to manage those challenges. We’ll talk about why ADHD brains feel their feelings so intensely, and how we can manage our own emotions even when our kids are pushing every last button.

Marcy Caldwell, Psy.D. is a clinical psychologist, writer, and proud mom of 2 in a family full of ADHD who has been helping adults with ADHD thrive for over twenty years. She is a passionate advocate for adults with neurodiverse brains and is dedicated to helping them create environments that unlock their unique genius. Marcy is the founder of ADDept.org, a blog and digital resource for adults with ADHD, the owner and director of The Center for ADHD, and the creator of Meltdown to Mastery, an innovative digital program that helps adults with ADHD learn to better regulate their emotions.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Marcy Caldwell, Psy.D. about navigating emotions.
Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
Marcy highlights that individuals with ADHD tend to amplify negative stimuli while minimizing positive ones, leading to a cycle of negative emotional feedback and self-perception.
Marcy emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to experience a range of emotions, including big joy, anger, and sadness.
Marcy shares the concept of decreased early sensory encoding in ADHD brains; this phenomenon causes individuals to process negative information more intensely than positive information, leading to heightened negative emotions.

Links Mentioned:
Website: www.thecenterforadhd.com
ADDept Blog: https://www.addept.org/living-with-adult-add-adhd
But I Don't Want To! The Emotions Behind Procrastination: https://youtu.be/7X2hr-iC9hA
Simple, Safe & Connected -- Tips to Navigate Big Emotions: https://youtu.be/-Uy-sTH_Jxg
Takeaway from This Year's International Conference on ADHD: Part 1 Emotional Awareness and Insights about ADHD: https://youtu.be/zNr3C8K4f2k?si=s2twU_DVwovuT_9W
The Emotional Impact of ADHD: https://youtu.be/R6F6eueSdm8
Emotional Labor: Not Just Women's Work: https://youtu.be/MNoS4lrWZec
Parenting Anxious Childhood Emotions: https://youtu.be/ff5hXtdem5Y
Connect with Marcy:
Website: www.addept.org
Website: www.thecenterforadhd.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ADDept.org
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.marcycaldwell
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.marcycaldwell/

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Ep 156: The Surprising Challenges of a Strengths-Based Approach

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04/03/24 • 29 min

The Parenting with Impact podcast presents an intriguing topic, discussing how parents can amplify their children's strengths while also addressing their challenges. Elaine and Diane, two prominent voices in this discussion, share unique but complementary perspectives shaped by their experiences.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about focusing on your child’s strengths.

Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids

Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of celebrating children's strengths and capacities, even during struggles. By focusing on what works and providing genuine acknowledgments, parents can help build self-awareness, resilience, and positive self-perception in their children.

Giving positive feedback to children, even if they may initially struggle to accept or believe it, can have a significant impact on their self-esteem and growth. The importance of persistently offering compliments, even in a subtle manner, is highlighted to help children gradually internalize and believe in the positive affirmations.

Elaine and Diane discuss that recognizing and acknowledging a child's strengths boosts their self-esteem and provides them with the confidence and resilience needed to navigate challenges and succeed in life. By focusing on these strengths and building upon them gradually, parents can help their children develop important skills and overcome obstacles more easily.

Elaine and Diane explain encouraging parents to identify and celebrate unusual strengths in their children can foster a positive self-image. Highlighting the importance of recognizing and praising unique abilities like attention to detail or resilience can help children build confidence and develop a positive self-perception.

Links:

Help Kids Stand in their Power: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lNl-IjoSTiU&feature=youtu.be

Tips for Helping Kids Feel Proud (When They Don’t Like Praise):

https://youtu.be/-z98xnrCZUA?si=EZBNhNUgYGhdQ-0h

Improve Communication with Complex Kids and Teens:

https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/improve-communication-with-complex-kids-and-teens

Help Your ADD/ADHD Child: Change Your Perspective

https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/help-your-addadhd-child-change-your-perspective/

The #1 Best Strategy for Better Communication: Yes, AND...

https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/the-1-best-strategy-for-better-communication-yes-and/

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